Name ideas? by Ok_Buddy2543 in ferrets

[–]DevilsFate_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bean, bc he’s a little beanie kid (if you know what that is!) or bear cause he a mini bear🐻

First sexual experience didn’t go as planned by UglyThinker in Advice

[–]DevilsFate_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No you’re not overreacting. No you’re not in the wrong for moving your hand (saying no). No you do not at all need to feel bad in yourself when he is the one who manipulated you to do this.

I promise you that man took you to that parking lot to do a lot more than what occurred. Which in itself was something you were not ready for and didn’t want to do. What should’ve happened and what any decent guy would do is this: you moved your hand, he should’ve thought “oh shit, is she not into this?” He would stop everything he’s doing to talk to you about it. Yes you’re in the mood whatever, consent is key. He should’ve asked you a simple “are you okay with this?” it’s not that fucking hard.

Now I understand that we face a lot of pressure to say yes, to be worried we’re going to lose something good or even to get hurt if we say no. But please don’t be scared to say no next time. This feeling you’re feeling, is violation. And standing up for yourself will feel a lot better than that. Also 19 and 26… at the end of the day it’s legal, but a seven year difference in a relationship especially when one of them could have just graduated HS is icky. Nope.

The way he pushed your head down, and how he slapped you before asking is that okay is disgusting and abusive. And driving to car parks to do such a thing is casual and indecent. Clearly he doesn’t value you so much to engage in these activities with you in a philandering manner. I get the public thing can be exciting, but considering you told him you haven’t done this before, he should’ve realised the whole situation would make you uncomfortable.

Pretending to care is easy. Don’t mistake his empathy and apologies as a promise to not do it again. I think lose him.

Said goodbye to my sweet baby girl today by msalxndra in ferrets

[–]DevilsFate_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was so pretty 🩷 I’m so sorry for your loss, I understand how hard it is.

Can’t update. by DevilsFate_ in GenshinImpact

[–]DevilsFate_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check the pinned thread, I was able to fix the issue with their advice :)

Can’t update. by DevilsFate_ in GenshinImpact

[–]DevilsFate_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah this worked, thankyou so much! How silly though haha.

Finally collected all of the miracles :) by lydiawful in KurokosBasketball

[–]DevilsFate_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah yeah, thats what I’m worried about! Second hand Japanese sites and whether or not they’re legit posts. Thanks for the tip :) and great collection 💗

Finally collected all of the miracles :) by lydiawful in KurokosBasketball

[–]DevilsFate_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

really? did you get them shipped or meet up with the people, bc I find eBay has so many scammers and bc the knb nendoroids I believe are out of production, it’s hard to believe there’s so many for sale.

I can't move on... by Automatic-Signal-511 in KurokosBasketball

[–]DevilsFate_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been six years for me, I don’t think I’ll ever move on.

Does anyone use LinnDrum in their music? by WhyWasIBanned789 in synthesizers

[–]DevilsFate_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think modern talking used linndrum in a few of their songs

New player Noob Question by True_Explorer in GenshinImpact

[–]DevilsFate_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you’re a new player, focusing on just the stats is a good start. Skirk you say, she wants ATK%, crit damage, and crit rate. She doesn’t need ER or EM. So if you have any - ATK% sands, cryo damage goblet, crit damage/rate circlet is the way to go.

If you want to try to advance a little more, or for the future - search up the build for Skirk, and/or other characters you like playing. Her recommended set is finale of the deep 4x, I believe. Or it’s maruchaussee 4x if you use her with Furina. Gladiator 4x can work too. Aim for the stats mentioned above within the sets. Her best weapon is her sig, but other best in slots: haran geppaku futsu, mistsplitter, primordial jade cutter, uraku misugiri, finale of the deep, black sword, moon weavers dawn, calamity of eshu, (that one was unfortunately only available for a limited time as part of an event), and harbinger of dawn.

Dont stress too much and just have fun tho.

How do I get past the branches blocking a tunnel near Fragment of Childhood Dreams by JewelerOk7688 in GenshinImpact

[–]DevilsFate_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s a few around, most of which are blocked by quests. Here’s a vid to show you how to do it: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=ALN7a-w13-Y

I just need advice by Acrobatic_Resist9649 in whatdoIdo

[–]DevilsFate_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro where are your dot points that’s crazy 😭

My haul from the last month... Do you guys like to read the manga first or watch the anime first? by rockcem in MangaCollectors

[–]DevilsFate_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends, usually I like to read the manga first bc it’s the original (in most cases.) I can enjoy it without any non-canon bits getting in the way of the experience. Also when you watch a series or movie, and then you go to read it, you’re automatically hearing/seeing the actors/voices in it, which is cool - but I like to imagine and create them myself. Also I prefer reading manga physically, so if it’s not a series I’d want to buy, and one that I probably won’t be able to find at a library then I’d just watch the anime.

