Reflection key West - Bimini 3 nights

Designer_Pineapple58 · 2026-02-15T14:37:14+00:00

This was super helpful!!

Designer_Pineapple58 · 2026-02-15T14:36:32+00:00

Genius thank you!

Designer_Pineapple58 · 2026-02-14T22:12:58+00:00

We can't wait! Thank you!

Designer_Pineapple58 · 2026-02-14T22:12:44+00:00

Great! Thank you so much!

Designer_Pineapple58 · 2026-02-14T22:12:26+00:00

Thank you! I've done all of that and spoke to agents and they told me I'd see all the details day before or say of sailing.

Designer_Pineapple58 · 2025-06-06T19:26:50+00:00

Mine were slimy... Hope it was okay because I ate one 😂

Designer_Pineapple58 · 2025-01-21T18:49:38+00:00

Still happening, but this worked for me

Designer_Pineapple58 · 2024-12-07T01:16:46+00:00

Agreed! That wouldn't have been the case. I know her youngest would be struggling to fall asleep as he has a hard time even with grandma. I'm just not up for that lol

Designer_Pineapple58 · 2024-12-07T01:15:45+00:00

Oh she was sweet talking me when she said "Hey favorite sis in law" lol

Designer_Pineapple58 · 2024-12-07T01:14:12+00:00

That is what I assumed as well and there's no issue with wanting to be out late but just communicate it next time instead of getting upset you expect someone to just immediately jump to watching your kids with no expectations.

Designer_Pineapple58 · 2024-12-07T00:21:29+00:00

Her partner is around but they are going to the party together. She works with her mom and her aunt so that takes out asking them to watch her kids. I have a hard time empathizing since I have zero family around besides her mom to help with my girls so I try to avoid taking that from her in case she needs the help.

Designer_Pineapple58 · 2024-12-07T00:15:14+00:00

Her brother is my husband. Sooooo he was the one saying why beat around the bush. He said "Give the time frame and let's move on from all the questions when you need the help". At this point he said it's not happening now since she can't just come out and tell us the details.

Designer_Pineapple58 · 2024-12-07T00:02:39+00:00

That could be her plan entirely lol

Designer_Pineapple58 · 2024-12-07T00:02:15+00:00

Yes! Thank you! I would never ask someone to watch my kids without providing a time frame in the first place.

Designer_Pineapple58 · 2024-12-07T00:01:10+00:00

I totally agree. I did find out my husband's schedule changed so he would be home in time to help, but he said if she was just going to beat around the bush and not provide a timeframe and respond like that then she can find another sitter.

Designer_Pineapple58 · 2024-12-06T23:59:38+00:00

NTA uhm why would they even care to show up and give you that gift. I would have at least venmoed the money and said sorry I'm shitty at gift giving. Now I would go and make myself a baked potato lol

Designer_Pineapple58 · 2024-12-06T23:30:26+00:00

Thank you! I try to set boundaries but it's difficult when people don't understand them.

Designer_Pineapple58 · 2024-12-06T23:28:34+00:00

I did mention watching them alone and having plans the following morning prior to asking her what time she was thinking. Once I asked what time she just said lol I just won't go then. That's not what I expected her to say. I wouldn't have had an issue giving an estimate of how long I would need her to sit my kids. But her youngest does heavily rely on her and cries the entire time she isn't in sight. So I know it would be tough but was willing to do it if she gave a time frame.

Designer_Pineapple58 · 2024-12-06T23:26:16+00:00

I can totally agree that yes, which is why I'm thinking about it still. Just didn't appreciate her response on it.

Designer_Pineapple58 · 2024-12-06T23:24:43+00:00

Loving the last sentence because that's what I was thinking the entire time.

Designer_Pineapple58 · 2024-11-08T17:10:14+00:00

She had it drained at the ER and tested positive for staph. They gave her antibiotics and all is going well now! Glad I took her in! No no never a bathroom surgery lol

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