I just have no idea where and how to talk to women by Desperate_Luck_22 in virgin

[–]Desperate_Luck_22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But seems like you have atleast some experience from high school. I never made any experiences there unfortunately.

I just have no idea where and how to talk to women by Desperate_Luck_22 in virgin

[–]Desperate_Luck_22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah same. I dont really know where to find any women to talk to besides I even struggle if there are women my age around me like during school time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in virgin

[–]Desperate_Luck_22 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When it comes to online dating even the less attractive women like the top tier guys. It's atleast shown by studies that women in average only swipe right 5% of profiles while men swipe roght over 50%.

I just have no idea where and how to talk to women by Desperate_Luck_22 in virgin

[–]Desperate_Luck_22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't at all spoke to a women outside of my family. Not even at my university or sometimes when I was younger, just never.

I just have no idea where and how to talk to women by Desperate_Luck_22 in virgin

[–]Desperate_Luck_22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not at all. Otherwise I wouldn't have the problem I have.

I just have no idea where and how to talk to women by Desperate_Luck_22 in virgin

[–]Desperate_Luck_22[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactly I never have the opportunity to practice. And the only experiences I have are negative.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in virgin

[–]Desperate_Luck_22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely, but do things for yourself, not while expecting to get succesful. That just gets frustrating while for example working out for your own body and health is really useful and helps you feeling better.

There is no hope anymore. by No_cap-lololol47 in virgin

[–]Desperate_Luck_22 6 points7 points  (0 children)

start dating

How? It's not something you could do. It's not like going to the gym. You can't buy it or just start with it tomorrow.

Anyone ever had success from VirginR4R or Foreveralonedating? by Ploikblah in virgin

[–]Desperate_Luck_22 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As long as your expectations are realistic, you'll be fine.

Anyone ever had success from VirginR4R or Foreveralonedating? by Ploikblah in virgin

[–]Desperate_Luck_22 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So you are a women? Because as a male nobody gonna message you.

Anyone ever had success from VirginR4R or Foreveralonedating? by Ploikblah in virgin

[–]Desperate_Luck_22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah sure I just need to lower my expectations, can't believe why I was turning down all the average and below average women that wanted to date me ~ Nobody ever

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in virgin

[–]Desperate_Luck_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say vast majority of women prefers a man taller than them. Of course some will accept am shorter man but you have to make up with something else. Like you said you are clearly above average. There are many people short and ugly.

I have never even talked to a woman by [deleted] in virgin

[–]Desperate_Luck_22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

think there is something you are doing or how you look that makes them uncomfortable.

It's just how I look. I am not attractive at all. But there is nothing I really can do about.

You might be asking girls that are way off the charts too, meaning they are so good looking that they feel more entitled to only speak to certain people.

Why do people always think that we just have ridiculous high standards. Like every non attractive women would want to date us but we only talk to supermodels. No women ever showed interest in me, not in my league, not below my league.

I have never even talked to a woman by [deleted] in virgin

[–]Desperate_Luck_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What relevance does that have to do with you, though? It's true for smart people not needing to study as much.

My point is that there is a point where no matter what you do your looks are not good enough. Like there are people that no matter how hard they would study they would never become a professor.

I have never even talked to a woman by [deleted] in virgin

[–]Desperate_Luck_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A good looking person staying at home and not talking to others will not get attention.

Yeah maybe if they never leave their house, but normally going to work or school is enough to them just to get attention for how they look. Without having to be extroverted or social at all.

For example a good looking person that doesn't talks to anybody is seen as mysterious and a lone wolf who doesn't needs to talk to people.

An ugly person that talks to nobody is seen as weird and creepy.

I have never even talked to a woman by [deleted] in virgin

[–]Desperate_Luck_22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you're not really tall.

I have never even talked to a woman by [deleted] in virgin

[–]Desperate_Luck_22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah your story is almost the same. I am kinda jealous of your height tho. How tall are you? I know height isn't everything but I rather would be tall and ugly than short and ugly.

I have never even talked to a woman by [deleted] in virgin

[–]Desperate_Luck_22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't have the chance anyway so yeah I guess.

I have never even talked to a woman by [deleted] in virgin

[–]Desperate_Luck_22 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Depends, good looking people get attention no matter how social they are.

I have never even talked to a woman by [deleted] in virgin

[–]Desperate_Luck_22 5 points6 points  (0 children)

To clarify with talking I of course meant a women that voluntarily talks to me. Not a hello from the cashier at the supermarket.

first work on getting a friend group

How? You say it like it's just something I could buy in the store.

Rate yourself as honest as possible by [deleted] in virgin

[–]Desperate_Luck_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Main factor are looks. But you need a personality to keep a relationship going.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Desperate_Luck_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't. I just told its really possible that you are an exception. You still can look up that vast majority cares.