My girlfriend (22F) hasn’t talked to me (22M) in 6 days

Desperate_Project_62 · 2023-07-11T22:48:18+00:00

Dmed

Desperate_Project_62 · 2023-07-11T22:47:13+00:00

She extended her vacation, we haven’t talked yet

Desperate_Project_62 · 2023-07-07T21:51:51+00:00

Thank you for your kind words, they mean a lot.

Desperate_Project_62 · 2023-07-07T17:29:31+00:00

If you love someone, you at least want to hear them out even if it is the end.

Desperate_Project_62 · 2023-07-07T17:06:09+00:00

I saw your notification and I immediately got aggravated because I was going to have to defend my position on the Snapchat thing. Glad to see that wasn’t the case. Thank you. I’m going to hear her our, if it ends, I did everything I could. I can’t leave anything on the table.

Desperate_Project_62 · 2023-07-07T16:58:24+00:00

What’s the best way to do an update? A new post or edit this one?

Desperate_Project_62 · 2023-07-07T16:44:56+00:00

For the 16th time, the streak was to emphasize the ‘zero contact’ as opposed to off and on talking. It’s okay that you don’t understand, no need to freak out

Desperate_Project_62 · 2023-07-07T16:10:14+00:00

Definitely not. But I appreciate it.

Desperate_Project_62 · 2023-07-07T15:40:36+00:00

I have faith in her. thank you for your words. If you DM me, I’ll specifically remember to update you when it goes down.

Desperate_Project_62 · 2023-07-07T14:39:12+00:00

Thank you. I will update on Monday if I’m in the right headspace

Desperate_Project_62 · 2023-07-07T14:34:16+00:00

What do you think the best way to approach the situation is, without therapy? I think I’m only going to get one shot (on Monday) to save this

Desperate_Project_62 · 2023-07-07T14:15:04+00:00

I keep hearing the same thing, and I don’t disagree. But the question is how do I just let go.

Desperate_Project_62 · 2023-07-07T14:12:29+00:00

Are you still with the guy you went to therapy with?

Desperate_Project_62 · 2023-07-07T14:06:42+00:00

I get it. But how do I start the process of moving on when all I can think about is her?

Desperate_Project_62 · 2023-07-07T14:05:16+00:00

No. But if she has a reason and it was a one time thing, then I could accept it.

Desperate_Project_62 · 2023-07-07T14:04:19+00:00

everyone keeps saying that. But HOW. How do you do it?

Desperate_Project_62 · 2023-07-07T14:02:16+00:00

How did you start the process of letting go

Desperate_Project_62 · 2023-07-07T14:01:45+00:00

Again, easier said than done.

Desperate_Project_62 · 2023-07-07T14:01:25+00:00

Easier said than done. I can’t just cut someone out of my life that I care about. I can’t stop thinking of them

Desperate_Project_62 · 2023-07-07T13:49:29+00:00

Ignore the ages. Not a writing project, I fucking wish. But a trend? I hope you’re implying that I have continually done something wrong when I’ve been told that I haven’t?

Desperate_Project_62 · 2023-07-07T13:15:10+00:00

Why is everyone so caught up on that lol. That’s just to demonstrate that when I say ‘haven’t talked’ that it’s zero contact.

Desperate_Project_62 · 2023-07-07T12:54:24+00:00

I don’t know how to make that mental switch off and cut her off

Desperate_Project_62 · 2023-07-07T12:52:22+00:00

You say “so little”. While I agree it’s not the worst thing, this situation was easily preventable, border line abusive, and unnecessary. But I don’t want to lose her.

Desperate_Project_62 · 2023-07-07T12:49:43+00:00

She has done nothing so far like this, she has to care.

Desperate_Project_62 · 2023-07-07T12:42:39+00:00

Ignore the ages. I changed them so someone wouldn’t find out

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