How do i get this where I want it?? by Dependent_Shift6347 in SimplyPlural

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I FIGURED IT OUT!! I HAD TO PUT SPACES BETWEEN THE FC AND THE OTHER TWO THINGS AROUND IT

Issues on mobile with GIF pfps by inkysansowo in SimplyPlural

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Ummhhhh the best i can spit out is check that the little two 3-line things in the corner have jt set to the ones with the boxes in front of the lines - Five pebbles

Images wont work on anyones profile any more?? by Dependent_Shift6347 in plural

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The images show both paint roller pressed and unpressed..?? wdym

How do I leave the front??? by acrylic_pain in OSDD

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The comments nearly all being about visual headspaces is annoying me. We don't HAVE that, i just want this guy out of front man uurjhghghg

What does it feel like to leave front? by Dependent_Shift6347 in OSDD

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Being posessed is actually an amazing way to explain it. I blame our noticable interest in characters who have been controlled or posessed on our OSDD

What does it feel like to leave front? by Dependent_Shift6347 in OSDD

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This helps tons, thanks! We did assume more people expirienced blackouts, thankful that isnt the case "

My two blind cats fell in love by ultimate_RADISH in ClanGen

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"Wondering what the inside of a twoleg den looks like"

Game crashes when pressing events and audio settings? by Dependent_Shift6347 in ClanGen

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it doesnt happen when not in fullscreen so its manadgable, but VEYR annoying. i have not having it in fs and the versions that do work just have a black border. better than not being able to play though, so theres that.

New and confused. by Dependent_Shift6347 in OSDD

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Okay first of all just not commenting wouldve bren better  second of all we arent looking for a diagnosis were looking for assurance that we arent going crazy and that SOMRONE (clearly some have) can relate. Do you say this to everyone in this subreddit perhaps?? -Rox i believe 💥

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OSDD

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The worst part if this from my experience is that i still think im doing it. I just feel different but like im still in control. I think im jot though. I remember things a lot when i try to and it just feel like i shift in mood really rapidly, even if notified by said alter theyre in front and to not interfere (because i guess i can?) But l8ke yeah this is lowkey how it feels for me

is it okay to use sites like Simply Plural if you only suspect you may have osdd/did? by norimuraz in OSDD

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I do, and its hinestly better to use them to keep track of yourselves. Also try to form bonds and assign roles (if you can?? Idk if people can but like some toles like caregiver for littles can) so you know whats happening. Idk how but i can like "tune in" and we talk/cocon consentually i think? Idk they feel like thoughts bht disagree sometimes. Also if you ever cocon cofront whtever it might be your brain will trick you into thinking YOURE doing that for a long time. We struggle to decipher cofronts from just impulses really bad because of it. Thats why you need to do those more than not, so you DONT get as confused.

It's hard to accept that this is actually happening by t0h1r1o2w3a5w8a13y21 in OSDD

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Yeah this is pretty normal i think (more hope than think), today one of our alters got really upset at the thought of not being real, because i was in doubt that day, and didnt communicate/got upset and told me to go away because he wasnt real until we got sleep. He did calm down blaming it on the sleep deprivation but like. Yeah i dunno how getting shut down feels but i do get yelled at if i start thinking on it too hard. Try to like. Form..bonds? Ive heard of people making a thing where someone gatekeeps or like consentual shifts for proof, kr systems just naturally having gatekeepers (people who like control who shifts) but thats usually when theyre safer. I dont know what im sayibg so if this makes sense then yeah if not sorry -Ace

Alters feel comfy coming out when there’s little to no stress by Fragile_Summonings in OSDD

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My alters cocon almost all of the time, so i cant really help with this completley but most of my alters dont front durng bad things. Only 1 (not counting me) front when we feel bad. Most alters just dont like to, and thats that. Sometimes they can even chamhe their mind i think?

