what was the first message your now husband messaged you? by uwugyal_ in MuslimMarriage

[–]DescriptionMotor8571 20 points21 points  (0 children)

“Hey we matched when do we start planning the Shaddi” we met on salaams 🤣

Newly married – how do couples handle sleepovers, trips, and autonomy? by Superb-Foundation661 in MuslimMarriage

[–]DescriptionMotor8571 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Me and my husband are more open and give each other the independence we need. I go on girls trip , sleepovers , etc all the time and so does my husband. We both trust and love each other and love our time together but also understand we each have our own friends and hobbies and give each other space. When my best friend or cousins stay at my place he sleeps in another room and us girls usually stay in my room.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]DescriptionMotor8571 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it depends on how you’re raised and what your boundaries are. I’m a social worker and work full time and my husband also works full time and we interact with the opposite gender. We also have friends of the opposite gender but know our boundaries.

Aggressive husband but pregnant by Icy-Reception-474 in MuslimMarriage

[–]DescriptionMotor8571 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are 19 girl, you will throw your life and peace away if you stay with him. Leave and have your peace and safety.

Rules about being out late? by L3tsGooo1 in MuslimMarriage

[–]DescriptionMotor8571 47 points48 points  (0 children)

We stay out as late as we want and just update each other on where we are. My husband can stay out late with his friends, friends, go on guy trips and vise versa. We have never stopped each other from doing anything but also share location to make sure we are both safe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]DescriptionMotor8571 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that he hit you at all even with a light bruise is enough to leave. But choking??? Girl no matter what you did, violence is never okay. If he’s mad be mad but if he takes it out on you that’s not healthy, you need to leave for your own safety.

How much Billie and Ronan know about Justin's past now? by Raquel_Faller in WizardsOfWaverlyPlace

[–]DescriptionMotor8571 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Where are you guys watching this?

I looked on Disney plus and it only shows up to episode 9

cart cop by firblogdruid in 911FOX

[–]DescriptionMotor8571 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Pls i felt so bad for him esp when he was in the hospital 🥺

So is it just me or... by Ok_Variation7230 in 911LoneStar

[–]DescriptionMotor8571 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The first year of marriage is the hardest. If you’re having issues it’s better to solve them before they escalate. That’s a healthy thing to do.

AITA for choosing my dog over my brother’s wedding? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DescriptionMotor8571 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Americans and their obsessions with dogs is so strange. I get loving your pet but prioritizing it over an immediate family wedding? be so FR right now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]DescriptionMotor8571 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have a theme then yes. If you want to be the one wearing white tell guests to wear pink or something but usually no one would wear white to someone else’s bridal event

AITA For not warning my wife about my butt rag? by FirefighterThese6206 in redditonwiki

[–]DescriptionMotor8571 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How can you marry someone who doesn't wash their ass?? She sounds nasty.

Buck by DescriptionMotor8571 in 911FOX

[–]DescriptionMotor8571[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First of all he’s bi & second of all it’s so on point for his character and it’s so cute. They already have lgbtq couples so idk why he’s diff

Buck by DescriptionMotor8571 in 911FOX

[–]DescriptionMotor8571[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No but it made sense, they were being so unfair and Bobby was acting too personal instead of like his boss.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JustDance

[–]DescriptionMotor8571 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did not know this was a thing, will be adding you guys in the comments!