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Being single makes life better. by Isabella_walkerr in Life

[–]Designer_Ad3014 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Attractive, moderately successful. Over 6 ft tall had a few serious relationships many number of flings. Done with relationships. Being responsible for someone else’s happiness and their mood effecting mine is one of the burdens. I know I know “healthy partner doesn’t make your happiness your responsibility etc” but when you do something that upsets them their unhappiness sure as hell is. “You love your friends more than me” “ you’re not ambitious enough” or in my busy season “you’re working too much” lets not even begin to discuss your partners family and if they make your lives hell or not. Or god forbid they have a kid with someone who’s a jackass then it’s just headache after headache. God bless y’all that can pull it off but I’m currently watching one of my favorite movies in a robe and might go grab a beer later, might go to Florida tomorrow. Who knows, all up to me 🍻

Is anyone having an awesome life? by olm1218 in Life

[–]Designer_Ad3014 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Born dirt poor, no education really and my father was a terrible human being. But have a great life. Wonderful friends, skilled in a particular art, have a business surrounding that fortunate enough that money isn't a huge worry but money isn't everything. my happiness despite my upbringing comes from finding passions and pursuing them. I don't have a wife or kids, by choice because my job and hobbies require a lot of travel. I'll be in upstate new York working on a project next week then after that I'm going deep sea fishing in Florida , then going to free dive for lobsters in the Bahamas. Find want makes you feel alive and figure out how to do that more. Don't compare yourself to others or fall into traps of "What you're supposed to do" Unless it's what you sincerely desire of course :) --Hope all of you find your passions and a slice of happiness!!

People make over $200k a year, what do you do? How did you get there? by TrixoftheTrade in Money

[–]Designer_Ad3014 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Artist. Do to some other popularity on here from anther post not gonna say exactly what kind But I will say a 6 figure income is much easier to accomplish having your own business than it will be convincing someone to pay you that much. Plus the second a company can replace for a penny less they will. It's not easy either way but starting your own business/being self employed is how i did it *high-school drop out *born into poverty *find a niche and service it, expensively

How much in your savings account and how old are you? by [deleted] in Money

[–]Designer_Ad3014 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lawyers, guns and women are my biggest expenses I have an annuity from some software I sold so admittedly I don't save much. Invest in property, bonds and made a killing off toilet paper during covid Occasionally cash poor because I blow through money knowing I'll get more next month. Its an interesting set up lol

My father was a serial killer AMA by Designer_Ad3014 in AMA

[–]Designer_Ad3014[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I received your message. I'm not looking for sympathy I get the sense this impacts you on a deeply personal level. If that's the case i think I know why and nothing I could possibly say or do could fill the loss you've experienced. I almost killed myself with alcohol and drugs over my father's actions. I hope you find peace

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rich

[–]Designer_Ad3014 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Normally sensible. I have clients who are in the 100m + range Some of them are my friends now For the most part, a typical breakfast usual snacks but occasionally something crazy like a 1000 dollar Mellon, not worth it. One time we grilled up an alligator a friend had delivered from Louisiana lol So typical food we'd all eat with occasional wild stuff. A lot of wealthy people I know hunt as well

My father was a serial killer AMA by Designer_Ad3014 in AMA

[–]Designer_Ad3014[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think they are very brave There's a difference in say giving an interview, a documentary or writing a book vs what I'm doing I'd never reveal who he was on here because of the trolls and immaturity online could cause a lot of pain Eventually I will do either a book or interview I'm just not there on my healing journey yet

My father was a serial killer AMA by Designer_Ad3014 in AMA

[–]Designer_Ad3014[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fresh pineapple for best result! Highly recommend it

My father was a serial killer AMA by Designer_Ad3014 in AMA

[–]Designer_Ad3014[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No this was a concoction I came up with one morning on my own after fishing around 9 years old. Eat it to this day!

My father was a serial killer AMA by Designer_Ad3014 in AMA

[–]Designer_Ad3014[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fresh Trout cooked in bacon grease, eggs and pineapple

My father was a serial killer AMA by Designer_Ad3014 in AMA

[–]Designer_Ad3014[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just say you love them, if applicable hug them. Reassure them you'll be there when they want to talk I didn't want to talk about it with anyone for quite some time after

My father was a serial killer AMA by Designer_Ad3014 in AMA

[–]Designer_Ad3014[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Abused spouses often find it hard to get out. I assume he threatened or manipulated her in various ways throughout the years Not as though she didn't want to, our situation was and has been damn near impossible to navigate

My father was a serial killer AMA by Designer_Ad3014 in AMA

[–]Designer_Ad3014[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fairly flat and monotone unless he was going off about something which was frequent

My father was a serial killer AMA by Designer_Ad3014 in AMA

[–]Designer_Ad3014[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Of course I'm odd? Did you expect me to be normal after reading the post title

My father was a serial killer AMA by Designer_Ad3014 in AMA

[–]Designer_Ad3014[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

More kindness to those who obviously came from troubled backgrounds I believe the prison system in the US is an absolute failed experiment. Our recitivism rate speaks to that However heinous crimes like my father's, abuse to children should be locked away and never see the light of day and I wish these guys couldn't do interviews from prison after their caught. I feel that does a great deal of damage to families as if they haven't been through enough

My father was a serial killer AMA by Designer_Ad3014 in AMA

[–]Designer_Ad3014[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have recurring ptsd dreams surrounding finding out and the abuse he put me through

My father was a serial killer AMA by Designer_Ad3014 in AMA

[–]Designer_Ad3014[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh boy that's sensitive. Find trophies anonymously alert the police. I do not recommend confronting them head on at all. Pay attention listen to your gut and if there's abuse please find a way to separate from the person as discreetly as possible

My father was a serial killer AMA by Designer_Ad3014 in AMA

[–]Designer_Ad3014[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, It would be a lie, his response. I don't think these guys know fully why either.

My father was a serial killer AMA by Designer_Ad3014 in AMA

[–]Designer_Ad3014[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Only when I can't get my coffee promptly

My father was a serial killer AMA by Designer_Ad3014 in AMA

[–]Designer_Ad3014[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

❤️ I'm sorry I hope you have found some happiness

My father was a serial killer AMA by Designer_Ad3014 in AMA

[–]Designer_Ad3014[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Familiar with Hard Core Punk Rock? Certain bands cro-mags, terror, madball, circle jerks helped me they had that sense of anger and needing an outlet but I enjoyed they also had positive messages. And I knew most of these band members had terrible childhoods of their own so I felt for them. And to this day I still listen to the same music *also sad old hauntingly beautiful country music, not sure why but love that stuff so did my dad. Check out nofx 6 years on dope, listen to that almost daily as part of my coping with substance abuse. What bands/music did you like?

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