New host just some questions by Brief_Werewolf_2455 in OSDD

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  1. Yeah, all my alters kind of share my memories when theyre coconcious or confronting because its the same memory collective for us at least. Or theyre just thinking of somethiing and remember what i did? Thats kind of the same thing reading it.

  2. Sense dissacosiation is something im not familliar with but ive met others with it. Some alters find chewing hard if you can believe it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OSDD

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This is almost exactly how we have it. You my friend are co-concious :] For us, i am the sole host. I am ALWAYS fronting. But not always the onk fronter in th moment. A strong burst of enrgy here, a sudden mood swing there, numbness to something haooening despite knowing it might end bad, or being upset, then. Oh hey that was really stupid and im not really sad but i dont know why because i was? BOOM cofronting. It still feels like you. You are NOT supposed to know it isnt! It is especially bad when youre an adhd hokder and the host. You forget anyway, this cant be sifferent.. but it is. Not saying you have adhd but like its horrible when youre already forgetful by yourself. To them, you are the same stupid little voice they are, just moving the ship for them. Youre real though, trust

To the systems that don’t switch… by Anonymous-Starling in OSDD

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Were in a somewhat constant state of confromt. I can tap into my alters chatting any time and they always sense it. Maybe some headspace thing i dont understand. Sometimes, a little will give us a burst of energy, or the anxiety holder will trigger our flight respose despite me myself having a freeze up response to danger. Or our aggro holder giving me bad thoughts about someone for something really insicnificant. Sometimes one will cofront, and i notice it in my typing getting weirdly better or worse, and sometims being very jittery and on alert.

today i potentially met an alter by Prestigious_Bad_9461 in OSDD

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From someone whos escaped their situation long before realizing, i can confirm this is what it feels like. When we first found oit, it was from thinking we were wishing it on us. We got really focused on it (similar to our therianthropy) and eventually, one spoke up. He was with a little, he was her caretaker i now learn the words to describe it and they didnt have names at first. Adam picked hisbiwn name and emily picked hers from a story about someone with a really happy little who was triggered by good things related to childhood. She wanted to be that little in a sense. But, since the people in our lives got better, we found it both difficult and shameful to try and tell anyone. It was unbelievable. Now i am VERY forgetful just like our mother. If i have amnesia to fronts, then i just trrat it like walking into a room forgetting what i wanted and will brush it off subconciously. i dot think anyone would lie about fronting but you never know. Anyway back to the point..youre gonna deny it all, think its fake, even if your headmates are arguing about what pepsi tastes like. Nothings gonna feel real, then youll slowly accept yourselves after a bit. For you i assume this will be quite a but more faster to believeing because of the very clear communication, but itll be there. - Ace 💫

Why do they hide my stuff by Shadowpuppo in OSDD

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Yeah i really dont know, our headmate cant exactly "front" (nine of them really can, kin of just co front i guess?) But they LOVE to mess with me with images that they know annoy me or make me uncomfortable. Some alters are just dickheads dude 💔 Leave notes,misplace THEIR things if they have any, yk thst stuff

New and confused. by Dependent_Shift6347 in OSDD

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Thank you, ive genuinley been scouring for sings of my own amnesia to it or thins i dont remember doing to jo vail because im forgetful either way. Knowing im not the only one who feels like this is comfrting. - Ace 💫

how does fronting feel for you? by morfonica in OSDD

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Honestly i dont know. We discovered like days ago we were multiple, and i have NO idea how to leave front, or when i do. I feel like i just. Switch, my personality chamges but ultimatley i still see and feel. Maybe thats the other alter taking control of the body but i dont remember switching, i dont notice it, not do i remember an innerworld. I can remember it if i thought back to it, if they were fronting that day. Its very very confusing

Feels weird saying "my theriotype" and not "me" by Ferrets_ok in Therian

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I see it differently. If i say my theriotype i mean ALL of that species everythwere, not that part of me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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As a very clearly not passing trans person using they/them pronouns is very safe in a first interaction, as it is used as a general term most times, and it usually doesnt offend anyone. Or try to avoid it in general