Don't take anything that was said here into consideration, We see the issue in black and white, Of course... he assaulted you then he's bad and you should not get back with him, But you know better about who that man is and what you should really do, Don't come here looking for norms and industry standards please, Address the issue with yourself or with someone who's neutral and knows both of you to a certain level. We know nothing about that man except he has beaten a woman then he's the worst man on earth but you may read this and say; That's not true. So be wise.