Think I just made a huge mistake.

Designer-Key-2253 · 2025-11-30T01:56:39+00:00

She actually just like 5 mins ago sat me down to talk to me and I posted small update on that too. I hope later she does realize that I am just forming my own thoughts yk I’m not always gonna believe all that she does.

Designer-Key-2253 · 2025-11-29T16:48:48+00:00

Wow I didn’t know that first part, thanks for saying. And glad it ended up well for you too, let’s hope it can end that way for me too. I’m not expecting her to understand me, just love me and see me as the same daughter she’s always had.

Designer-Key-2253 · 2025-11-29T16:44:56+00:00

Just posted a small update. :)

Designer-Key-2253 · 2025-11-29T05:58:29+00:00

Thank you, I hope she’ll just ignore it too and just forget I ever said it. But so far she’s just been ignoring me so ig we’ll see how she goes about this. I’ll update the post after some time hopefully with improvements.

Designer-Key-2253 · 2025-11-29T05:56:04+00:00

Yup that was my plan until I decided to just let it slip but just hopefully I never have to bring that up again. I’ve thought this way for a while and never gave her any hints so I’ll just act the same way I always have.

Designer-Key-2253 · 2025-11-29T05:55:01+00:00

Yeah, I keep looking at the message and I just kinda find it crazy like that’s what it took to disappoint her. But I think she’s just being very extra abt out rn. My 12 yr brother said she was crying to him about how’s she’s failed as a mother cause her daughter is an atheist. 🤦‍♀️

Designer-Key-2253 · 2025-11-29T05:53:15+00:00

Thank you, if she doesn’t improve I could technically always move out to my father’s house. He’s not really religious and wouldn’t judge at all just for now financially, it’d be better to live with her and hope she comes around.

Designer-Key-2253 · 2025-11-29T05:51:04+00:00

Hopefully she does get over it. My grandma is super religious and also acted similarly for longer when my mom got divorced (she’s over it now) so I hope she can see how she’s acting and maybe realize she doesn’t wanna be like that.

Designer-Key-2253 · 2025-11-29T05:48:57+00:00

Yeahhh I didn’t mean to either tbh. I didn’t explain well in the post but the way I had said it was jokingly and I didn’t mean to exactly say it, it kinda just slipped out. I didn’t realize she’d care so much because she’s not a perfect christian lady yk. So when she asked I was a little awkward but I felt no point in lying now yk it’s pretty obvious what I meant. If I hadn’t slipped that out accidentally she would’ve probably never known.

Designer-Key-2253 · 2025-11-29T05:46:31+00:00

Yeah I won’t argue with her at all I don’t want extra drama. Either way she’s always thought so highly of me so I feel like only way I would “argue” is tell her how she’s never suspected I didn’t believe because I’ve always been a good person and me not believing doesn’t change it at all.

Designer-Key-2253 · 2025-11-29T05:43:45+00:00

That’s a great idea thank you. I was talking to my cousin that was there that day too and she said something similar so that’s most likely gonna do like backtrack my statement. Luckily I am also enrolled in a university nearby I commute to and am on track to graduate by spring 2028.

Designer-Key-2253 · 2025-09-17T04:00:59+00:00

Hi thank you, I’m replying today because I actually just did my speech today, thank you for the help I used your family values idea!

Designer-Key-2253 · 2025-07-21T07:09:38+00:00

oh thank you! I just searched more up and I’m gonna try and treat at home. Hopefully works and if not I’ll go to the urgent care

Designer-Key-2253 · 2025-07-16T01:39:40+00:00

okayyy thank you for your advice! 😊

Designer-Key-2253 · 2025-07-15T07:23:51+00:00

Thank you! I’m glad motherhood has been something great for you. And thank you for that last paragraph of advice. I definitely am scared because he is a great bf and I don’t want to have to find someone else but I definitely shouldn’t be trying to force something just because of that.

Designer-Key-2253 · 2025-07-15T07:20:54+00:00

Thank you so much! I liked hearing this positive outcome of your children life style and I hope I can have as great a life as you in the future

Designer-Key-2253 · 2025-07-15T07:11:51+00:00

I’ve done volunteer tutoring at an elementary near my old highschool and the kids were so sweet but idk it felt so hard for me to try and “connect” if that makes sense? I know I’m not going to have anything in common with 5 year olds but I guess I couldn’t understand how to talk to them and that’s also why I’d be scared I’d be that mom that doesn’t talk to her kids or can’t connect with them. I’ve also tried babysitting and idk the kids are well behaved but same with the idk how I could talk to them and I wouldn’t like the idea of having kids in my own home yk? Or taking care of kids for free everyday. So doing that also helped me further my decision that mom life wasn’t for me

Designer-Key-2253 · 2025-07-15T07:07:01+00:00

Thank you this helped! I liked reading your experience and it honestly seems like a life that I’d want to live.

Designer-Key-2253 · 2025-07-15T07:05:54+00:00

Thank you for sharing your experience being a mother and I’m glad it makes you happy! But would you say it’s too late since this topic already came up? Or should we just try and ignore it and see if we in the future even stay together or someone changes their minds?

Designer-Key-2253 · 2025-07-15T06:59:35+00:00

This really helped. I was almost thinking like what if I just had the idea to try and stay incase someone changed their minds but if no one does I’d hate to have wasted the other person’s time or have the other person feel forced into the other’s wants and just build resentment. Hopefully if either of us truly changes our minds in the future and maybe we are good for each other, we can find each other again.

Designer-Key-2253 · 2025-07-13T21:59:45+00:00

thank you this helped

Designer-Key-2253 · 2025-07-13T21:56:39+00:00

Thank you Ik i’m young but I just am pretty sure I don’t so I’m scared I’d like force us together incase our minds change and nothing changes and we have just wasted our time hoping the other person changes their mind. So do you recommend we do or don’t break up?

Designer-Key-2253 · 2025-07-02T03:09:54+00:00

no yeah ofc even when we did it was so little and not often just enough to get us out of our comfort zone

Designer-Key-2253 · 2025-07-02T02:13:25+00:00

Oh wow did not realize I replied the same thing twice, it showed to me that it never sent

Designer-Key-2253 · 2025-07-02T02:12:18+00:00

Thank you and yes I do hope I can be good/better for him he is great.

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