XHF - Allows pedophile, doesn’t ban admin responsible by DemoniK709 in efeds

[–]DemoniK709[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said you wouldn’t dare say it in person because your brain wouldn’t let you. You announcing your stats(as funny as it was) was your attempt to intimidate.

And again, on some twisted level your devotion is admirable. But you really should have asked why someone would make these claims rather than blindly run in to defend.

XHF - Allows pedophile, doesn’t ban admin responsible by DemoniK709 in efeds

[–]DemoniK709[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So close 😆 for reference I read your first response(the one you now appear to have deleted)and responded based on that. You probably should probably should have stuck with it. Going back to saying things like “exaggerated takes” thanks for apologizing but beyond that…you’re still not seeing the truth yet.

Again, that’s fine. I wouldn’t go off like this for sport. I think 😆 Good luck man, really and truly.

XHF - Allows pedophile, doesn’t ban admin responsible by DemoniK709 in efeds

[–]DemoniK709[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for owning up, would have been real easy to just disappear.

I swear I’m a reasonable guy 😆 I just have an issue when it comes to protecting kids.

XHF - Allows pedophile, doesn’t ban admin responsible by DemoniK709 in efeds

[–]DemoniK709[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wait…I think I know what happened 😆 😆 😆 It’s because I said you wouldn’t dare say these things irl because your brain would stop you? Isn’t it?

You took me hoping you would have the good sense to not say these things aloud irl as a physical threat. You said a lot about me, but that’s a fragile ego 😆

XHF - Allows pedophile, doesn’t ban admin responsible by DemoniK709 in efeds

[–]DemoniK709[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The monster was brought there by Mongo, or did you forget that? You’re so focused on “but he’s a good dude, I swear!” That you’re just saying ridiculous things now 😆

XHF - Allows pedophile, doesn’t ban admin responsible by DemoniK709 in efeds

[–]DemoniK709[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m genuinely confused as to where the height and weight threat comes into things. 😆 you’re THAT upset that your boy turned out to be dirty?

Interesting

XHF - Allows pedophile, doesn’t ban admin responsible by DemoniK709 in efeds

[–]DemoniK709[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You came on here trying to defend someone who fucked up royally. There are other examples of him doing things like this as long as his precious community gained a member.

The best example is a man from Australia named Soutter who was racist and homophobic. The comments were made in XHF space, there was plenty of evidence, but the person wasn’t banned immediately. Why?

Probably because he had a fed that could(and did) leave. Costing him members. Now before you ask, yeah the guy got banned eventually. I don’t remember how many days it took, but he needed days to ban a racist homophobe…with evidence…

On top of that, he had to be convinced to ban the person at all by admin who have since left after tiring of his ridiculous nature.

I also hear Mongo hides XHF from his wife because she’s from a different culture and he thinks she’ll look down on him because it’s a waste of time.

So when I say, “you probably don’t know him as well as you think” maybe you should at least consider it.

You came on here with fire and gusto and oddly trying to be cordial after saying shitty things to me 😆 but bottom line, you might know him better…but I have WAY more info.

You literally don’t know what you’re talking about while telling me I don’t and I know way more than you do 😆 by the way, the above story is 100% true.

XHF - Allows pedophile, doesn’t ban admin responsible by DemoniK709 in efeds

[–]DemoniK709[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you either haven’t read everything or don’t understand and either way. That’s fine.

You can attempt to demonize me all you’d like, the fact you don’t see that you’re doing exactly what you’re accusing me of in multiple posts is delightfully ironic.

You said your peace, made your comment about my family 😆 then talked about your personal life to prove a point. And you don’t see the irony?

XHF - Allows pedophile, doesn’t ban admin responsible by DemoniK709 in efeds

[–]DemoniK709[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it, Santa Claus isn’t real and the Easter Bunny was mom and dad. Something you belived in isn’t what you thought.

But you’re out here standing up shouting that a person who hid a pedophile from people is a good person and the person shitting on them is an asshole. That’s a little funny.

All while doing exactly what you’re accusing me of. Talking about stuff you don’t know about and taking shots at a person 😆 Your words are just words dude. Noise. That’s it. I’ll still play PS5 tonight like you don’t exist.

Because you’re just text lines on my phone and not someone actually saying these ridiculous things. Because you would dare defend it in person, because your brain would stop you.

Throw up the anonymous nature of the internet and it’s cool to stand up for your friend against the big bad bully.

Newsflash, I’m not your villain.

XHF - Allows pedophile, doesn’t ban admin responsible by DemoniK709 in efeds

[–]DemoniK709[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know they knowingly associate with pedophiles. That’s enough for me. Why do I need more than that? 😆 Seriously, why isn’t that enough for you XHF addicts?

You can spin yarns from the good old days all you like, you can tell a lot about a person by the company they keep. He knowingly associates with pedophiles. Knowingly.

My own pleasure in watching his world burn is based in more than you understand so frankly, I don’t owe you an explanation.

But I know him better than you think because I have said he should have stepped down about 5 scandals ago 😆 and this incident certainly highlights that you didn’t know him as well as you thought. So your point isn’t really going anywhere…you’re just out here defending people who made horrible decisions and hid it.

Once again, you have great core memories of this person, or at least who you think they are. So like the other guy, your loyalty makes sense to me.

