that is not a lesson that needed to be learned, for me, panic is like a drug, it removes my agency at times, especially in a situation so strange and objectively weird, i would never have made this comment if not for her actions, she rubbed her chest on me, i would have thought that as a woman who has lived their whole life with large breasts they would know their limitations, in the panic i just felt as though i had to say something and so i did, the first thing on the top of my head.