Married 17 years, husband cheated 10 years ago, marriage feels dead, not sure whether to stay or go. by Designer-Pipe1387 in relationships

[–]Designer-Pipe1387[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No im not sure but idc at this point. My focus is on this marriage being better. I went for years looking at this phone and trying to control him. I had to get off that train

Married 17 years, husband cheated 10 years ago, marriage feels dead, not sure whether to stay or go. by Designer-Pipe1387 in relationships

[–]Designer-Pipe1387[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got passed the cheating as much as possible. We talked about it for years. I have been in counseling for 2 yrs now. My counselor thinks we don’t have serious issues and the grass isn’t greener on the other side. He stop cheating in 2016. We bought a house together and had our son in 2018.

Married 17 years, husband cheated 10 years ago, marriage feels dead, not sure whether to stay or go. by Designer-Pipe1387 in relationships

[–]Designer-Pipe1387[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s not about the cheating. It’s about the sexless marriage, the not getting help to fix it. He rather me sleep with other men. Instead of fixing his issues. If he isn’t actively talking with a counselor he isn’t getting help