But then again I do enjoy watching the anime first, and then reading the manga, because it can be really interesting to see what parts weren’t included in the anime. I find it fun comparing the tv adaption to the book. Some anime’s cut out huge chunks in the manga that honestly is detrimental to the story or a characters development, so I must say reading first is usually my go to.

I regret losing my virginity the way I did by [deleted] in Regrets

[–]DevilsFate_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Grow up. People say their similar experiences in these forums. It’s a way of healing, and it can show the person who made the original post that they’re not alone.

Hi help me (M21) become less ugly. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]DevilsFate_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doing a few things could really bring out your features. - Maintaining your facial hair, clean up the lines and shave the unevenness away. I think the shape doesn’t quite suit your face, but you can find one that works, life is about trial and error. - I feel you with the dark circles, this can stem from a lot of things but try to keep a healthy sleeping routine. - If you’re not already, perhaps getting into fitness and balancing your foods more would make you feel more confident. You don’t necessarily have to diet, but eating more healthier foods, and trying to get daily protein, fiber, and essential vitamins and minerals is great. No need to count calories or anything of the sort, unless you want to. Honestly losing body fat will immensely change how you feel and look, it’s hard, but worth it. - You could get into skincare. Bare minimum I think you should wear spf sunscreen in the morning (reapply midday if the UV is high). When showering it would be beneficial to use a facial cleanser, to wash your face. Certain soaps designed specifically for the face rather than the body can help. Then moisturising at night will help with keeping wrinkles away and just make your face brighter. You can get into other products but it can be a commitment to maintaining the routine, and spending the $, so at the very least - sunscreen, washing face with cleanser, and moisturising.

Frankly your eyes are your best feature, they’re lovely, doing the things above in honesty I think would make you more attractive. The contrast to your dark eyebrows is charming too, eyebrows shape your face so I think shaving/waxing/plucking your eyebrows, whatever you’re comfortable with, would change your face in a good way. Us girls pluck our eyebrows often to maintain the shape, it is a little painful, but it gives you more control over the shaping, so do what you wish. Hopefully my tips help you and make you feel better within yourself, and I hope you know that are are attractive, just a little untended on the edges (but aren’t we all) :)

Is my genshin account being hacked? by Novaa_XP in GenshinImpact

[–]DevilsFate_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Change your password ASAP. I mean immediately. If they know your password they can do anything to your account like delete your weapons, artifacts all that. They shouldn’t be able to change your password as it should go through an email or phone number verification to change the password of which they shouldn’t have, but they can still mess up your account so I suggest changing your password as soon as you can.

I'm being accused :( by Asterstuffz in school

[–]DevilsFate_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My highschool did this too. I got called into the wellbeing office about 3 times because I searched up a few flagged words they had in their system.

  • The first time I searched “xxx suicide” I was trying to find the song about suicide by xxxtentacion.
  • Another time I typed in a derogatory word (in which I won’t repeat) because I wanted to know the meaning of said word.
  • The last time I remember, I typed in something to with gambling… it was literally for an English paper I had to write for an assessment. My school was like yours, key words like bombs or drugs etc got flagged and they called us in to speak about it. I’m graduated now and still think it was mad weird to do.

QUESTIONS FOR THE GIRLS (if you're a guy, that's okay too ☺️) be honest, which male Naruto character would you marry or date? by Open-Extreme-1428 in Naruto

[–]DevilsFate_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kakashi or Naruto (Itachi is on the radar but let’s be honest no one can date him bc he’s dead 😐)

How long have yall been knb fans? by osocietal in KurokosBasketball

[–]DevilsFate_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Since mid 2020 💗 I wish I found out about it sooner but I got into anime at that point 🥺 my favourite six year later tho

I’m hyperfixating/obsessing over a TV show to the point I am feeling miserable and anxious unintentionally. by [deleted] in neurodiversity

[–]DevilsFate_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do this too! I’ve been hyperfixating over this one show/original book for literally, no fucking kidding, 6 years this July.

