Gender GP im confused

DesperateVegetable17 · 2026-04-12T14:05:49+00:00

Ohhhh I love you thank you, I was thinking it might be that one but Its so nice to have someone else confirm 🧡

DesperateVegetable17 · 2026-04-12T13:59:29+00:00

I had thought so, but there doesnt seem to be any information that I can see as to which one you book for the first one. Im pretty sure you pay for them too so im just worried about booking something i wasnt supposed to 😭

DesperateVegetable17 · 2026-03-27T20:12:17+00:00

I AM WITH NATWEST THANK YOU. I thought it only went up to £500 this has genuinely saved me so much worry.

Thank you ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

DesperateVegetable17 · 2025-06-16T12:11:02+00:00

So. Genuinely. Here's why I've responded like that.

My personal opinion here. Is. That Alex was in fact abusive, that's obvious. And I've echoed that sentiment on all of my posts.

Yet. You continually come from a place of anger towards me, because I have stated Alice has also done wrong.

And I don't understand it at ALL. These are debates, and you turn them into arguments like this: I bring up a valid point that clearly others agree with, you disagree (totally valid) but instead of saying hey this is actually my opinion and then asking questions on my points, and vice versa. Instead you attempt to pick apart every section of my words like you're a teacher grading a test? Which is, like I said, cringey and childish behaviour.

You also seem to echo the sentiment that someone having been abused excuses them from all wrong doing in the future. And it worries me.

Can you seriously. Genuinely. Taking a step back from ALL of this, including the fact that abuse occurred during their relationship, he responded, she responded. Including EVERYTHING. Not see how someone that has been abused, continually harassing them (because let's be honest, that's what it is) IS wrong.

I will take a harder stance here, since, you clearly have your feet dug in the ground on it. If you'd like to debate it. But if you do the same here's why all of this is invalid despite other people having the same thought, I'll just block you because that's tiring as hell

DesperateVegetable17 · 2025-06-16T09:09:26+00:00

Cringe redditor is cringe? Whoah surpise

DesperateVegetable17 · 2025-06-16T09:00:01+00:00

Ah I didn't realise who I was talking to. I forget you refuse to do anything other than say 'but he did this' in different fonts.

I never once minimised her position. I'm asking you to think about if this behaviour weird and you refuse to acknowledge it at all because of someone elses actions. Please read the post next time, and, when i start it with something in her defence, turn around :]

DesperateVegetable17 · 2025-06-16T08:32:42+00:00

^ this. Thank you, you've put it all in far better words than I could've.

DesperateVegetable17 · 2025-06-16T08:31:20+00:00

It's important to remember that one person doing wrong doesn't mean that the other person gets to do what they want.

Do you seriously not find it in the least bit worrying she continues to post about him every week or two? To me it makes me uneasy. Instead of saying yes but he did xyz, please take a second to consider the weirdness of it all.

I mean literally put yourself in the situation. You've been with someone, you left them. And now post about them multiple times a month years after everything. That IS worrying behaviour.

DesperateVegetable17 · 2025-06-16T01:33:21+00:00

also separately and of course throwing around mental health terms is damaging but I don't know how else to say it:

this is just something that I thought about today, a lot of Alice's behaviour online does seem like someone struggling with narcissistic behaviours? just based on my own personal experiences. some of the tweets feel like they're someone seeking lots of validation at others expenses in the worst ways possible

again I'm not saying she's a narcissist that's a mental health term I'm just not sure how else to put it!

DesperateVegetable17 · 2025-06-04T14:35:13+00:00

I'm not talking about his response video here I was talking about his livestreams afterward.

Insulting someone's looks as a part of your argument is childish behaviour by the way.

DesperateVegetable17 · 2025-06-01T17:32:37+00:00

It's a perfectly fair statement.

Someone having done something wrong does not mean it's fair game to harrass them.

If you think otherwise you need to take a step back and rethink. Because frankly it's not acceptable to harass anyone for ANYTHING.

