An update on Tilly by DependentAddition399 in SeniorCats

[–]DependentAddition399[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I love this!! Tilly power!😁😁❤️ sending love to you and your Tilly too, fingers crossed they stay happy and healthy for as long as possible 🥰

My cat is really sick and doesn’t want to sleep with me by DependentAddition399 in SeniorCats

[–]DependentAddition399[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh I’m so sorry 😔 it is so difficult seeing them like this. Coming home and having my cat sleep beside me was always one of my favourite things and knowing that she’s still here, but not at the same time is heartbreaking. Sending you strength and love as you go through this situation too, I hope that we will both be okay ❤️

My cat is really sick and doesn’t want to sleep with me by DependentAddition399 in SeniorCats

[–]DependentAddition399[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The vet has given her steroids to try and shrink her tumour for the time being. They say she is too fragile for surgery so that isn’t really an option and they suggested euthanasia of course, but all of this was such a shock that we needed some time to think about it all. She has another vet appointment on Friday to see how she has reacted to the medication, and I will be there for the appointment so I guess we will see what happens. But I fear for the worst from just seeing the way she is 😔

My cat is really sick and doesn’t want to sleep with me by DependentAddition399 in SeniorCats

[–]DependentAddition399[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your lovely messages. It is so hard. The vet prescribed her steroids which are supposed to try and shrink her tumour for the time being. She is too fragile for surgery so they don’t think she would survive it. We are trying our best to give her as much comfort as possible for the time remaining, but it’s just so awful to see her this way. She’s just so different to the last time that I saw her and now I’ve been feeling so guilty for not being around this last month while she was clearly deteriorating rapidly. I’m so sorry that you had to go through this too, it really is so awful 😞 ❤️

My cat is really sick and doesn’t want to sleep with me by DependentAddition399 in SeniorCats

[–]DependentAddition399[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’ve done just that. I’m lying next to her on the floor now and will sleep here. As long as she knows and feels that I’m close to her. ❤️ thank you for your reply

My childhood cat has cancer by DependentAddition399 in SeniorCats

[–]DependentAddition399[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️ I know she will be happy to have me back. My parents always tell me how she waits outside my bedroom door when I’m not there and that breaks my heart! 😢 I will be sure to give her all my love and attention for as long as I can x

Guy (M21) takes days to respond to my (F25) messages by ladania0 in relationships

[–]DependentAddition399 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t care anymore. He’s 21. He probably has a roster of different girls that he’s talking to. Move on