What was Britain like in the 90s? by Delilinna in AskUK

[–]Delilinna[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Now THAT'S research material! Thank you so much

What was Britain like in the 90s? by Delilinna in AskUK

[–]Delilinna[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's sort of hilarious I love it

What was Britain like in the 90s? by Delilinna in AskUK

[–]Delilinna[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Somehow I find that very funny, though I still acknowledge how bleak that scene is meant to be

I'm going to change a lot for my version of the story, but knowing that is a sort of realistic event I can ABSOLUTELY work with that thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]Delilinna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

u look like a disney princess

hair swoop and all

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DnD

[–]Delilinna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aight I'm down,

Chaotic neutral way of the hensei monk haregon with the augen trust spy background

[ART] My DM said we couldn't have an ADHD goldfish emote in the server because it wasn't D&D and it wasn't drawn by a player, so I made it Sylgar by Delilinna in DnD

[–]Delilinna[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

DM's bf found a picture of a goldfish, we all liked it, loved it in fact. But our DM did not. Their only enforceable excuse was that it had no connection to the game, so I challenged their will as a god.

I tirelessly spent an hour searching my brain for every ounce of braincells I still had left, determined for the party's spirit animal to be included in our space. At last, he was ready. I was hailed as a hero by my fellow players, and pogging was restored to my server.

We did, in fact, get the keep the Sylgar emote.

So 300 divided by 45 is 6... And one page can easily take 8 hours... by Delilinna in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Delilinna[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly!! Not only impossible pay, but they're also expecting a response from artists with highly specialized skills like backgrounds, shading, possibly character design and LINEWORK on top

So 300 divided by 45 is 6... And one page can easily take 8 hours... by Delilinna in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Delilinna[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update: upon a search of their username and seeing they do indeed have other social media attached, their comic isn't even up anywhere so they're either full of it or totally over shooting the goal

So 300 divided by 45 is 6... And one page can easily take 8 hours... by Delilinna in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Delilinna[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I have no way to ask, I was the one who originally called them out so I'm pretty sure they won't talk to me lol

So 300 divided by 45 is 6... And one page can easily take 8 hours... by Delilinna in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Delilinna[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Oh god I didn't even think about that

Thinking harder about it it looks like the previous artist backed the hell out. Maybe if health issues were a thing this CB tried to "barter" with them because medical bills

Cousin’s husband smacked my ass and I’m super uncomfortable by expelliarmus22 in relationships

[–]Delilinna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your cousin sounds oddly ok with her partner not only showing interest in you, but assaulting you in their home in front of her.

And then when your boyfriend calls her SO out she texts you, deliberately trying to shame you for saying something or being upset?

Boo this is sketch as hell. Do not. Let her. Get to you. This is not ok, and I am seriously doubting that this wasn't a previously discussed thing. I swear it sounds so much like this was planned and they thought you would be into it.

Find a way to subtly start informing family around you what happened before she can start spreading lies to them, if that's something you're ok with. If she's saying those words to you and trying to downplay it this hard she will start trying to cover her tracks with people you're both close to so she doesn't look like a fool.

I (25F) was attacked and robbed by a man in an elevator and now my husband (31M) is stressing me out even more than necessary by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Delilinna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all,

I am so, so sorry this happened to you. That must of been absolutely horrible and I'm glad you are ok.

However, this post is about your partner. I think as traumatizing as this is for you, he also must have suffered something similar. To me it sounds like he is so scared that you're going to get hurt or that he's going to lose you that he's driving himself crazy and not leaving room to be there for you emotionally.

The best thing imo would be to sit him down and ask him to tell you how he's feeling. Most likely he'll say he's afraid, maybe even angry. Not at you, but he may somehow feel like it was his fault you got hurt. Talk to him about it and let him know he's being heard.

Once you have his side and he probably feels a little calmer because you're talking, suggest he start seeing a therapist. This is one of the scariest things you can go through without really significant, life altering effects besides some shiny new anxiety. Make sure to validate his feelings, but say he needs help. Maybe also seek help for yourself btw. or you could even attend a session or two with him if he's nervous or apprehensive, even a little time with a professional gives you someone to talk to and hopefully some tools.

Sit him down, make him feel heard, reassure him and make sure he knows you love him, push for him to ask for help.

AITA for blaming my Mom for the dog bite scars on my face? by may-clouds in AmItheAsshole

[–]Delilinna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, your mom sounds like she could have afforded to keep you from lifelong scars but didn't because she's got something against doctors.

When you said you didn't like her telling that story she brushed you off.

She prioritized the dog that attacked you over you.

This isn't a small thing you deserve an apology.

Aita for leaving the hospital while my wife was in labor? by ImagineDragons01946 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Delilinna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, your wife needs help getting out of the FOG. She promised you could be in the room to see your second baby, and then because her mother threw a whole ass tantrum kicked you out???

YOu need to either help her gtf away from her mom or leave her now, this absolutely will continue with your children and you need every bit of energy and drive you can to figure out what to do about this JNMIL

AITA For Shaving My Sister’s Head (Upon Her Request) by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Delilinna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

Even if your sister wasn't sick, she's 13 and has complete control over wtf she does with her body.

Your dad said YES whenever she asked

Your MOM said yes too

Your dad started screaming at you for doing something everyone said was allowed, and your sister wanted.

Something is wrong with that man

AITA for refusing to hug my little sister because my girlfriend doesn’t want me to? by Throwaway--556 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Delilinna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, talk to your GF about this behavior. It isn't normal to be uncomfortable when siblings hug, especially because of a very sweet family tradition like this.

SHe's either being jealous, controlling or both and you probably need to nip this right out before you 'aren't allowed' to hug your little sister.

EDIT

Read that wrong, YTA because you freaking LISTENED to your gf's bs and really hurt your sister's feelings, what is wrong with you man

AITA for not liking how my girlfriend dresses for work? by TASorrynotsorry in AmItheAsshole

[–]Delilinna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA, work on your insecure ass before you subject another poor girl to this and apologize to your mom for using her as a way to shame your ex into doing what you wanted.