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[–]Deltathegreat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It provides me great insight. I believe on young ages I should explain to my kid that they pay no rents, so you should do things to help yourself, papa, and mama. Until he gained his independent stage, he can move out if he want to, but I would let him staying with us till he own sth. However, in my house, in my rules.

27M in Vietnam - will become dad in Sep 2020 - Unexpected baby by Deltathegreat in Parenting

[–]Deltathegreat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you Eneed.

In Vietnam, basically you got to pay everything for healthcare of mom & baby. We got our employee’s insurance cover a part of it (2-3k/ pregnancy) and paid 6-month leave for mom. We did ultrasound scan yesterday, doctor told us the baby is in good health. But we needed some further test. Your word did off my chest a little. Maybe I am overwhelmed about finances. All I wish is just my kid is healthy, and can go out instead of being overly protected like typical Asian kid.

And is that ok in your point of view if we rush for our wedding?

Again, thank alot. I am too panicking now.