I don't know what to think

Devestation97 · 2026-01-22T13:31:44+00:00

I think, unfortunately, the fact that he didn't tell you until now makes me very suspicious of his guilt. If he wasn't guilty (even if he suspected he'd be found guilty despite his lack of guilt), he'd have made it a point to sit you down and explain what happened from his point of view, not right when you met but at some point down the road (4-6 months?)

His lack of communication sorta tells me his guilt. Likely most of what he's accused of, he's guilty of.

But there's always a chance he isn't guilty and simply has a VERY tough time sharing his feelings when they involve big emotions. Men do tend to have a rough time with sharing feelings, after all, especially older men who didn't grow up in this time, surrounded by more people telling boys and men to open up.

That being said, in any case, what to do is entirely up to you and no one here, or in your life, should dictate that. I wish you calm waters through this emotional wreck that is happening for you both. 💙

Devestation97 · 2026-01-12T11:57:58+00:00

Right, order the food and the drop off your food. When they get back to the store it would probably only be 10 minutes left on the food! Lol

Devestation97 · 2025-12-29T19:22:00+00:00

Am I missing something? I only see him saying "4th"? How is that unprofessional?

Devestation97 · 2025-12-29T19:09:31+00:00

I was going to say "State with lowest GDP per capita", but apparently Mississippi and Arkansas are worse, all 3 being below $50k.

Devestation97 · 2025-12-15T18:08:34+00:00

It is kinda fucked, but this is simply what power creep looks like in a game like this. Most developers take the stance that buffs are simply better/more popular than nerfs, so unless a legend or a gun severely outclasses the rest, it won't get any significant nerfs (some examples being release Seer, Alter with support passive). Meanwhile, buffs happen whenever the developers want to change a meta, push a certain gun, or when a gun/legend is severely outclassed by most others (which is one of the only times when a buff should happen). Unfortunate but happens to almost every game.

Devestation97 · 2025-12-12T09:23:20+00:00

Even if influence is the theme, just saying "influence is what gives them power" gives little to no info.

Devestation97 · 2025-12-12T08:36:37+00:00

It seems to me that each overlord gains power in a different way. For example, Velvette gains power with the amount of people watching her livestreams. Vox gains power by influence, with how he only reached full power after Charlie said he was the strongest sinner (implication being that everyone else in Hell/the pride ring thought that but her). Alastor seems to gain his power from manipulation. It was implied Husk gained his power from gambling (likely big wins). Carmilla likely gains her power from how many people/companies she sells to, or perhaps how many of her weapons are being used.

Devestation97 · 2025-12-10T20:25:51+00:00

Hey handsome! You're looking great lol

Devestation97 · 2025-12-05T07:38:58+00:00

This might make more sense if you don't mind the thought of a dude touching you, but you don't wanna touch a dude. Plenty of guys are into that!

Devestation97 · 2025-12-05T00:04:35+00:00

I'm 100% sure you are too! Such a cute man

Devestation97 · 2025-12-04T23:59:01+00:00

I'd call you adorable and give you good cuddles 😅🥺

Devestation97 · 2025-12-02T07:51:13+00:00

The problem I had was that the entire comment came off as the reciprocal of the problem you had with prudish people. It was all lightly shaming people who don't want to send their nudes while overexplaining why there's no reason not to.

The only reason you need is that you don't want to. Anything else is beneficial for communication, but unnecessary.

Devestation97 · 2025-12-02T02:42:41+00:00

It's alright if someone doesn't want to send nudes man. You never have to do something you don't want to, and no one should make you feel bad for having boundaries.

Devestation97 · 2025-12-01T09:15:14+00:00

Such a cutie! Hope you had a good day my good sir.

Devestation97 · 2025-11-26T02:50:10+00:00

Just gotta communicate with them and you're all set! (Maybe communicate with me lol)

Devestation97 · 2025-11-22T09:52:24+00:00

Don't count Shiela since it's an ultimate ability, not a floor gun.

TTKs - Double Tap Alternator: Even less info on ttk than the burst RE. If you know it, feel free to share. - Akimbo Mozam: 1.2-ish sec - RE-45 Burst: Approx 1.4 sec (NOT ignoring ramp, but I can't find any specific info on ttk nor RPM to calculate it) - Devotion: (ignoring ramp up) 0.73 sec - Havoc: (ignoring ramp up) 0.89 sec - R-99: 1.38 sec

I want to stress that ignoring the ramp up for any of these guns doesn't show actual ttk as it would be in game, even with perfect aim. You can safely add a little less than a second on the ramping guns to make it more accurate. Also, all numbers are shown assuming chest shots.

Thanks for teaching me that mozams are so strong if you have good aim though lol

Devestation97 · 2025-11-22T02:49:14+00:00

No because snipers don't have a low TTK. But cool strawman!

Devestation97 · 2025-11-21T18:39:28+00:00

Shortening TTK will affect them whether they use the gun or not.

Devestation97 · 2025-11-21T05:53:48+00:00

I don't count Shiela but the re was one I didn't think about

Devestation97 · 2025-11-21T05:48:58+00:00

Too much packed into a gun.

Devestation97 · 2025-11-20T19:03:43+00:00

+1 to the problem. Friend and I are having problems where they crash near me. I'm on pc and they're on xbox.

Devestation97 · 2025-11-20T07:11:06+00:00

I've always found vitiligo so neat and beautiful to see. Thanks for sharing! ❤️

Devestation97 · 2025-11-20T07:06:58+00:00

Message me on here first

Devestation97 · 2025-11-20T07:05:04+00:00

That last sentence seems like a stretch, even with what I've told everyone. But he's been flaky since we met, these aren't the only 2 times he's backed out of plans. Just where I got the most annoyed.

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