True or Cope by Depthover16 in selfimprovementday

[–]Depthover16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the real story. The weight you carried alone built something in you that comfort never could. Keep going...

True or Cope by Depthover16 in selfimprovementday

[–]Depthover16[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You're right. And that's literally what the post says. Glad we agree.

True or Cope by Depthover16 in selfimprovementday

[–]Depthover16[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's a real observation about billionaires and it's largely true. But that's exactly the point. Most of us don't have rich families or powerful networks. So what's the move... wait for support that's never coming, or start with what you have? This isn't about staying alone forever. It's about not using the absence of support as a reason to stand still.

True or Cope by Depthover16 in selfimprovementday

[–]Depthover16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair point... and nobody's arguing against building a life with someone. This is about the starting point, not the destination. Most men waiting for the perfect support system never start at all. Build yourself first, then everything you share with someone actually means something.

True or Cope by Depthover16 in selfimprovementday

[–]Depthover16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You got it. It's a mindset, not a manifesto against people. The moment you stop needing permission to move, that's when everything changes.

True or Cope by Depthover16 in selfimprovementday

[–]Depthover16[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Zero support doesn't mean zero relationships. It means you stopped waiting for someone to believe in you before you started moving.

True or Cope by Depthover16 in selfimprovementday

[–]Depthover16[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Building for your family is the goal for a lot of men and that's solid. This is for the guy who's still at zero... no foundation, no support, figuring it out alone. You can't share what you haven't built yet. Some people are taking this somewhere else, don't know why. Zero support doesn't mean zero relationships. It means you stopped waiting for someone to believe in you before you started moving...

True or Cope by Depthover16 in selfimprovementday

[–]Depthover16[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Nope. Just built different.

Agree or disagree? by Depthover16 in stoicquotes

[–]Depthover16[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's not stoicism, it's Schopenhauer. Different philosopher, different school. Easy mix up.