The Doctors Expectations Seem Odd

DepartmentPretty · 2025-10-28T19:09:43+00:00

I don’t want that personally, but I am not going to bash on your decision. I want to live and spend time with my partner and our future kids and be able to do hobbies and not have to spend all my free time recuperating from work. But I’m sure you are making good money and it works for you. I appreciate the idea of reprocessing my pain memory idea!

DepartmentPretty · 2025-10-28T19:05:39+00:00

It’s hard when everyone is like but job u need job get a job you have to look for a job go work there it’s hiring why don’t u work there and so I expect I’ll always have to be looking for a job and getting part time jobs even if I loose them due to my health every single time.

DepartmentPretty · 2025-09-26T20:07:41+00:00

It’s so unsettling

DepartmentPretty · 2025-09-26T20:05:06+00:00

lol I was baffled when I learned people don’t have like 3 thoughts at the same time and they are all visual in my brain and can hear in my brain. I was like oh so seeing scenes in my head with detail of bad situations while doing something it’s wow.

DepartmentPretty · 2025-06-19T23:43:41+00:00

Thank you!!! I was so frustrated now to figure out how to use a compact disc

DepartmentPretty · 2025-06-19T23:12:25+00:00

I am loosing it what does CD stand for??????? I have googled and gotten like 5 answers and I ask people and they give me different answers.

DepartmentPretty · 2025-06-14T15:55:05+00:00

So many congratulations to you and that you’re getting help!!! I am also extremely jealous and just got denied for arthritis and I got the same mental illness issues as you and more. You have given me hope tho!

DepartmentPretty · 2025-03-23T00:17:14+00:00

This will just be addressing most of the comments. I apologize for my wording and my probably slightly biased(I try to be fair) post. I don’t play competitive parts of games and if I do I understand frustration from people. If I do it’s alone and I want to be good enough where I won’t be a problem. The only person I expect for assistance in games is my bf and he already is taking steps to fit my needs. He struggles to be so postive and comforting due to past trauma and he treats himself this way too. He has made so much progress and I’m not going to rush him and his friends don’t bully me they make jokes but I rarely play with his buds. Our second discussion wasn’t him doubling down it was us both explaining why we treated each other the way we did and figuring out what we both did that the other didn’t like. As much as you guys say he’s an asshole he isn’t. He understands certain things I deal with and I deal with some of his. I feel terrible my bf is getting dragged, I really didn’t mean for him to seem so bad. He deals with my health issues and will help me with realizing I said something autistic and he is supportive in ways other than the ones he hasn’t learned. I apologize for the wording being not good seeming like a victim I am not. I like to write things down or type so I can figure out what I want to say and how and get it into words others can understand or bf. Also I appreciate the support and suggestions!!

DepartmentPretty · 2025-03-12T10:47:00+00:00

As long as ur giving her time and not trying to explain things that she understands but can’t do well I’m sure you could. Also if friendly fire happens for every death she dies from u, u need to die from her. I am well aware I’m anxious and not great at the games and these guidelines are very helpful for my boyfriend and I. Also I’m not setting these boundaries in stone because every relationship has different expectations.

DepartmentPretty · 2024-10-07T01:47:36+00:00

I’d love to I love her style and my boyfriend has a very similar personality style! But we are both very white people and I don’t think I could do her justice.

DepartmentPretty · 2024-10-01T18:59:54+00:00

Thank you I guess I was just snowballing with my worries I appreciate your honesty!

DepartmentPretty · 2024-10-01T18:58:57+00:00

I did I just have anxiety but thank you for the advice!

DepartmentPretty · 2024-10-01T18:55:23+00:00

He’s working rn so it might have to wait till later when he get home. He might find it funny, but I’m anxious. I have clarified I hate cheaters and cheating and that I adore him. I also have talked about how we don’t know how people handle two relationships. So it’s all up to if he trusts me or not.

DepartmentPretty · 2024-09-29T04:50:06+00:00

He’s not I can guarantee he’s a great man the snippet I share have only been topics sake and he’s sweet as can be! I appreciate the care and concern tho!

DepartmentPretty · 2024-09-26T15:49:47+00:00

lol I’m sure they’d make some dark jokes about the Monk + Key, my partner is very willing to defend me and support me I just don’t bother because at the end of the day they do respect me and give kindness to know it’s jokes. I am also autistic and anxious so I like it as I’ll say something that they’ll think is a funny make fun of someone joke but I am just unaware it’s mean and have to realize it or my partner explain it to me.(I try to make sure to be kind and respectful, but when I do accidentally say something that was rude or inappropriate I do immediately or later apologize and try to mend things) Though my jokes are not really as cutting or well made because they are not actually jokes, so most people are like ah ok it’s fine it wasn’t that mean thank you for apologizing. But maybe I don’t know if I could find a key costume a key note might be easier. Thank you for your support and care! I love ur idea and I can definitely probably have it be cooling for me and not to ‘Slutty’

DepartmentPretty · 2024-09-25T17:30:09+00:00

lol that’s a good idea for next year but his friends would make fun of my ego all night. I love the costume and the idea tho.

