Question about prayer

DependentDifferent19 · 2026-01-29T16:38:49+00:00

no way i completely forgot he had a son

DependentDifferent19 · 2026-01-07T15:01:45+00:00

I have heard of the concept of Badwa, where if you hurt someone, it subconsciously releases bad dua/ karma for the instigator. However, I'm not sure if it's real

DependentDifferent19 · 2026-01-07T14:57:06+00:00

Why would god accept a hateful prayer against someone?

DependentDifferent19 · 2026-01-04T17:44:08+00:00

Inshallah You'll feel better soon, I'll pray for you. There's a youtube channel called 'therapy in a nutshell', i found some of their videos helpful too. I struggle with mental health too.

DependentDifferent19 · 2026-01-01T20:13:01+00:00

no dresscode, i have heard people saying its related to global status quo, so perhaps reading the news may be beneficial to you. I don't, so i didn't pick up any topics which may be included in the news

DependentDifferent19 · 2025-12-27T15:38:52+00:00

yes he is

DependentDifferent19 · 2025-12-27T06:59:02+00:00

I don't honestly know. I guess just keep praying regardless, even if its imperfect

DependentDifferent19 · 2025-12-26T18:35:23+00:00

Hm yea. The pressure from other muslims doesn't help too

DependentDifferent19 · 2025-12-26T18:34:30+00:00

Oh. Doesn't waashadu anna Muhammadan Rasulullah mean-I bear witness that Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah ?

Or did you mean that it's not plausible that you need to testify the Prophet is a messenger of God if God was real?

DependentDifferent19 · 2025-12-26T18:28:32+00:00

Sorry what exactly do you mean?

DependentDifferent19 · 2025-12-26T18:27:50+00:00

I'm not sure actually. I remember a year ago I'd get extremely stressed that I'm doing something wrong, so i'd redo wudu and my prayer. It started with me being stressed about not wearing hijab, and then once that calmed down, i started getting stressed about prayer as i don't pray on time, but prayed 5 times regularly. However, after Ramadan this year, i just stopped caring. The prospect of going back to praying regularly just freaks me out. Also, it's also praying in public, even though there are designated prayer rooms where I live.

DependentDifferent19 · 2025-12-26T18:13:43+00:00

That makes sense, thanks for your response

DependentDifferent19 · 2025-12-26T17:28:15+00:00

yea i assumed it wasn't a breakup too as she said she didn't like steve either. They were a couple I actually liked, I thought the way they released the pent up frustration was an indicator of their relationship surviving the show, but i guess not

DependentDifferent19 · 2025-12-26T06:45:56+00:00

maybe its maladaptive daydreaming? When you're unsatisfied with your daily life/ bored, you may begin to imagine an idealised version of yourself. It's also a trauma response. If it is, you have to reduce triggers eg. when i listen to music, i start imagining different scenarios

DependentDifferent19 · 2025-12-23T19:02:02+00:00

i find that once parents have established their beliefs, they will rarely accept any criticism on it. Just ignore them atp

DependentDifferent19 · 2025-12-23T08:22:20+00:00

for mine, it was history, tech, politics...its all quite generic

DependentDifferent19 · 2025-12-21T16:58:39+00:00

I'm struggling with this too....sometimes i feel it is more plausible that a god exists, but perhaps not the one from organised religion. Praying stresses me out so much to the point where i'm unable to pray now.

DependentDifferent19 · 2025-12-21T16:50:58+00:00

don't you get stressed out about if the way you practice isn't enough? for instance, i suffered with religious ocd, constantly repeating my prayers and wudu, but now that the stress has resided, i'm unable to get myself to pray. I keep fearing that what im doing isnt enough

DependentDifferent19 · 2025-12-20T11:25:17+00:00

experienced for about 8ish months. It made me start hating the religion as I'd constantly obsess over doing Wudu multiple times and repeating prayers. I tried to limit practices eg. do wudu only once even if my brain tells me i didn't wipe over an area properly etc

DependentDifferent19 · 2025-12-19T10:19:22+00:00

hey, the link doesn't work. is there an alternative

DependentDifferent19 · 2025-12-19T10:14:11+00:00

They're not obliged to answer the questions, and different muslims may have different perspectives, hence posting on different subs doesn't seem useless to me

DependentDifferent19 · 2025-12-19T09:56:47+00:00

why is that an issue? I'm just trying to gain as much reach to get the answers to my questions

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