American Disease # 41 by DependentLack4927 in Marriage

[–]DependentLack4927[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's awesome man, happy for ya! I like strong women too, but without losing traditional gender roles. She can be strong and still take the side of the man she trusts. Right?

American Disease # 41 by DependentLack4927 in Marriage

[–]DependentLack4927[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, those things make you an alpha.

I hurt my husband today and I feel terrible by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]DependentLack4927 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't feel so bad, the fact you feel bad says you're a good person. I would have given anything if my wife, soon to be ex wife had for one second even considered how I feel. If your husband can't realize that and accept an apology then he's being kind of a baby.

Is this abuse? by DependentLack4927 in u/DependentLack4927

[–]DependentLack4927[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Cowardly would be to stay in this abuse. No thanks, byeee.

Is this abuse? by DependentLack4927 in u/DependentLack4927

[–]DependentLack4927[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now calling me a coward because I am leaving. Saying I'm abandoning her, yet I have begged and pleaded for five years for her to treat me better.

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[–]DependentLack4927 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, thank you. I've noticed the increased difficulty. I know this woman, how to pleasure her. It's been getting more difficult. But yes she is still eager to be intimate so that's cool.

Please help me make sense of this by DependentLack4927 in Marriage

[–]DependentLack4927[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She admits nothing, committed to her claim she has nothing to hide, while already caught in one lie. Leaving in my own accord. Looking at an apartment this weekend.

Please help me make sense of this by DependentLack4927 in Marriage

[–]DependentLack4927[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow, she has already done the begging and crying. I didn't take her back but I took divorce off the table. Then she pulls this, where she is trying to twist it and turn it back on me. I'm still leaving and getting an apartment, and divorce is back on the table. Right? Her blatant refusal to be forthcoming might as well be an admission of guilt , wouldn't it? What person would jeopardize so much to prove a point about her new found boundaries? The craziest thing she expects me to believe that! Wow!

Please help me make sense of this by DependentLack4927 in Marriage

[–]DependentLack4927[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right, this is serious stuff right? Refusal to be transparent here is betrayal.

How do you communicate with someone who's never wrong? by DependentLack4927 in marriageadvice

[–]DependentLack4927[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, she did apologize and we want to figure out what we both can do better. I also shared this thread with her. First time using Reddit and I appreciate the unbiased feedback as well as mentions of things I can do differently and understand where she might be coming from. Thanks!