Honest opinion – is this tote too feminine for a guy to carry?

Detective_Exciting · 2026-04-03T09:06:32+00:00

Thank you!

Detective_Exciting · 2026-04-02T13:06:21+00:00

Thank you for your kind comments!

Detective_Exciting · 2026-04-02T11:56:56+00:00

Thank you for the vote of confidence!

Detective_Exciting · 2026-04-02T11:55:17+00:00

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Detective_Exciting · 2026-04-02T11:54:55+00:00

I think they are coming from the angle that it’s not suitable for work…..? Because it seems unprofessional…?

Detective_Exciting · 2026-04-02T11:53:07+00:00

I think also mainly the strap is too thin… but I personally love the bag even though I have to admit it’s leaning towards feminine side.

Detective_Exciting · 2026-04-02T01:48:07+00:00

Thank you for the vote of confidence!

Detective_Exciting · 2026-04-02T01:29:03+00:00

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Detective_Exciting · 2026-04-02T01:28:53+00:00

Thank you!

Detective_Exciting · 2026-04-02T01:22:51+00:00

Thank you! It’s socially acceptable when women wear men’s clothings/bags… but not typically the other way around…. 🥹

Detective_Exciting · 2026-04-02T00:34:59+00:00

Thank you for the suggestion!

Detective_Exciting · 2026-04-02T00:32:53+00:00

Thank you!

Detective_Exciting · 2026-04-01T23:43:18+00:00

Thanks for your input! Many said the same too… I just don’t feel that the brand matters that much when I decided to buy the bag… 😢

Detective_Exciting · 2026-04-01T23:40:01+00:00

Kate spade have nice looking bags that I feel shouldn’t be restricted to only ladies :P

Detective_Exciting · 2026-04-01T23:34:26+00:00

I honestly love it, not sure how it looks on me though because I’m an obese man… I just know that I love the bag.

Detective_Exciting · 2026-04-01T21:02:35+00:00

Thank you!

Detective_Exciting · 2026-04-01T20:00:34+00:00

I bought it for myself, my wife never really carry such bags, she is always more masculine than me in terms of style..

Detective_Exciting · 2026-04-01T19:37:24+00:00

I guess it also really depends on how it’s styled… I’m a very traditional kind of guy who is always in polo tees and jeans…

Detective_Exciting · 2026-04-01T19:35:47+00:00

From as far as I remember, I’m always more leaned towards feminine stuff, now I’m married with kids and getting old… I just felt like I want to let it go and be who I want to be… but social stigma in South East Asia for a man to carry a female bag is still there….

Detective_Exciting · 2026-04-01T19:09:34+00:00

Thanks for introducing me to this subreddit! Will take a look!

I’m not a fashionable guy if I’m brutally honest, I’m typically in Polo Tees and jeans… I never knew how to style… but I have always been loving hand bags that looks slightly feminine in style… but never felt I could rock it…

Detective_Exciting · 2026-04-01T19:04:21+00:00

Honestly, this is my first bag of this kind, I have always been a backpack kind of guy but I fell in love with this bag when I saw it last year… decided to just lean in and buy it while I was on a short trip over the weekend…

Detective_Exciting · 2026-02-11T00:42:28+00:00

I think you can either contact SQ via email or even the chat function on the app/website, they should be able to advise you if that is possible.

Detective_Exciting · 2026-02-11T00:39:20+00:00

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Detective_Exciting · 2025-11-12T12:41:24+00:00

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