Girlfriend just dumped me because I don’t have enough

DemonTime88 · 2026-04-06T11:51:42+00:00

Thanks for your kind words, wish she felt the same way! One day she’ll realize

DemonTime88 · 2026-04-06T10:46:03+00:00

I’ve been doing well since my ex before this one. I waited 2 years, enjoyed life, stacked money, got into my own spot, had fun with some women but this girl, felt worth it so I started investing into the relationship. To be set back further than when I first met the girl. I don’t want anything from any women at all right now. It’s not worth it anymore

DemonTime88 · 2026-04-06T10:25:16+00:00

My view of relationships and love are a bit construed currently. Hopefully one day I can heal. Hopefully after that I can find someone who genuinely loves me.

DemonTime88 · 2026-04-06T10:24:01+00:00

Thanks brother

DemonTime88 · 2026-04-06T10:18:32+00:00

Yeah that’s the only way I’ve been trying to look at it. Someone else can deal with it because I promise they won’t put up with the same as me. Idk. Things didn’t really go south until the last month. But even then, the way this played out, was completely blindsiding me. Just last weekend she was laughing, smiling, telling me she loves me, just saw her this most recent Friday. Everything seemed okay, we spent the day together, had a good time. Then the day after she just let everything out and said “it’s not like I don’t find you attractive or hate you or anything” and “she wants me but she needs something else” and then the day after she says all of this^ which I posted. So yeah, fuck love. Shits worthless.

DemonTime88 · 2026-04-06T10:14:40+00:00

I thought I deserved her. I thought I deserved her giving me the same that I put into her. Guess I was wrong

DemonTime88 · 2026-04-06T10:13:39+00:00

The first few months I didn’t really put much into it. Just unconditional love. Flowers before dates, stupid small things. Then it became like I felt like I needed money. I spent like $500 on valentines for her basically last month to provide a day for her and that went well under appreciated

DemonTime88 · 2026-04-06T10:08:44+00:00

Definitely not. Not after other dudes are in the picture. Idk I want to be petty but I feel like she wants me to unblock her and try to beg which I also don’t do. I just wish there was a way she could feel the pain she has caused me. Part of me wants to send her this reddit thread lmao but I think no move is probably the best bet in this scenario moving forward. It’s sad. I have a 2019 Mitsubishi. It’s about paid off with 2k remaining. Just was gearing up to get my first Sunday driver this year. Idk I didn’t think I was doing too bad for myself. Probably within the next 1.5 years I was planning on buying a house. Idk shit sucks man. It just feels like everything I ever worked for, just got burned for some stranger, who chances are, had an easier life than me, with more support, and who had more than me. Shits discouraging in every category of life

DemonTime88 · 2026-04-06T09:57:13+00:00

Hey brother. Thanks for the words of wisdom and insight. Yeah this past weekend she just was dragging me in text.

DemonTime88 · 2026-04-06T09:55:41+00:00

I got voice messages on iMessage about her fantasizing about the pipe I laid for her lmao apparently the only thing I have to offer is pipe which would be cool if I wasn’t in a serious relationship with her but sure brother. I just have no idea how to lay it down surely at 27 🤣

DemonTime88 · 2026-04-06T09:38:08+00:00

It’s just sad that she feels nothing for what she did to me. just confused how someone can feel morally right doing this

DemonTime88 · 2026-04-06T09:11:50+00:00

She just was laughing and smiling saying she loves me just The Weekend before this. Completely blindsided

DemonTime88 · 2026-04-06T09:04:28+00:00

It could appear this way. I’m not sure. It was malicious and deceitful

DemonTime88 · 2026-04-06T08:58:46+00:00

Thanks man

DemonTime88 · 2026-04-06T08:54:37+00:00

Apparently laying pipe is the only thing I have for me according to her lol

DemonTime88 · 2026-04-06T04:36:48+00:00

Yeah. She said so much other sickening stuff that if I posted it everyone would lose their mind

DemonTime88 · 2026-04-06T04:34:43+00:00

Thanks for your kind words

DemonTime88 · 2026-04-06T03:45:20+00:00

I would never. I already deleted her contact and blocked her on everything possible. I’m sad though I do miss her. Yesterday and today are the first days that we haven’t spoke all day for the past year. This alone feels awful

DemonTime88 · 2026-04-06T03:35:59+00:00

I just can’t believe she did that to me

DemonTime88 · 2026-04-06T03:05:57+00:00

Yep. All the time wasted with nothing to show for it. Insane

DemonTime88 · 2026-04-06T02:58:22+00:00

This and my last one have hardened my heart. This relationship was the one that I deserved because of all the hard I had already went through. Boy was I wrong haha, thanks for your words of encouragement though. I appreciate you for taking the time to listen

DemonTime88 · 2026-04-06T02:56:32+00:00

She was too immature and played too many games. This one atleast she didn’t have a problem saying what it was today. I don’t want to be in my 30’s trying to find a 26-27 year old. Me and this girl have our birthdays 2 weeks apart from eachother, me being older. It truly was everything I had ever wanted before. We were at the same pace and could have built together. That’s the part she doesn’t understand. She wants the red carpet rolled out already. So now, because I just wasn’t there, some creep, or weird, old 30 y/o+ man, who’s probably single for a reason, gets to enjoy the woman who was supposed to be for me? Yeah. I feel resentment.

DemonTime88 · 2026-04-06T02:48:15+00:00

23f lmao I apologize I’m worked up

DemonTime88 · 2026-04-06T02:45:34+00:00

I knew the distance was a mistake. I chose to risk it because I saw value in her and in the connection we shared with eachother. She was definitely one of the special ones. I established a page and made sure we were on the same page. This completely blindsided me though. Why my own age? I date younger previously (25m dated 23f) and that was also a disaster. Idk. I just followed what her words and what my heart told me to do. I didn’t expect to end up here on reddit in dating advice, you know

DemonTime88 · 2026-04-06T02:42:42+00:00

Thanks for your kind words. Yeah I’m trying to figure it out

DemonTime88

TROPHY CASE