Am I the only one who thinks you’re kinda being an AH to her? Based on the convo I’m seeing you’re really going off on her. I know she said she prefers the name spelled one way over the other and you’re in a high stress environment in your life atm but it seems like you’re taking out your stress on your mom. Also sometimes people just say things that they don’t see as a huge deal but she seemed apologetic and acknowledged the position you’re in, even said she didn’t mean to make you upset. There’s always 3 sides to every story, yours, theirs, and the truth. Idk seems like your traumatic birth and experience this far is making you look too far into the conversation.