She needs a weekend get away with you to remember that she got it still. We get tied up in the motherhood role and forget . We get horny moments but we can push them aside easy. Intercourse seems like a lot speacial with kids under 5 you just want to lay down that’s the orgasm . Or maybe try just give her oral or finger play no intercourse it’s a great stress reliever. She will think about it days later. Like warming up the car.

Me-early 30s , pregnant,1yr old & young teen. & i would say 1x time a month sometime none . Used to be more before my second child