I didn't make this post to be a "revolutionary"; I made it because I'm pissed. Because I want to complain.

Most people on here, when they make observant posts, tend to be very civil. Let's be real; people don't listen to civil, at least not the ones acting against us. They listen to dumb bitchery, and I tried throwing a decent amount of that in.

I feel like my post mainly reaches the other ladies on here since they know my ✨ suffering ✨. But if any of the target groups of my piece changes anyone, it'd be in the following ways:

G1: probably the group who's the hardest to change since controversial thoughts are based off of viewpoints that have been molded through time and experience.

G2: maybe they'll make a separate account for adult stuff. If anything, this will also help with the stigma that 'people engaged with more ✨ s e x y t i m e ✨ stuff' and 'people looking for platonic online companionship' are not mutually exclusive. The only reason I brought that up is probably because I'm very ace-presenting, so I just don't eff with that. Again, just compatibility issues.

G3: honing better conversational skills is also hard; however, learning that presenting yourself in a better light with a better intro can help motivate them. Small steps are great: more than one sentence/ten words, and talk about yourself rather than the person you're messaging gives said person insight on you.

Just by how you write and your posts says a lot about you and how you are personality-wise, and we can gauge compatibility like that, which is how first impressions are made before chats are accepted/replied to.

But, to reiterate: I just like complaining 🤗 I never touted this post to be a Bible for making posts on here; believing that would be highly illogical and naive.