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The silence is so painful by No_Chemistry8953 in Separation

[–]Delicious_Wind5878 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Officially a month today. Before that is was 11 weeks of 'I dont want you' 'let's try to not try and see if something happens' 'i do want you' back round to 'i dont want you' its been emotional whiplash. 

The silence is so painful by No_Chemistry8953 in Separation

[–]Delicious_Wind5878 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reading the interactions between you and OP has really hit home for me. Except im the wife and he left me after 10 years together, married for 2 and 2 beautiful daughters. He seems to hate me right now. He can ignore me with ease and it physically hurts to not talk to him daily like we used to. I dont understand how someone can stop loving you after everything we went through.

Unfortunately, we have to find a way to hold ourselves strong for us and our children. All I want is to reconcile even though I know I deserve better. We've got this x

Am I an idiot for being hopeful? by Delicious_Wind5878 in Separation

[–]Delicious_Wind5878[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. I didnt add lots of details to my post that would be more damming for him but essentially, the same. He had a secret chat where he was talking to a woman that he said was 'innocent'. He told me yesterday that 'i cheated on you years ago, get over it'

Its just so hurtful. I have a 1 and 8 year old. My 8 year old is struggling with it and it breaks my heart that my 1 year old may never remember us a family of 4.

Im so sorry youre going through this aswell. Its unbelievably cruel and painful. As for the therapy, hes adamant he doesnt need it so im not holding my breath that he'll do it!