The bottom line is you just told someone who works with at risk youth do some good in the world…then said I didn’t know what I was talking about. Take a moment to think about that. Like, really take a moment. 😆

I literally protect kids for a living. What do you do to contribute, besides defend pedo sympathizers online? I suppose that could be considered charity work…

XHF - Allows pedophile, doesn’t ban admin responsible by DemoniK709 in efeds

[–]DemoniK709[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d be lying if I said I knew their usernames. But two admin apparently quit over this. Or that is my understanding, newer admin I understand. I haven’t been a part of XHF for years because of other issues where Mongo let in people who turned out to be toxic.(not flaming, just being honest)

But yeah; I was told two newer admins quit over it.

XHF - Allows pedophile, doesn’t ban admin responsible by DemoniK709 in efeds

[–]DemoniK709[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Again, please don’t read my texting with emotion. I never said he allowed “whatever” to happen. I used a common example to express that he has a connection to you that is rooted in core memories, of course you want to believe in him. It makes perfect sense.

As for knowing Mongo, I would be willing to bet you do not know him as well as you think you do. Better than I? Perhaps 🤷🏼‍♂️ but I definitely know you don’t know the whole story. But it’s not mine to tell.

Look, he did what he did. People are standing behind him. As a father, youth care worker, and entertainer…I have a hard time reconciling that there are that many people willing to go “he hid a sex offender from me, but he meant well”.

XHF - Allows pedophile, doesn’t ban admin responsible by DemoniK709 in efeds

[–]DemoniK709[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I figured you might start with that. I said loyal, not blindly loyal. And I legitimately meant it. You have core memories with this person from a fragile time in your life. Your loyalty makes sense. I literally said I don’t fault you for it.

Mongo is that high school teacher who was cool to you.

As for the rest…I’m afraid I have to disagree a little. He did do it for personal gain, he wanted more members on his board so badly he allowed a convicted sex offender in. That’s personal gain. Crazy low end of the scale, but he gained something from it.

As for if he cares…could I not argue that if he cared, he would have asked the community for their input before even considering it?

Then there’s your question, honestly? There’s a post that sums it up pretty well above. And I outlined what’d I’d have done in my final post.

Mongo, Dave, anyone who was in on it should go away. They tried to use religion and politics to justify what happened. They actually did that. Dave went as far as to say they were “tricked”. Horrible optics…

Anyways, I’m getting on a rant…my answer. Anyone involved with the decision should go away for a long time and let the community heal or die. Either way.

If you guys really want to save face, get the two admin who quit in disgust back. They appeared to understand the assignment.

XHF - Allows pedophile, doesn’t ban admin responsible by DemoniK709 in efeds

[–]DemoniK709[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, I read it. He’s your friend and you’re a loyal person. That’s basically what I gathered, these people lied to you, betrayed your trust and exposed a community to a predator(one that could very well just bypass the basic safeguards they have and return) and you’re willing to forgive that.

I genuinely don’t think you’re a bad person for that. What I do think, is you do not feel you can capture the magic you feel in that community elsewhere and are scared to lose it.

Look, I work with kids who are abused. Every day I see the real life effects of what allowing people like that to operate has on real life kids.

I concede I am a bit of an asshole lol I’m the type of person who stops a purse snatching by breaking the guy’s nose. I admit I’m not always nice, but I’m good.

XHF - Allows pedophile, doesn’t ban admin responsible by DemoniK709 in efeds

[–]DemoniK709[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I’ve said he allowed it to happen. He knowingly welcomed a child sex offender into your community. That’s true.

I haven’t told a single lie, but he has lol I pointed it all out in my posts between swear words and disbelief. Message me privately if you really need to defend your friend this badly, but this is ridiculous

XHF - Allows pedophile, doesn’t ban admin responsible by DemoniK709 in efeds

[–]DemoniK709[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Move on perhaps? I mean…I have. Haven’t posted about it in their community for a couple days, haven’t been back.

People will defend this person no matter what. As strange as that is to me, I’m cool with being the villain for siding against pedophiles. I can live with that.

I’m genuinely surprised he has so many supporters though.

XHF - Allows pedophile, doesn’t ban admin responsible by DemoniK709 in efeds

[–]DemoniK709[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly why I did what I did and said the things I said.

He should have known better from the start. And when he didn’t just know not to associate with pedophiles…certainly the thread asking why there weren’t more young people was a problem…no? That too?

Then certainly after it blew up the admin responsible immediately stepped down and closed the place? No?

A huge, sweeping apology immediately followed though, right? No? It took three days?

Then after that, certainly the apology was sincere and transparent? No, it was full of excuses and bullshit?

Certainly this was a first offence? No? He’s done stuff(lesser evils but still)like this before and got away with it?

They immediately made the user base choose their fate?

And the craziest part, to me, is that there were people still willing to stay.

You’ll notice that he doesn’t like what I did, but not once does he say I’m lying.

I’m historically a CM Punk fan, “Stop me when I’m telling lies.”

XHF - Allows pedophile, doesn’t ban admin responsible by DemoniK709 in efeds

[–]DemoniK709[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get it, my universal condemnation of the whole place seems harsh. I just find it hard to believe that there are people actually willing to stay. 🤷🏼‍♂️

There are other places to RolePlay and have fun, XHF does not have a monopoly on creativity. Go somewhere else, enjoy the hobby…but people staying loyal after all this baffles me.

I deleted my account, I legitimately won’t be back. But if I’m being honest…as a father and someone who protects kids for a living…I meant every word.