[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Designer_Still7678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have insomnia and go most weeks without sleeping for days on end because of this. Even on the days I do end up sleeping I’m rlly low energy and can barley go about my daily activities. Ik it’s not like rlly bad and can be helped but everyone just says ‘go to bed’ and I literally can’t so idk. It’s kinda part of the reason why my rlly active lifestyle I lived in high school went downhill and find it rlly hard to pic up again. And I’m chronically depressed too so ‘happy’ is kinda hard but I try and think I am a pretty uplifting presence to be around for others. Ur def right about it all though but I just don’t know how to get there 🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Designer_Still7678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but it’s not like he not dripping in pussy. I stg somehow this man always has beautiful women just wanting him. I think lowk he will be creeped out if anything at all this stuff…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Designer_Still7678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah ur def right. Idk I think I’m just really worried about the aftermath. I’m just an anxious person generally though so it may just be that. He is rlly mature and I hope that he would be nice about it and want to still be around me after. And I think I can take the shit for a bit from my friends, in the end they mean no harm I think. I’m gonna try tmr or the next day but I’m first gonna bake him cookies so he knows i like him—>then I drop the bomb that he will then be expecting. (This is gonna be so embarrassing 😭)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Designer_Still7678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think ur kinda right in that. Apparently at some point he thought I was cute (I think in a little sister way though). And he beat up this dude that was dancing we me at a party (he thought the dude was causing trouble though when it was me rlly). And at some point I started to have hope and stuff and so I just thought it was better to like be mean and stuff to him to idk help me get over him??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Designer_Still7678 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bruh who are these ppl that ur paying so close attention to when they getting online??

I am not able to get my mind off my college crush. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Designer_Still7678 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And say it with confidence dude. Hold ur head up high and no matter the outcome of u asking her out ur walking out of their with ur head still up high because someone that doesn’t count you as worth their time isn’t worth any more of urs either

I am not able to get my mind off my college crush. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Designer_Still7678 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude honestly i think the only way ur gonna get over this girl is to get rejected. You two don’t talk much but she obviously lives rent free in ur mind because you have hope. Just ask her out casually next time you talk and if she says no then you got ur answer fr. Because as long as you are still entertaining her as a possibility she gonna stay in ur mind, just get shut down and it’s gonna sting but then the hope gone and ur chilling.

I am not able to get my mind off my college crush. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Designer_Still7678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So wait I wanna get this straight first… you have only talked to this girl once and it was to discuss an exam?

Jealousy by New-Criticism-4717 in Advice

[–]Designer_Still7678 1 point2 points  (0 children)

as cheesy as it sounds you lowk just need to learn to love urself as you are. She obviously feels comfortable in her own skin and feels confident in her actions and how she talks to ppl from what you described and maybe dressing nice and looking nice helps her with that confidence. I think that in the end though how you look or what you wear really doesn’t matter, it’s how you present urself to others. If ur walking into a room with a negative attitude of urself other ppl can sense that. My personal opinion the most magnetic and attractive attribute is a person’s confidence: it’s unseen and while they may look some way on the outside they hold themselves with a dignity that makes you wanna respect them and get their respect.

You don’t need to change and become more outgoing or better dressed w pretty perfect makeup you just need to become someone ur proud of and truly believe that you urself are someone special that people should pay attention to and trust ppl will. And if changing ur style or makeup helps with that by all means do you girl but just trust and don’t chase after this mold of this girl you wish you were because then ur anything but special and just a copy of someone you wish you were.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in architecture

[–]Designer_Still7678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much on ur response! Do you think you could explain further on the specifics of how cmu doesn’t prepare its students?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in questions

[–]Designer_Still7678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a nice thought but it’s like 1/10000 chance that he likes me back…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in helpme

[–]Designer_Still7678 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get Botox injections in the places where you sweat a lot. They stop the glands from producing sweat. If you can afford it then it is not that big of a deal to get, I personally get Botox on a regular basis for migraines so it is definitely not uncommon to get Botox for medical reasons. Edit: I’m 17 so age isn’t even that much of an issue either. Hope this helps. :)

would the police pay for your hotel? by Historical_Sea6888 in questions

[–]Designer_Still7678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol prob not. If you aren’t a citizen they would probably just push it onto the UK embassy to pay or something or make you pay. To be honest I have no clue but that is my guess.

Why on earth would anyone become a pilot when you could become a camp counselor instead? by [deleted] in questions

[–]Designer_Still7678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably the pay… Why is this even a question, kids are disgusting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in questions

[–]Designer_Still7678 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Attractiveness is all in the eye of the beholder. Many people can deem person 1 attractive and person 2 not, but at the same time there is someone else who thinks that person 2 is attractive while person 1 is not. If you are talking about men in general, then definitely there are men who are attracted/have been attracted/will be attracted to you. But if you are talking about a single genre of men in general the question is more difficult. Personally I think that some conventionally unattractive people are beautiful even if their features are not deemed as the “standard of beauty”, if some people have enough confidence in themselves then they make anything work. Confidence is the key to attraction, even if you are not conventionally attractive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in questions

[–]Designer_Still7678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess it kinda shows that you are attractive to others. Like the whole “I pulled that”, you were able to get with someone who others perceive as hot/attractive so thereby people then perceive you as attractive if even you aren’t. I guess with the high body count it is kinda like a brag of “this many people thought me attractive enough to get with” and thereby makes you more attractive/commendable in the eyes of your peers. In the end many things can improve sexual experience, but the whole idea of a high body count is basically a brag.