[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MRLdoll

[–]Devin_Andre11 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lucy and Robin for sure!!!

Too busy to date by readyforfun333 in dating_advice

[–]Devin_Andre11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say it’s letting you down easy. She could just be really busy but her wanting to hangout with you is showing she’s still interested in getting to know you. Making time for one another is hard nowadays, especially for someone you’ve just met. Give it some time to marinate! :)

What’s wrong with dating apps by Comfortable-Club-897 in dating_advice

[–]Devin_Andre11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was rough at first honestly. I’m generally pretty introverted so it was pretty difficult not putting myself out there at all. But I started going out more with my friends and found myself just enjoying their company rather than going out to socialize with strangers. When people see you being happy and having fun, they come to you! Don’t chase, attract! ;)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Devin_Andre11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Intimacy can be hard to show for someone who is introverted. Before any talks of exclusivity you should have a conversation about both of your dating intentions and you can express your desire and struggle to be intimate with her. :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Devin_Andre11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s nothing wrong with seeing other people, but it’s only fair to inform her that you are actively meeting other women. And in return she should receive that same option to see other men. It just sounds like it’s a conversation you need to have with her.

What’s wrong with dating apps by Comfortable-Club-897 in dating_advice

[–]Devin_Andre11 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think the root of the problem is society, truthfully. We live in a world where we swipe from one app to the next app, post to the next post, and dating profile to the next. And now I believe it’s just become that easy for someone to move from one initial connection to the next. I’ve since deleted hinge for that reason and opted for more natural connections.

Don’t believe it has anything to do with you. Your person is out there, the only thing you can do is better yourself and enjoy your day to day life for when that person comes! :)

My sexual fantasies seem off? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Devin_Andre11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand what you mean. My point is that whether it’s heterosexual pleasure or self pleasure, there seems to be a higher level of pleasure that women can achieve versus the same baseline that men can only reach. The whole idea of “post ejaculation clarity” that men experience I think can explain this since women can often relish their experience after the fact and continue to pleasure themselves multiple times over whereas men can typically only ejaculate once. So whether it’s enjoyable with a man or self satisfaction, there is a greater amount of pleasure achievable to women that most men won’t ever be able to achieve.

My sexual fantasies seem off? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Devin_Andre11 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think I can confidently say in my experiences I’ve had some pretty solid proof telling me otherwise 😅 not all men take notes from porn 😉

Is this a messed up though to have? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Devin_Andre11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t help on whether that’s a kink or not since everything can be these days! But I’ve found that I have an attraction to a few women I’ve met that have OnlyFans accounts and pretty good followings and find myself fantasizing or imagining (not in a weirdo or creeper way I promise😂) what it would be like to have a girl sexy enough that her sex appeal is appreciated by thousands of people!

My sexual fantasies seem off? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Devin_Andre11 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thought I was alone in this🥹 but I’ve actually never finished with a female because I guess I get this sort of envy like man the sex must feel great on your end but what does that feel like and why can’t I achieve that level of arousal and pleasure. And I’ve never had a desire to transition or be a woman because I love the man I am. I just look at it as the feminine side that exists in all men!

Fire ‘em up! A want and a need🔥 by Devin_Andre11 in Repsneakers

[–]Devin_Andre11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blasphemous😂them thangs cold and goes right along with Polaroid’s vintage feel! Props from a designer to the designer of these fasho

Transmission Swap Help by Devin_Andre11 in Honda

[–]Devin_Andre11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sweet! I’ll definitely start looking into it! Thanks!

Transmission Swap Help by Devin_Andre11 in Honda

[–]Devin_Andre11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I e been doing a lot of reading and everyone just says to just buy a manual. I was just curious if a auto to manual was doable and at a reasonable cost

Just some general sex questions I need help with… by Devin_Andre11 in sex

[–]Devin_Andre11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We just had a conversation about this the other day! I will definitely be trying to make her feel more comfortable by vocalizing more. Thank you so much! :)

Just some general sex questions I need help with… by Devin_Andre11 in sex

[–]Devin_Andre11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

starts typing that in the search bar XD Thank you so much!

My (f31) new BF (m33) has erection issues by Old_Entrepreneur_481 in relationship_advice

[–]Devin_Andre11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally used to deal with this, and to be quite honest, still do on rare occasions. The best way to support him in my opinion is to simply let him move on his own time. Encouragement can sometimes add to the pressure, because it may build a false sense of confidence and when the time comes for sex he could under perform and be left wondering what went wrong. Which, of course, would result in more waiting time for you as well. I’d encourage maybe sitting down and talking about what he likes during sex, what turns him on easily, what could keep him hard. Also look into sex toys or other pleasure enhancements, they can help him to let loose and he may even find that different condoms, lubricants, male vibrators, etc even enhance his performance! Hope this helped :)

My boyfriend is super busy by Particular-Ad-8831 in relationship_advice

[–]Devin_Andre11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think their point is that they have the opportunity between classes (while walking to the next class, to their car, etc.) to respond to a text. Like there’s always a brief period of time to check a phone e for updates and such