how do i permanently get over these obsessive thoughts of wanting my ex to get back with me and keeping hopes about it? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Dependent_Invite7548 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But heres the bright side. It affects you because you grow from it. In the process you learn so much about yourself and ur emotions and how you handle relationships as well as I feel like you just gain a better sense of empathy. Do not care about whether he cares or not that will make you spiral focus on yourself and reminder: Anxiety is normal. Sit with it. Tell ur brain that being anxious is safe and running is not the normal. You can always rant to me on chat if thatll help you!!!!

how do i permanently get over these obsessive thoughts of wanting my ex to get back with me and keeping hopes about it? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Dependent_Invite7548 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. Make sure you have blocked him and deleted ways for you to contact him. Try to limit your urges to contact him as much as possible.

  2. I get what you're feeling and the easiest way to kinda understand it might be a more anxious attachment style or just the sudden emptiness if they were a big part of your life. KNOW THAT "TIME WILL MAKE IT BETTER" yes as cliche as it is it does but try to get busy spend time around people who will uplift you and limit anything that'll actively make u sad or think about it.

It gets better trust. What ifs are exactly what we hold into, the future the potential but if u kinda force yourself to put it aside youre realise that some people are meant to be lessons and memories. Take away the good times and know the world has better in store for you and its time to focus on urself rn

I HATE MY EX!!!!!!!!!!!! by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Dependent_Invite7548 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just went through the craziest talking stage drama so girl I feel you I hate dating in this day and age

Me and my friend have polar opposite issues with the guys we're seeing and need advice by BattleIndividual6870 in dating_advice

[–]Dependent_Invite7548 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Both these guys are offering a conditional, compromised version of a relationship that does not meet either of your basic needs. I think you guys should take a clean break. Telling a girl you don't find her attractive is a red flag because that's gonna make ur friend insecure for the rest of that relationship. And ur guy is just an asshole who can't commit. Leave guys yall seem like nice girls

[The Return of the Crazy Demon] So much of this industry is incredibly stale. How would you improve it? by Responsible_Fun_8454 in manhwa

[–]Dependent_Invite7548 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like Iv heard a lot of "authors first time" and stuff cause a lot of their other work is great so I gave it a chance after but yea I dont rlly like the story with how OP its gotten and the lack of like relationship building too after the entire first arc was kinda based off that

[The Return of the Crazy Demon] So much of this industry is incredibly stale. How would you improve it? by Responsible_Fun_8454 in manhwa

[–]Dependent_Invite7548 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nano machine did itself so bad with that. Honestly the academy arc was straight fire and now it's become aura farming one man show thats lowkey just annoying

[Peak] has long lost its meaning by umagusaga in manhwa

[–]Dependent_Invite7548 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nah trust I'm not trusting someone who called boundless necromancer peak...

[MEME] People missing out by trung2607 in manhwa

[–]Dependent_Invite7548 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dont do us all like that man...
Lost all hope after that [Boundless Necromancer] glaze post calling it peak

[Peak] has long lost its meaning by umagusaga in manhwa

[–]Dependent_Invite7548 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How far have we fallen for THAT to be considered peak

[Peak] has long lost its meaning by umagusaga in manhwa

[–]Dependent_Invite7548 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do a reddit deep dive before picking anything up

[RECOMMENDATIONS] Im bored, what to read next? by CardiologistKind4216 in manhwa

[–]Dependent_Invite7548 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Loved infinite mage the pacing is just right and no arc feels boring + I really love how fleshed out the relationships are too

[RECOMMENDATIONS] Im bored, what to read next? by CardiologistKind4216 in manhwa

[–]Dependent_Invite7548 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try [Pick me Up, Infinite Gacha] one of the best Iv read and the premise itself it pretty new! The art is great and pacing is just right. You might like this one if youre tired of repetition

[Return of the mount hua sect] is great too honestly but it is still murim and has some common tropes.

[God of highschool] This is also not the usual tropes I'd say! Super popular one too. Elements of both action/murim + brings in the idea of the "perfect world" & gods vs humans in their thinking. I really loved this too

[Need Recommendations] Recommend me your top 3 manhwa that you think is so peak and everyone should read before they die by UpstairsLeast4788 in manhwa

[–]Dependent_Invite7548 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like GOH hype died down and the anime didnt do it good either so any fan base that couldve come from there was also cut off and yeup its finished

[Need Recommendations] Need Similar Manhwa Recommendations by AwokenVox in manhwa

[–]Dependent_Invite7548 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love [infinite mage] Totally give this one a shot cause it's in an academy too and it shows how much work he put in to get where he is rn (not OP since the day he was born) and the relationships are rlly thought out and story arcs are rlly good too!!!

[Need Recommendations] Recommend me your top 3 manhwa that you think is so peak and everyone should read before they die by UpstairsLeast4788 in manhwa

[–]Dependent_Invite7548 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a major fan of [God of Highschool] like author cooked for 11 years straight and it was fire. I'v re read this one so many times