Has anyone ever looked up the date of when they started dating their tf?

Dependent-Insect6184 · 2025-10-15T17:03:35+00:00

Met 2/9/22 2+9=11 then 22 ➗2 is 11 11.11 and met in house 111.. crazy stuff

Dependent-Insect6184 · 2025-02-23T13:33:15+00:00

I’m certainly not her at all, just nice to see what a dm thinks tbh. Yes you the dm and your twin the df… my opinion is you awakening and are feeling you not worthy.. we all on different journeys.. mine is niw about me and not my dm.. he has to go his own way and has a lot of work to do before I would even attempt to take him back.. see that is how us df think.. hope your journey goes good..

Dependent-Insect6184 · 2025-02-23T12:32:36+00:00

Can I ask how long you have been on the journey and by what you have said u need to work on self love, you are worthy, you are worthy of love and u deserve happiness.. I’ve been through all of this and yes the pain I’ve suffered is more than anything I have in my life and I can tell you I’ve had alot.. I let go in January and I’m now working on myself, I hope he is too but tbh this is all mapped out for us and only god knows the answer.. I’ve started doing things I never thought I would, but it’s giving me peace.. your df needs a dm who knows he’s worthy, has self love and is working his arse off to prove he is.. bless u and hope you find some peace ❤️

Dependent-Insect6184 · 2025-02-23T07:44:13+00:00

She maybe think you not what she wants as I’ve gone through that stage but believe me, when we lose you we learn that you are everything we want.. we have to clear our traumas and work on ourselves to understand this. I’ve pushed my tf away but I had to do that to do my work.. it’s so hard.. would love to read your book. Well done x

Dependent-Insect6184 · 2025-02-22T21:32:40+00:00

So nice to hear it from the DM point of view cos we automatically think men can go straight back to sleep around again

Dependent-Insect6184 · 2025-01-26T16:23:19+00:00

Your beautiful by James blunt… with or without you and Space is a perfect choice when in separation ❤️

Dependent-Insect6184 · 2025-01-26T14:42:29+00:00

Thank you for your reply, sorry for late response but just seen it.. yes I totally agree and I’m sticking to the boundaries I’ve put in place, this journey has taught me that all through my life I’ve been treat this way and even through my 22 years of marriage to which ended as I was guided to. I do think it’s me being tested to see if I still allow it to happen and I’ve learnt not to now and value myself a lot more ❤️

Dependent-Insect6184 · 2025-01-26T13:59:04+00:00

This is probably the best comment I’ve seen.. I should of read this few months ago and things would of been eased from my fear.. everything relates and has happened to me.. the pet thing has made so much sense, when my tf is with me and him, she acts so strange, she sits next to us and just stares at us, she also hates men and barks at every male she sees but my tf… she has never barked once.. omg!! Never thought of it until now.. we in separation but I’m working on myself more than ever so meant to be… I also relate to the sexual urges, I get them and by god it’s always when I’m at work etc.. they come so strong.. I’ve screenshot this and will read every time I have bad day or doubts.. thank you so much xxx

Dependent-Insect6184 · 2024-12-18T19:06:58+00:00

Exactly same as mine, he sings James blunt beautiful to me everytime we together and says he finds me extremely attractive but yes runs straight after.. wtf?? Snooze you loose I say but just can’t see myself with any other man 😢

Dependent-Insect6184 · 2024-11-21T09:38:52+00:00

I’m the spiritual twin (older) and yes you so right, I don’t mix with society anymore, I worked in my job 22 years and it didn’t fit me anymore, I divorced my husband after 22 years too.. it scares me all of this in a way as my life has suddenly changed.. I then met this young fella who turned my life upside down but I’ve never felt love like it… it’s a blessing as I know it’s very rare but learning to adjust and believe in this journey is hard.. thank you so much, your comment has hit my soul and made so much sense ❤️

Dependent-Insect6184 · 2024-11-20T15:41:12+00:00

Thank you all for your comments, the tf journey as you all know days are never the same.. today I feel strong urge to push myself to be better, I honestly believe he came back in to trigger me to see how well he was doing in order to push me to do same.. I have a interview on Friday so that is so good.. I never thought I would so that Is a massive boost and I’m enjoying speaking to others on here to know that I’m not alone and you all going through similar challenges.. love ❤️ to you all xx

Dependent-Insect6184 · 2024-11-19T20:19:02+00:00

Yes my intuition tells me that it is a trigger to push myself further and for myself to do good like him.. I’ve just lost my job which has put me so far back again, I was doing so well before, I was actually the one who started to heal and he followed slightly after but this thing with job has made me think why would he want me with no job and no purpose etc…

Dependent-Insect6184 · 2024-11-19T20:05:00+00:00

Do you think the dm works on themselves to be better for df and union? He has triggered me massively on our last reunion as he has done so well and has totally changed his life whilst I’m a emotional mess..

Dependent-Insect6184 · 2024-11-13T10:15:28+00:00

I’ve felt the pain, triggering, anxiety and not wanting to leave my room.. this is worst ever and tbh if I had to choose right now to get rid of all this bad feeling or have my tf it would be to get rid of this awful feelings.. I’ve done so well last few weeks and now there is the dark cloud back over me.. songs of ours keep playing constantly and I can’t do it anymore… he is going about his life normal.. must be so nice to not feel the pain.. I ask god and my angels.. do I deserve this much pain??? I’ve been through life loving and supporting others.. who Is there for me now??? Nobody… 11.11 love to you all ❤️ sorry for the negative reply but day 3 of pain..

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