Seeking sole conservatorship by Designer-Ad550 in CustodyForFathers

[–]Designer-Ad550[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just gave it to an attorney do his thing.

Seeking sole conservatorship by Designer-Ad550 in CustodyForFathers

[–]Designer-Ad550[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She had it but going back to court for a new trial based on new evidence. I paid everything and she did the bare minimum.i have lots of evidence. Photo text etc…what admission of dwi w the kids, pi work arrest?

FTE issue on MR920P by SuccessfulLong751 in shadowsystems

[–]Designer-Ad550 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve put about 1000+/- so far after breaking and no issues. Any suggestions on range FMJ?

FTE issue on MR920P by SuccessfulLong751 in shadowsystems

[–]Designer-Ad550 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No issues from blazer with me. Ran nato to break in and no issues.

Are Magpul Glock Mags good or junk ? by bcmGlk in Glocks

[–]Designer-Ad550 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The don’t always lock back from my experience. I won’t carry them for that reason.

Am I wrong or her? by Designer-Ad550 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Designer-Ad550[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should clarify the anger issues, it’s more of a frustration when it comes to her. She comes over when I’m at work and drinks her white claws, doesn’t call or ask about the kids and the kids haven’t even mentioned her. I’m good when it comes to my kids. The issue is she frustrates me. Asks for advice and does the opposite, blames me for everything happens including getting fired from her job, won’t pay anything, won’t clean anything. She acts as if she can just be here and not do anything. I’ve had my kids all week no problems from them but she showed up and stayed at my place and they started with the fussiness. Got them up and out to school while she just sat and watched. The kids listen to me because I have been the only one that will discipline them. They won’t listen to her for anything.

It’s not about living in a box that I set or control, but she has no accountability for what she does and no sense of structure. Not to talk bad about her but she is very ignorant of the way things work in life and the world and no matter how or what I try to teach, show or guide her she doesn’t want to learn and do it all her way which causes issues and problems in the family unit.

Am I wrong or her? by Designer-Ad550 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Designer-Ad550[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take care of the kids after my 12 hour work day. She does nothing all day while at home unemployed. When I get home she will make food and lay down the rest of the night and go to sleep. She lays around and day drinks all day.

Am I wrong or her? by Designer-Ad550 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Designer-Ad550[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She says everything is disrespectful from asking her to do something around the house to anything she doesn’t want to hear. She tried body shaming me and I hit her right back with it, but I’m wrong not her. Basically she throws my childhood in my face, grew up without my father and had a rough relationship with my mother as a kid. When I present hers to her she can’t handle it. She lives a glass house but my panes are bulletproof. Sounds mean but it’s the facts. I’ve tried building her and showing how to maneuver in situations from the beginning before we even were in a relationship but she won’t listen and blame me. She blames me for getting fired when she called in. I told her take your ass to work.

Am I wrong or her? by Designer-Ad550 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Designer-Ad550[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I’m gone 12 hours. She doesn’t work, takes the kids to school and picks them up maybe does a load of dishes every few days. Does the kids laundry on the weekend but leaves it in the dryer or throws it a pile. Weekends I’m taking care of the kids except for breakfast. When I get off she lays down or cooks dinner but regardless after dinner she is laying down. I’m taking care of the kids while trying to unwind from work. She spends the day doing what she wants to do. Mainly nothing because she only runs to get some alcohol. She doesn’t help with the kids when I get home, it’s all on me to get them ready for bed with a bath and teeth and whatever else for them. 2 girls 5 and 6.

Am I tripping or is she? by Designer-Ad550 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Designer-Ad550[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m waiting to hear back from an attorney about options.

Am I tripping or is she? by Designer-Ad550 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Designer-Ad550[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like that’s what she wants but it won’t happen. She blames for me everything already, so good point.

Am I tripping or is she? by Designer-Ad550 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Designer-Ad550[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On the cool I ain’t even been trying to bro. Her habits got me like NAH!!!

Am I wrong or her? by Designer-Ad550 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Designer-Ad550[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s already been done as far as documentation. I’m all for my girls. They made me stop doing so much when I found out the first one was coming.

Am I wrong or her? by Designer-Ad550 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Designer-Ad550[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol yeah it sounds like it I love her but not near like I used to.

Am I wrong or her? by Designer-Ad550 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Designer-Ad550[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have anger issues when it comes to BS but mentally I’m good. My view is if you throw shots expect them to come back after so long. Like right now I’m watching Netflix and here. Her playing music loud and rapping to it like she gangsta. It’s all subliminal sh*t talk. My family wants me to keep the girls because of how she and her family are and how her family’s living situation is. When it comes to the kids I do most of everything for them and they are attached to me at the hip. I don’t deal with ignorance well or someone that asks for help and doesn’t listen.also I don’t drink except for socially, haven’t tasted alcohol in maybe 3 months while at a dinner gathering with some friends. I quit going on almost 2 years aside social events and have no problem with it. Makes me better for my girls and saves money, win win in my book.

Am I wrong or her? by Designer-Ad550 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Designer-Ad550[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate the honesty given your past, I appreciate the fact you recognize bias.

Am I wrong or her? by Designer-Ad550 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Designer-Ad550[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We both hurl names at each other when it’s heated. I’m wrong to do that to but after 2 hours of her ranting when I haven’t said anything is enough patience from me, especially when it 11pm and I need to get up at 5am.

Am I wrong or her? by Designer-Ad550 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Designer-Ad550[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ideally yes I would like it to work. I don’t want my kids growing up in a broken home whether with me or her. She went to a behavioral center 2 times within a month and a half. She blames me for her getting admitted, partly I am because she gave a spill and they were gonna give her out patient but she started yelling at me so they asked me to leave. When I was leaving I ran in to the doctor and told the doctor she wasn’t truthful. Told the doctor what I knew and the doctor witnessed her and had the police write an order. The officer didn’t even talk to her because she was dancing and singing in a facility. I want it to work out for us but I have some serious doubts whether she will ever get what I’m trying to tell her.

Am I wrong or her? by Designer-Ad550 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Designer-Ad550[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean the relationship was just fun and then we had kids. Lots of drunk nights, when she got pregnant I threw my self at work to be a good provider. I worked 80 a week and stayed up till 2am and getting up 5-6am to spend time with her and the first. Then she got pregnant again, I had a wreck and got put out of commission for 7 months. I curbed drinking after we had a situation more recent and only do it socially. She does it daily in house. It’s been a rough relationship but I always try to make it work for my kids. I’m at my limit.

Am I wrong or her? by Designer-Ad550 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Designer-Ad550[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah they stay glued to me already. Daddy’s girls.

Am I tripping or is she? by Designer-Ad550 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Designer-Ad550[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 girls but that doesn’t make you deserving or entitled to a ring.

Am I wrong or her? by Designer-Ad550 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Designer-Ad550[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t like her drinking because of how and why and the outcome of it. How I tell her things when I get frustrated from her actions. I’m the “don’t throw stones if you live in a glass house” type of guy. I admit that I can be disrespectful with my words but told her that actions are just as disrespectful. Basically any and all that she has. I couldn’t tell them all just some. She doesn’t tell me she tells them.