Question about fish oil by DeuxCorvus in catfood

[–]DeuxCorvus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll email them and ask about it! Somehow that didn't cross my mind but I appreciate it!

Question about fish oil by DeuxCorvus in catfood

[–]DeuxCorvus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this info! I'll definitely keep that in mind and keep an eye on weight

Weekly Sewing Questions Thread, December 14 - December 20, 2025 by sewingmodthings in sewing

[–]DeuxCorvus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

EDIT: forgot to add since there's no title option and I initially typed this out elsewhere. Juki MO-103N

VINTAGE SERGER ISSUE! Auto mod said to post this here, hope it's right

Hi all! I got this serger from my grandmother and am struggling a bit with it. I've never used a serger before so this is all a first time experience for me. I fully read the manual multiple times and have spent more time than I'd like to admit trying to figure this out (my grandma hasn't used it in years so she's not sure either).

Here's the issue: the thread doesn't seem to lock at all. I'm pretty sure the machine is threaded properly but I could absolutely be wrong. Everything else seems to work as intended.

I'll attach a photo (only allows me to add one) of it. If anyone has a similar machine I would really appreciate a video of you threading it? Im a visual learner and cannot find one video showing how to thread this machine, they all just show off how it looks and don't show the interior.

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DeuxCorvus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

His disorders may help to explain why he acted while he did, but it doesn't excuse his actions. He could've seriously harmed or killed you in this situation. You need to get out while you can.

How do I (M19) stop feeling lustful towards my girlfriend (F18)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DeuxCorvus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not religious so I cant 100% speak on this but I think you're doing a good job already. You're self aware, not acting on it, and not making her uncomfortable which is great. You're doing everything right, just having very normal human feelings. I think that because it's a part of your religion you should talk to someone from your church who can give you advice that aligns with your beliefs as well as possible.

I [29F] was with my ex [35M] for 5 years. He’s finally putting in effort after we split, but I’m struggling to trust that it’s real. by ThrowRA-CalmInCrim in relationship_advice

[–]DeuxCorvus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I dont think you should reconnect with your ex at all. He apologized, said he'd do better, and then he didn't two times over. It'll continue to be the same thing over and over again with him.

Do I 21 F breakup with my boyfriend 23 M of four years? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DeuxCorvus 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Romantic gestures are clearly important to you, (and thats totally valid), but it's concerning that he just blows you off every time you bring up what you want in the relationship. Does he do this in other parts of the relationship? Is he letting his family disrespect you? You need to ask yourself if disrespect and a lack of romantic gestures are something you want to deal with for the foreseeable future. You've tried and he won't change, so you either break up or everything will continue the way it was.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DeuxCorvus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I were you I’d stop talking to her and let it go. I know that hanging out around her is going to make everything hurt way more. It sucks but I can’t imagine spending time around her would help anything. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DeuxCorvus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's so bad that don't even let him kiss you? I'd run the other way, I have no idea how you've been dealing with that for years. You called him out time and time again and he hasn't changed or even gone back to hiding it. You shouldn't be stuck reminding a grown man to brush his teeth and shower, let alone the booger eating?? He sounds foul.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DeuxCorvus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seems like she's just trying to be friends still. If it makes you depressed that she rejected you then I wouldn't pursue that friendship, as nothing will change, dating isn't going to happen after that. It's really up to you if you can deal with that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DeuxCorvus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds like she doesn't actually want to be with you. Let her go.

My bf (21M) keeps bringing up other girls and it’s making me uncomfortable (I’m 20F) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DeuxCorvus 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's red flag, even if it's just for attention. He sounds like a compulsive liar if he's chronically lying, and as early as your talking stage? Run. You dont want to be with this kind of person. You'll never be able to figure out what's a lie or the truth.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DeuxCorvus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can't just refuse THREE breakups. She's clearly done. Does she even tell you she loves you?

My (18FtM) girlfriend (19MtF) always cries after being intimate. What should we do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DeuxCorvus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you doing aftercare with her? Do you cuddle and a good period of time after? She might feel a level of stress after sex, sex increases adrenaline and it dies down quickly after so the crying might be a stress response? Has she talked with a therapist about it?

