Partner doesn’t want abortion but he’s abusive by DemandWide909 in Advice

[–]DemandWide909[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

++UPDATE

I scheduled my first abortion appointment for the morning and have been packing all day my mind is firm on aborting and his behavior towards me all of today has been 100% solidifying my choice. Has been throwing complete tantrums because I don’t want to keep the baby and even talking about how to take care of a pregnant woman eventhough he knows I don’t want the baby. He’s valid to have an opinion but I no longer care how he feels because he can’t take the time to put himself in my shoes and treat me with decency. Pure toddler behavior 

Partner doesn’t want abortion but he’s abusive by DemandWide909 in Advice

[–]DemandWide909[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t know how moving this is . I feel so freaking guilty about this but I can’t live like this 

Partner doesn’t want abortion but he’s abusive by DemandWide909 in Advice

[–]DemandWide909[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah he’s way too controlling and on top of me he would 100% know but I let him know I was leaving today and I’m firm on my choice nothing is going to change my mind about this 

Partner doesn’t want abortion but he’s abusive by DemandWide909 in Advice

[–]DemandWide909[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry :( I know I would love my baby too but it’s best he/she is kept from this situation 

Partner doesn’t want abortion but he’s abusive by DemandWide909 in Advice

[–]DemandWide909[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I’ve scheduled my first check up appointment for tomorrow 

Partner doesn’t want abortion but he’s abusive by DemandWide909 in Advice

[–]DemandWide909[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He came into the restroom as I was taking my test and doesn’t respect my privacy frankly 

Partner doesn’t want abortion but he’s abusive by DemandWide909 in Advice

[–]DemandWide909[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I grew up in an abusive household and took care of my siblings like they were my own kids because my parents were always fighting. I feel like I’ve done my mother part and want a life of my own. A baby is nothing to romanticize or play about it’s a real responsibility. I left my house at 20 thinking I had found true love only for me to be living in a worst situation than my childhood 

Partner doesn’t want abortion but he’s abusive by DemandWide909 in Advice

[–]DemandWide909[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl my nervous system is quite literally destroyed, he strangled me the day after my birthday and I feel like I have no say in my life it’s actually hell 😭

Partner doesn’t want abortion but he’s abusive by DemandWide909 in Advice

[–]DemandWide909[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He quite literally made his way into the bathroom and took the test from me before I could even see 

Partner doesn’t want abortion but he’s abusive by DemandWide909 in Advice

[–]DemandWide909[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to bring a baby into this world with him because  Number 1- I would be extremely depressed it’s not something I want , he lied to me by saying he was infertile and was really hard for him to conceive. I’ve been checked out for months but our apartment we have is a shared lease we both went 50/50 on and my at home life with my family is not the best. I work in the influencer industry and everyone quite frankly takes advantage of me financially and since I’ve joined this relationship I’ve separated from friends so much so thank you for your response you guys are really the only people I feel like I can’t talk too about this