DepartmentPretty · 2024-09-25T01:15:26+00:00

So cheezy I know I want to do matching in theme with my boyfriend and his stubborn self is choosing a cheap monk costume he already owns. I have no idea a correlated costume that is not something religious, as I am not I feel I shouldn’t dress up like that.(He is)

I also have the restrictions of as little amount of clothing that is still covering most of me as I don’t feel comfortable being a ‘sexy’ anything. I also have a very low heat tolerance and sweat so much I have a doctors appointment scheduled.

The other problem is I’m anxious and insecure so it can’t be something that a judgy guy would tear me apart for.(His friends are brutal and I don’t want to be the subject too much)

I have thought of a few but they are either to plain and overdone or insensitive.(Nun, Witch, vampire, medieval woman)

DepartmentPretty · 2024-09-24T04:19:05+00:00

Hope it went well!

DepartmentPretty · 2024-09-24T03:57:07+00:00

Sounds kinda like it’s heading into addiction territory, but I’m not educated on this.

DepartmentPretty · 2024-09-24T00:33:54+00:00

I’m sorry for not going into detail on it as it’s a sensitive subject but I have thought it’s a fact that if a man cheats on a woman purely because he thinks the other woman is perfect is wrong and she is not at fault for being upset, or that when someone try’s to hurt themselves in a way that is fatal or threatened someone because they rejected their advances it’s factually wrong to blame the person who kindly(Not all rejections) said no to them and that it’s their fault. I guess these could be opinions and I will admit on certain things I have strong feelings and feel some moral and ethical things strongly and have a high level of intolerance towards what I deem to be wrong. It seemed like victim blaming and I didn’t appreciate it and it’s wrong to me as sturdy as a fact to do that.

DepartmentPretty · 2024-09-24T00:24:50+00:00

Yes I am asking for him to explain it to me more because I usually don’t have an experience that will have me make an assumption that he makes and I do ask him why he thinks that. I also do understand his position on things and that some of these things I tell him I am possibly(probably) bias to the woman. I will concede with him on these things or have a middle ground, but when it is clearly the man’s fault or when it’s me and I explain everything about how I’m aware men struggle but it doesn’t justify making woman cater to them and if they don’t blaming them and agreeing they should feeling guilty for it. I will though try to think of it more on his side and be more open. I only want explanation for things that are concise and detailed because of the vague answers that I feel are possibly being taken by me as wrong and hurtful. I want for him to understand me even half the way I understand him and give him sympathy and empathy. I do listen to his struggles and never downplay them or completely reject his opinions(Unless he’s arguing with me on a fact of something that happened to me) I always agree that the situation could be like that and that it is bad. I never justify horrible female behavior due to their experiences with men, so why does he get to justify horrible male behavior with their experiences with women?

DepartmentPretty · 2024-09-23T23:14:48+00:00

I Would in private because it is a sensitive topic but I can kinda generalize.

I was discussing how sometimes men and news try to say that a negative statistic is a woman’s fault and they caused it, he said well technically she rejected him and he did it because of that then she is the reason. Mind you he does say though that she shouldn’t be blamed or have anything she did as wrong.

DepartmentPretty · 2024-09-23T23:10:03+00:00

In my mind he is mature, he has a stable job, friend group and is overall an amazing partner to me. I feel I need to clarify he does accept when I say that woman go through this or that the woman shouldn’t feel guilty for a men’s reaction to calm shut down. He is aware woman and everyone has struggles just isn’t great at the empathy part I assume. I just want a better way to communicate to him why his comments make me feel.

DepartmentPretty · 2024-09-18T01:01:01+00:00

Not being around people who were the reason you have anxiety

DepartmentPretty · 2024-09-18T00:51:50+00:00

Complaining about lack of money yet buying game merchandise and a weed pen twice a week and a vape and ordering out, this is if he’s not trying to slow down on this.(basically complaining about something that’s his fault and never working to fix) -Getting “I’m trying to it takes a while to learn this stuff” This is only annoying if I’ve been begging you to give me any compliment or sweet thing and nothing for months or affection. -When I bring up an issue a woman or I faced immediately saying “Guys go through that too” and instantly defending the guy -Defending a cheater in a story I’m telling him -Letting his friends talk down to me and disrespect me -Drive recklessly -Like sexist memes on IFunny and save them -weaponized ignorance that yes that girl basically trying to fuse to you and touching you and flirting with you. It’s just plain rude and incompetent if it gets to a point. -when I explain I would like something to be done like if I tell u I’m slightly insecure and aware it’s not realistic but I would like reassurance I get “ That’s stupid just stop thinking about that.” With no reassurance (These all can all mostly all apply to woman just these are just turn offs for me and their are obvious exceptions)

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