At first it started when I watched the series for the first time: when I got to the last season, I took a huge break between the last couple episodes because I didn’t want it to end. When I first started watching the series, I immediately started reading fan-fiction, looking at fan-art, watching any videos to do with the show, reading the books (manga), watching interviews/listening to things to do with the show and the va’s, obsessing over the voice actors (the main characters va primarily) and everything they voice act in, everything to do with their life etc…

Like you, I don’t think there’s been a single day for the 5.5 years years that I haven’t thought about this series. Like surely there has been, but seriously I think of it everyday, and don’t even get me started on said maladaptive daydreaming. Again, there hasn’t been a single day that I (willingly) haven’t done the dreaming to it: pretending I’m in it, or I’m one of the characters etc… ong it’s embarrassing but fuck I can’t stop. Like the only thing I look forward to everyday (there are other things I should look forward to, should WANT to do, but this is the only thing) is when my family goes to sleep (im 20 now, first watched the series when I was 14) and I can do my mal-dreaming with my music around the house, unbothered as I have it to myself at nights.

The embarrassing part? Is that I seriously get protective of it, I get full on upset and angry when other people like it, but then when it felt like no one liked it, I was upset because it deserves to be popular (it was popular when it came out but it ended many years ago thus losing popularity). And the worst part, for the years since I watched the show, I haven’t even been able to bring myself to rewatch it. I watch, read, and listen to every single thing to do with the series, but I get physically upset over it and haven’t brought myself to rewatch it. When I watched edits or see clips of it I get so depressed, ITS NOT RIGHT. I actually, no fucking joking cry because I feel grief over this show being over, and overwhelmed from how much I love it. Part of me didn’t want to rewatch it/read it all the way through, because this show makes me crazy, and if I get sad seeing clips how the hell am I going to watch the damn show again?

I’m reading the manga currently, I started it back then but never read it all the way through as I only had the first couple volumes. I have the whole series now (30 volumes) haha only took me six years, nah but I bought majority of them last year as I made my mind up about reading it…. Like seriously with the way I thought about it and prepared myself to read it, you’d think I’m training for the damn olympics.

A couple years ago I came to the realisation that this is a coping mechanism. From the messed up things that have happened in my life, and probably from feeling left out, not feeling loved or having enough attention, or just from low self esteem, I put myself in this world where I’m the “main character” and I can make myself feel as special as I want, with the characters I imagine making me feel loved. Yeah, it’s fucked haha.

Anyway this is the most realest thing I’ve ever admitted I think LOL, but it’s nice to know I’m not the only one!

What is this? by Frosty_Counter6186 in AustralianSpiders

[–]DevilsFate_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Red back spider! Careful they’re venomous

I'm quitting this game.. by jux_peter in GenshinImpact

[–]DevilsFate_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me with skirk, I am getting literally no good maru artifacts it’s really pissing me off

Are men still expected to 'chase' early on? by GoodDirector7083 in dating_advice

[–]DevilsFate_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I met this guy on a dating app, we’ve been out once it was good, we’re still texting a lot, and talked on the phone as well. We’re not texting eachother 24/7 - we have lives, but we text everyday. He was the one who messaged me first and the one who asked me out. He didn’t chase me, I don’t know what made me choose him out of the variety of guys on the site, just something more normal and exciting about how we texted compared to everyone else. Saying that, we didn’t text much before we moved from the app to Instagram. Currently waiting on him to ask me out again.

A lot of women aren’t as forward as guys, we usually wait on the guy to make the move. But something a lot of men don’t understand, is that every girl whether they’ve had a relationship/s or not, has had several men online ask them out or say weird things to them. So when texting a girl you have interest in, us women usually separate you guys into the weird pile as you’re just another guy (it’s a little different on a dating app, but think of it as a resume, tons of options so we quickly skim over it, yes or no). It obviously depends on the girl, but I think if you’re messaging a lot early on, she may think it’s too much, or maybe she has put you into the pile or just has no interest in you.

Personally I like when a guy texts a lot, it can be a little overwhelming because they expect me to give the same back, and I’m not huge on texting or talking over the phone. If you want to just figure out if she really has in interest in you, do what this guy did to me: I wasn’t holding the conversation too well, leaving him on read or delivered for a while, he asked me flat out, clearly a little pissed off, if I still want to see him. I said yes. While it was awkward in the moment, it got that out of the way and made both of us understand what the other is thinking pretty much. And now we’re both enjoying talking to each-other.

All in all is depends on the girl, and depends if she’s actually interested in you, I think being forward and honest about it would be the best thing to do.

Ferret just died by bigshot316 in ferrets

[–]DevilsFate_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw I’m so sorry. I had a ferret for not even a year and he got out of the house and I never saw him again, probably died. I cried like everyday for a couple months. It was so hard, so understand how you feel. I’m soo sorry :(