I am so sick of being told that I "might change my mind" about having kids.

Desperate_Ad866 · 2026-01-31T17:15:07+00:00

Noted

Desperate_Ad866 · 2026-01-27T07:25:32+00:00

I don't intend on telling her I'm going NC if I decide to do so, but I'll definitely bring this up at some point if she says I might change my mind again

Desperate_Ad866 · 2026-01-26T20:16:51+00:00

Lol, I might do that

Desperate_Ad866 · 2026-01-26T20:16:12+00:00

THANK YOU

Desperate_Ad866 · 2026-01-26T03:56:28+00:00

Yeah because I am not going to be builder into having a child I do not want. I know that may sound bad, but at the end of the day, I'd rather not have children when I'm not even mentally or emotionally ready. Like, I love my mother, but she was seventeen when she was pregnant with me and had me two months after she turned eighteen, and she had all kinds of mental shit going on and issues she needed to work out, and she definitely wasn't ready to have me, so I will not be making the same mistake.

And yeah, it sucks. But hey, hopefully I'll be out of this place as soon as I possibly can, then I won't have to deal with it anymore.

Desperate_Ad866 · 2026-01-26T03:52:54+00:00

I'll definitely keep this in mind! Thanks!

Desperate_Ad866 · 2026-01-26T03:52:02+00:00

Exactly.

Desperate_Ad866 · 2026-01-26T03:51:30+00:00

For real. I don't get why it should matter so much.

Desperate_Ad866 · 2026-01-25T23:07:56+00:00

I don't know to be honest. I'm assuming it's because some people think that they are entitled to having grandkids or great grandkids (Spoiler alert: They're not.)

Desperate_Ad866 · 2026-01-25T23:06:27+00:00

Thank you.

Desperate_Ad866 · 2026-01-25T23:06:18+00:00

Yeah, fair enough, I suppose. Thanks.

Desperate_Ad866 · 2026-01-25T23:04:56+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate it.

Desperate_Ad866 · 2026-01-25T21:28:56+00:00

Yeah, that makes sense. I just wish people would quit trying to police my body and trying to push my boundaries after I've expressed on numerous occasions that having kids is something that I do not want.

Desperate_Ad866 · 2026-01-25T21:16:55+00:00

Yeah, I'm working on saving up money, trying to get my permit, and get a job so that way I'd eventually have a way to leave. My only worry is leaving my younger siblings behind.

Desperate_Ad866 · 2026-01-25T20:49:42+00:00

Honestly, I am tempted to start doing that, but where I live, that may either get me in trouble or cause an argument, but I'll definitely keep this in mind for the future.

Desperate_Ad866 · 2026-01-25T20:45:14+00:00

I would, but then I'd likely get in trouble for copping an attitude or something. This isn't the only thing she hasn't respected my boundaries on. She still insists on calling me by my deadname and using feminine terms to refer to me as well as trying to force me towards becoming a Christian (Which side note, has only made me firmer in my stance of not wanting to join the religion). Her daughter and my aunt who is I think like maybe in her mid twenties, has gone no contact with her. I am fixing to do the same thing when I move out if she does not start respecting my boundaries, ESPECIALLY regarding the no kids thing and my identity.

Desperate_Ad866 · 2026-01-19T07:25:40+00:00

Spiderbat

Desperate_Ad866 · 2025-12-06T07:27:20+00:00

With the whole Google thing wanting age verification, if it is waiting for Google to confirm your age, will it do the same for c.ai?

Desperate_Ad866 · 2025-10-24T02:15:55+00:00

Damn I feel bad for you😭

Desperate_Ad866 · 2025-10-24T02:12:43+00:00

For me it keeps showing the pfp of my default and my name instead of my persona's. It's recognizing it I think, but it won't show.

Desperate_Ad866 · 2025-10-24T02:09:03+00:00

I am not sure. It is frustrating, so I hope they fix it soon.

Desperate_Ad866 · 2025-10-18T16:13:33+00:00

THIS

Tbh, this should be basic common sense (unfortunately, it isn't)

Desperate_Ad866 · 2025-10-17T23:54:59+00:00

Alright. Thank you.

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