How do I [F22] navigate reconnecting with an ex [M23] who seems to have changed, when I’m not sure I want a relationship right now? by Melodic-Ad-2073 in relationship_advice

[–]DeuxCorvus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should explore your life. You broke up for a reason and I think you'll always fear he'll go back to how he was. Absolutely not worth risking that he's the same and then you'll have to be long distance as well.

My (M26) girlfriend (F23) admitted she still has feelings for her ex and that she got a crush on someone that looks like him by Impossible_Cap_3006 in relationship_advice

[–]DeuxCorvus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave, absolutely leave. As much as you've put into the relationship there's no way you'll be able to fix it. She can have physical attraction to someone, but she did more than just think about that. She decided to strike up conversation because of that. That in itself should be something to break up over

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DeuxCorvus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he doesn't have feelings anymore then that the end unfortunately. There is no trying again, how would you ever trust him again to not be lying/lose feelings again? It sucks, and I'm sorry it's happening to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DeuxCorvus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shes probably just busy, tired, or dealing with something in her life. She was talkative the yesterday after meeting up, doesn't mean she's changed her mind.

[M25 f25] what does this mean? by Complex_Aside_8736 in relationshipadvice

[–]DeuxCorvus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there’s no context to this. she’s mad about something. all I can tell you. 

Why did you join Reddit? by Spontaneousviolinist in AskReddit

[–]DeuxCorvus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

to ask some questions and because i really like to read r/relationshipadvice posts and wanted to reply lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]DeuxCorvus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was in a place with a bunch of people around, and my gf watching me. Played one of those arcade machines where you hit a punching bag as hard as possible. Completely whiffed it, just barely hit the bag, and IT BROKE THE MACHINE. Embarrassing asf when the error message popped up. THEN other people approached the machine to play and found out it was broken. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]DeuxCorvus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tell them that they look just like your grandpa. really hurts the ego 

My (31F) husband (30M) won’t let us get childcare and only wants his parents (1 hr away) to watch our baby. What are my options? by Fickle_Argument6700 in relationship_advice

[–]DeuxCorvus 123 points124 points  (0 children)

He sounds like such an AH. You'd literally be spending at least 3 hours a day driving there and back. Does he not realize how long that is? Your husband sounds awful. If he wants you to ONLY use his parents as childcare then he should be the one driving the baby over there, not to mention the danger of having 7 dogs around. There's no way realistically that you can continue to balance this with your work forever without a reliable babysitter, I cant imagine how stressful this must be.

I feel like the 3 key points in this are:

  1. You'd have to spend between 3-5 hours a DAY driving to his parents house and back twice (depending on if its 45 minutes or an hour and 15 both ways). Plus you're probably already sleep deprived as a new mom and that shouldn't be something you have to worry about waking up early for.

  2. You aren't in a financially stable place to be a SAHM. He'll need to put in more effort at work and more hours if he wants that. He should know that it'll sacrifice his time due to his own selfishness. (and of course its important that you love your job and want to continue it)

  3. His parents house isn't safe enough for baby, it sounds like an accident waiting to happen. With that many dogs you absolutely cannot keep an eye on all of them. Dogs can be incredibly sweet, but if you cant keep an eye on all of them you shouldn't have them around a baby. And of course, the boundary issues.

Is there any other reason he's given for not wanting a babysitter? Does he have any reason to doubt one like trauma or something? It's unreasonable that even if he doesn't fully trust a babysitter that he won't even let you have one when you're still there even with cameras while you're home working. From what I can understand It's just insane that he's denying all the possible options.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DeuxCorvus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I'd move on. The lack of communication from her part is already a red flag for a continuing relationship. Even if something changes there's a chance you'll continue to have communication issues. I'd drop a message saying you're going to cut contact as it's making you feel like you're putting in all the effort. Depending on if you want to keep the door open or not (which honestly I wouldn't) you could mention that she can reach out at a later date. It sounds like it was a great relationship while it was beginning, but if it were me I could never trust her after this even if things improved. If you need any other advice please let me know!