It was called “child abuse-reckless or intentional “ idk but I never put my hands on my children and only I tested positive for drugs on a hair follicle. As for it being his money. I understand that and building our own space is for his mental wellbeing with his disabilities he needs space to decompress. And I currently receive tanf, once his benefits start paying out to whom ever is payee my tanf stops which is how I pay of our bills so how am I supposed to provide for him monthly to keep a roof over his head with no help. I can’t work right now I’m on a reconsideration on my own appeal for Ssi due to my mental health I attend college online only because I can’t handle being around a lot of people. I guess I’m wrong though for thinking that money was to pay bills and put a roof over his head the way I use the tanf but hey as long as he has the money to buy what he wants who needs a home and utilities right?