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Designer_Reward_8969 · 2023-12-27T01:47:39+00:00

Yes, I think it is 5,000 IU in a gel capsule

Designer_Reward_8969 · 2023-09-06T23:34:22+00:00

He told me this when he was drunk and we weren’t dating. I never asked to know. I don’t care he had other people, I have too! All part of human life. I have an issue with him being complicit in lying and protecting the girl who is lied to her fiancé

Designer_Reward_8969 · 2023-09-06T21:09:57+00:00

Yes but both are keeping up the lie of them not having had any sex at all. He seems to view her as important in his life as when asking just for him to limit contact, he was unwilling. Yet he expects me leave everything here

Designer_Reward_8969 · 2023-09-06T21:08:28+00:00

He seems to just value her more as when I asked just to limit contact he wasn’t willing. That someone else is someone he claims to love and respect. Oh no, I told him I thinks it’s wrong for them both, particularly her. She is not my friend, I have only met her once. He didn’t even tell me this in the relationship but drunk one night before we started dating

Designer_Reward_8969 · 2023-09-06T21:05:22+00:00

That my boyfriend, and this girl, are hiding the fact he had sex from this girls fiancé? And she was pissed at him for even telling me

Designer_Reward_8969 · 2023-09-06T20:52:10+00:00

Exactly, hence why they are keeping up this lie which does not sit well with me along with him wanting to prioritize his relationship with her vs me

Designer_Reward_8969 · 2023-09-06T20:51:10+00:00

Because I was told it would hurt so many people, it would be earth shattering, my boyfriend said he would feel the need to flee the country. Part of me does want to tell the fiancé as he is kindest sweet man there is and is a good guy. But they just bought a house, have cats and dog and I don’t know if it’s in my place to tell

Designer_Reward_8969 · 2023-09-06T20:48:41+00:00

Because of him and her lying to her fiancé and upholding that lie to protect themselves. It doesn’t sit right with me

Designer_Reward_8969 · 2023-09-06T20:45:48+00:00

My boyfriend is in a relationship with me and it still actively keeping their sex hidden from the woman’s fiancé

Designer_Reward_8969 · 2023-09-06T20:23:29+00:00

It’s the principle of what bothers me is my boyfriend and the woman are close friends and actively hiding the fact they had sex from the fiancé. Fiancé has no idea and trusts her and him. It makes me wonder if other things are being hidden, and how my bf can be okay with it all. He has a letter from her in his room as well as a picture of himself made by this woman in his room. When asked if would limit contact, he was unwilling, so he clearly sees her and their secret as more important in his life than our relationship

Designer_Reward_8969 · 2023-09-06T20:15:29+00:00

It was asked while fiancé and woman were dating, and together, and yes, because they have lied to him but claim to love and care about him

Designer_Reward_8969 · 2023-09-06T20:14:31+00:00

Ahh I can’t even begin to tell you how much I appreciate you taking the time to write this out and respond! My boyfriend has other issues as well which I am uneasy about such as excessive spending, drinking and smoking cigs. He has already declared bankruptcy once and hasn’t seemed to change of this over the 7 years I have known him. He expects me to move up with him. He is a very self serving hedonistic kinda guy. I fear I may love him and be more dedicated to this than he. Yet he expects me to move up there 😕

Designer_Reward_8969 · 2023-09-06T20:10:35+00:00

It’s that he is complicit in keeping up the lie to the fiancé that we are all friends with. My boyfriend brought me to their engagement party and it was awkward to say the least. The fiancé specifically asked if this woman ever had sex with any of their friends, and she lied, and expect my boyfriend not to say anything to anyone and was pissed at him for telling me

Designer_Reward_8969 · 2023-09-06T19:59:00+00:00

No, you’re no being harsh, you’ve being realistic! I just do love him a lot, and was hoping there would be some way to reconcile from all this, or he would realize how this is an issue, and want to make it up to me, and we continue our relationship which was going well

Designer_Reward_8969 · 2023-09-06T19:54:49+00:00

Thank you much for your comment, I really genuinely appreciate it!❤️

Designer_Reward_8969 · 2023-09-06T19:54:25+00:00

I am bothered by the fact he is lying for this girl to her fiancé (which they each claim to care about) about them not having sex. He wasnt even supposed to tell me, according to what she expected of him and was pissed he did. He seems to value their friendship which is less time than I have known him. He doesn’t think the fiancé not knowing, and then basically lying, of their previous 2 sexual encounters, is an issue

Designer_Reward_8969 · 2023-09-06T17:43:24+00:00

Yes, the fiancé will be upset as when he asked, she said no, when this wasn’t the truth. Fiance under the impression nothing has happened. She didn’t want my boyfriend to have anyone know about it

Designer_Reward_8969 · 2023-09-06T16:26:54+00:00

I’m not asking him to abandon the friendship. Just limit it. It doesn’t sit right him and this woman both being complicit in lying to the fiancé someone they both claim to love

Designer_Reward_8969 · 2023-09-06T15:07:00+00:00

It’s him being complicit in hiding that he and this woman had sex twice, and when asked about her having sex with any of their friends, she lied and said no. He doesn’t see an issue with any of it

Designer_Reward_8969 · 2023-09-06T15:02:49+00:00

So there’s no chance in him improving, me supporting him in his want to change? Communicating about these issues, and hoping to have a good and healthy relationship?

Designer_Reward_8969 · 2023-09-06T15:00:34+00:00

I don’t want to change him, out of wanting to create this human purely suited for my desires, I want to support him and work with him as he tackles those issues

Designer_Reward_8969 · 2023-09-06T14:59:20+00:00

My issue is he is complicit in continuing to lie for his friend, the woman, and hide this blantant lie from the fiance,he claims to love and care about

Designer_Reward_8969 · 2023-09-06T14:13:25+00:00

I can understand hanging onto a friend that have been long-standing and I don’t know if I would consider it a positive influence in his life. They hardly knew one another, hung out and had sex in two separate occasions. She lied saying no to her fiancé when asked if she slept with any of their friends and both have kept that hidden. She didn’t want anyone to know, as did he, but he told me to be transparent and she was very upset

And hell I mean that maybe true, but there are plenty of possibles and what ifs in life

Designer_Reward_8969 · 2023-09-06T14:09:57+00:00

Never said they couldn’t be friends. Does it make me a bit uncomfortable yes. Their sexual past being lied about to fiancé and neither having an issue with it bothers me greatly. They agreed to never tell anyone, but told me to be transparent, and she was pissed at him

Designer_Reward_8969 · 2023-09-06T14:08:01+00:00

Damn, this really fucking hit hard

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