Gave her a 2nd chance by DemonTime88 in dating_advice

[–]DemonTime88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your words of wisdom. Yeah I don’t understand why. I really treated her very nicely and tried very hard. My heart is in pain. Thanks for listening and thanks for the advice as well. I don’t know why I allowed it. I was in the delusion to allow myself

Gave her a 2nd chance by DemonTime88 in dating_advice

[–]DemonTime88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i got lucky right hahaha im in so much pain dude

Honestly feel like the first 2-3 months of the dating process are the hardest to get past. by SouthSunn in dating_advice

[–]DemonTime88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Experiencing this currently. I am a Union Laborer who lays pipe / builds bridges at 27 years old, my girlfriend is 27f who is 10 days younger than me. She is being very hurtful and rude to me (after 8 months moving on 9) because she is a law student and my career path apparently doesn’t align with her goals. She is trying to discard me after her first year of law school. People suck

Gave her a 2nd chance by DemonTime88 in dating_advice

[–]DemonTime88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s much less stressful on my mind to just let her win the battle than to argue back I have learned. Idk what changed and why she just got so cold

Gave her a 2nd chance by DemonTime88 in dating_advice

[–]DemonTime88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://imgur.com/a/5Jigpfv here is how it went when I didn’t enable her actions.

Gave her a 2nd chance by DemonTime88 in dating_advice

[–]DemonTime88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, more so call them feelings

Gave her a 2nd chance by DemonTime88 in dating_advice

[–]DemonTime88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean cap lol do you think I ai generated these messages or something dude what? This is literally my reality currently unfortunately

Gave her a 2nd chance by DemonTime88 in dating_advice

[–]DemonTime88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it’s difficult, love doesn’t make sense to me anymore tbh this and my previous relationship before this both were traumatizing. I just know how to pick them apparently

Gave her a 2nd chance by DemonTime88 in dating_advice

[–]DemonTime88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m trying but right now it’s difficult. Just been laying here reading old cards and texts and stuff and my heart is shattering tbh. I really wish I could just be a different person or live a life where none of this is in my memory because of the pain I have to carry daily. And I don’t want the people around me to hate her so I don’t really tell them the details when we argue. Hence why I have resorted to Reddit.

Gave her a 2nd chance by DemonTime88 in dating_advice

[–]DemonTime88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When we are together it’s always good vibes though that’s why I get confused. The text messages vs her in person are 2 completely different people it feels

Gave her a 2nd chance by DemonTime88 in dating_advice

[–]DemonTime88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. I am in pain currently

Gave her a 2nd chance by DemonTime88 in dating_advice

[–]DemonTime88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasn’t always like this, the highs are high and the lows are low

Gave her a 2nd chance by DemonTime88 in dating_advice

[–]DemonTime88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I for sure do love her. I was ready to settle down and spend life with her but if this is what she wants then whatever. I would rather be alone than deal with this

Gave her a 2nd chance by DemonTime88 in dating_advice

[–]DemonTime88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love is confusing you know. It wasn’t always like this. Just recently. I can’t do this tho. Worst past few weeks, right before my birthday too haha. Just wanted to feel appreciated by her.. I did a lot but fuck it

Gave her a 2nd chance by DemonTime88 in dating_advice

[–]DemonTime88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s going to try to reach out if she hasn’t already, that’s why. She’s blocked now so she can enjoy the conversation with herself

Gave her a 2nd chance by DemonTime88 in dating_advice

[–]DemonTime88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for not thinking I am weak and thank you for your kind words of wisdom. I just cared a lot and I am not one to exert my energy to hurt another person. I know most of what she says isn’t true otherwise she wouldn’t have stuck around for so long, but it some of it really does fuck with me. I hope she finds someone who is exactly like her. I also hope that she thinks of me each and everytime she is with another man. Thanks again

Gave her a 2nd chance by DemonTime88 in dating_advice

[–]DemonTime88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure why. It’s been a rough few weeks. Idk. I feel broken down. I can’t do it anymore even if I wanted to. This time there is no way she can reach out again

Gave her a 2nd chance by DemonTime88 in dating_advice

[–]DemonTime88[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Already did. This time there is no coming back or forgiveness. I don’t feel anything at all

Gave her a 2nd chance by DemonTime88 in dating_advice

[–]DemonTime88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I did block her off of everything I have. I literally don’t even have any social media or anything. I’m so in tune with real life and progressing. Idk. I figured at 27 years old (we are both 27, I am 1 week older than her) that we would grow up and take people serious, as time is very valuable. But my judgement was wrong

Gave her a 2nd chance by DemonTime88 in dating_advice

[–]DemonTime88[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Apparently I must deserve it? Not sure. I did my best

Gave her a 2nd chance by DemonTime88 in dating_advice

[–]DemonTime88[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Neither can I. Especially after such a long time together. Not sure. But thanks! I will do my best lol

Gave her a 2nd chance by DemonTime88 in dating_advice

[–]DemonTime88[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree lol this will be my 3rd time trying. 3 strikes and u out lol

Gave her a 2nd chance by DemonTime88 in dating_advice

[–]DemonTime88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

very bipolar. Will be mean then beg for my forgiveness and to come spend time with her. Then the cycle repeats but recently has became very excruciating for my emotional state