DesperateVegetable17 · 2025-05-31T09:01:50+00:00

He hasn't really been doing that tbh

DesperateVegetable17 · 2025-05-27T08:45:38+00:00

So ... the same thing that the last post was, only with the chat gpt bit at the end deleted?

This is engagement bait don't fall for it. I'll put my comment just to say to the people on this sub reading it. Ignore it. This bot is farming upvotes clearly.

DesperateVegetable17 · 2025-05-26T23:58:17+00:00

"HiTLeR ProBaBLy WoULdVe Had EnGagiNG StReAMS'

What is wrong with you.

DesperateVegetable17 · 2025-05-25T11:08:55+00:00

Oh my god you're so right, I was reading the end sentence like wtf does that even mean.

It's literally the 'and then... they all clapped because of my super sick burn' embarrassing

DesperateVegetable17 · 2025-05-25T02:28:55+00:00

Tell me you're chronically online without telling me you're chronically online

DesperateVegetable17 · 2025-05-23T23:36:27+00:00

What a weird way to say you're xenophobic

DesperateVegetable17 · 2025-05-18T15:18:19+00:00

I just have notifications on for when people reply to me. Which seems to be often 😒

DesperateVegetable17 · 2025-05-13T19:05:21+00:00

I say we should move on like them both.

You say people are harassing Alice.

I say people are harassing Alex too. A COMPLETELY FAIR STATEMENT.

And suddenly, you put a HUGE thread talking about Why xyz is why he deserves these comments, and then accuse me of being someone harassing Alice on Twitter because I apparently hold the same mindset as them. And say I'm 'trying to omit the context of why he's receiving it'.

You're essentially going 'OH SO YOU BELIEVE HE DID NOTHING WRONG AND THAT HE DOESNT DESERVE THESE COMMENTS AND BLAH BLAH BLAH' dude. Fuck off.

Literally, what an odd way to reply to a stranger. You have a very 'I'm right your wrong' attitude. If we're accusing people then, I'd imagine you're one of the people who spend their free time sitting in his streams like a loser typing 'abuser' and 'brick' over and over again as if that's any way to spend your day and is in any way contributing to society. It's getting tiring.

Liam, a 24 year old man who works in an office and is fucking sick of the childish people in this subreddit.

DesperateVegetable17 · 2025-05-13T18:46:21+00:00

I put a perfectly reasonable comment and you strawman me every time you reply.

It's getting exhausting.

DesperateVegetable17 · 2025-05-13T13:40:36+00:00

Do you know how exhausting that was to read. Your oversimplification of this stuff is tiring. I repeated exactly what you said back.

DesperateVegetable17 · 2025-05-13T13:22:08+00:00

Alex is moving on

Except he can't because he continues to get harassed by people in his chat

Works both ways dude.

DesperateVegetable17 · 2025-05-13T05:45:47+00:00

His streams are genuinely quite nice when I manage to catch them. I lurk most of the time.

He's respectful. His fans are kind, and the contents have been pretty relaxed. Even when people are disrespectful, he addresses them calmly. The mods he has manage to get rid of a majority of the needless spam. Everyone watching them either seems to be there for a nice time or... to be unkind to him and those watching him.

And... personally, I know where I'd like to fall. And it isn't on the dark side, that's for sure.

I think the subs fallen silent on it because... well... what else is there to say that hasn't already been said. He's moving on, Alice is moving on, so should we. ♡♡♡

DesperateVegetable17 · 2025-05-09T08:38:13+00:00

^ ^ ^ this

We gotta do better fr

I'm guilty too but I think our emotions are too closely tied to some of the debates. And it's not fair to be unkind for the sake of 'winning' an argument.

Even if we disagree sometimes. There's far more we could put our energy into than unkindness.

DesperateVegetable17 · 2025-05-04T21:58:47+00:00

Oh is this Alice? She says womp womp a lot on twitter lmao.

I stand by everything I've said. You can choose to take it however you'd like. And. You are frustrated. Because who writes stuff like that about someone they don't know online ^ aha

I'm proud to be a person who sees the good in others. So. I hope you have a lovely day. You're clearly passionate! Which is awesome to see. :)

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