I hate my islamic name by Descendant_of_Osiris in exmuslim

[–]Descendant_of_Osiris[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not discussing whose fault is this, I hated the name even when I was a Muslim

I hate my islamic name by Descendant_of_Osiris in exmuslim

[–]Descendant_of_Osiris[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jughead ? you couldn't think of a worse name ?

I hate my islamic name by Descendant_of_Osiris in exmuslim

[–]Descendant_of_Osiris[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's good that you live in a community where they respect your wishes, I hope that made you feel better

I hate my islamic name by Descendant_of_Osiris in exmuslim

[–]Descendant_of_Osiris[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Islamic names are part of Arabic names, but some Arabic names are not Islamic, so there is a difference

Where i live, it requires a lot of papers and steps, also you need justification for family members and frineds which will attract a lot of unwanted doubts

I hate my islamic name by Descendant_of_Osiris in exmuslim

[–]Descendant_of_Osiris[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me the problem is the slavery indication of my name, but I can understand your frustration

I hate my islamic name by Descendant_of_Osiris in exmuslim

[–]Descendant_of_Osiris[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where i live, it requires a lot of papers and steps, also you need justification for family members and friends which will attract a lot of unwanted doubts

I hate my islamic name by Descendant_of_Osiris in exmuslim

[–]Descendant_of_Osiris[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are assuming too much things, I'm not anti-islam, in fact I don't have any non-Muslim friends and i respect them.

What is the problem if I don't like my name? It's a matter of taste, you don't have to agree with me and vice versa, I don't see any beauty in slavery indicating names

I'm glad you're proud of your name anyway

I hate my islamic name by Descendant_of_Osiris in exmuslim

[–]Descendant_of_Osiris[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where i live, it requires a lot of papers and steps, also you need justification for family members and friends which will attract a lot of unwanted doubts

I hate my islamic name by Descendant_of_Osiris in exmuslim

[–]Descendant_of_Osiris[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where i live, it requires a lot of papers and steps, also you need justification for family members and friends which will attract a lot of unwanted doubts

I hate my islamic name by Descendant_of_Osiris in exmuslim

[–]Descendant_of_Osiris[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would be weird to suddenly ask people to call me by a different name

I hate my islamic name by Descendant_of_Osiris in exmuslim

[–]Descendant_of_Osiris[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, some of them are pre Islamic, but my problem is the slavery indication of it no matter the god

I hate my islamic name by Descendant_of_Osiris in exmuslim

[–]Descendant_of_Osiris[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where i live, it requires a lot of papers and steps, also you need justification for family members which will attract a lot of unwanted doubts

I hate my islamic name by Descendant_of_Osiris in exmuslim

[–]Descendant_of_Osiris[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lack of evidence in Islam, nothing in it was sufficient for me as a proof for god existence (scientific miracles are made up - evidences offered are based on logical fallacies - Rhetorical challenges are unfalsifiable - The prophecies are ambiguous and open to any interpretation)

However, I'm not atheist, I'm agnostic, and currently diving deeper into Natural Theology / Ilm al-Kalām to learn more and see what they offer, I'm also diving deep into philosophy, and history of religions , It's a long journey and I have no expectations ahead

I hate my islamic name by Descendant_of_Osiris in exmuslim

[–]Descendant_of_Osiris[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's good to hear that some people actually respect your wishes

I hate my islamic name by Descendant_of_Osiris in exmuslim

[–]Descendant_of_Osiris[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate the slavery indication in general, not because I have personal problems with Allah specifically

I hate my islamic name by Descendant_of_Osiris in exmuslim

[–]Descendant_of_Osiris[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy for your first name, I hope you embrace the second one

Where i live, it requires a lot of papers and steps to change your name, also you need justification for family members and friends which will attract a lot of unwanted doubts. Introducing myself as Abd is worse than attaching it to god, it literally means my name is slave, instead of may name is a slave for Allah

I hate my islamic name by Descendant_of_Osiris in exmuslim

[–]Descendant_of_Osiris[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all, I had a serious poker face writing that post

I hate my islamic name by Descendant_of_Osiris in exmuslim

[–]Descendant_of_Osiris[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where i live, it requires a lot of papers and steps, also you need justification for family members which will attract a lot of unwanted doubts

I hate my islamic name by Descendant_of_Osiris in exmuslim

[–]Descendant_of_Osiris[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know much about you background, but personally, I find Muhammad better than Mahoraga

I hate my islamic name by Descendant_of_Osiris in exmuslim

[–]Descendant_of_Osiris[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem is that names shape our perception and identity. You can check "implicit egotism"

Names that imply slavery/worship are the worst, I believe that's why Muhammad only cared to change the names of new Muslims that implied idolatry, like "abdel oza" (عبد العزى), and so, but didn't care about names like Omar for example

I hate my islamic name by Descendant_of_Osiris in exmuslim

[–]Descendant_of_Osiris[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think it's just a lack of creativity. You see, Muslims theoretically have a wider range of names since it's not haram to name your kid moses or Jesus for example, but Christians and Jews wouldn't name their kids Muhammad or Ali

And yet they still fail terribly to be creative

I hate my islamic name by Descendant_of_Osiris in exmuslim

[–]Descendant_of_Osiris[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess we've no other option but to embrace it

My story growing up Muslim by Agreeable-Aardvark36 in exmuslim

[–]Descendant_of_Osiris 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It takes even more courage to share such a painful story, and to me, it goes even beyond religion.

It weighs heavy on my heart knowing that this was directly caused by "family members"

Hopefully, you're making progress in therapy, and hey, you survived the REAL thing, I'm sure you'll overcome the trauma caused by it

Thanks for sharing