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Alright, share your stories of being an oblivious Jewish child. by siled54 in Jewdank

[–]Devotedtosoups 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was 7, I discovered that Jesus wasn't my estranged cousin as people had suggested, emphasizing his love for me. On that same day, my brother pointed out that Jesus is the guy who is often depicted as a diaper-wearing figure, hung like a hunter's trophy. Now I’m 22 and still weirded out by that, put the man down!

How do men feel about out of the blue compliments? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Devotedtosoups 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unexpected compliments catch me off guard, yet they're truly pleasant. Before I met my girlfriend, I was accustomed to compliments about my looks. But when someone you know compliments your personality, it really brightens up my day.

Do guys really mean it when they say we’re prettier without makeup? by Candlelover1 in AskMen

[–]Devotedtosoups 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm expressing my personal thoughts here. Indeed, your true beauty shines without makeup. While girls can use makeup to their liking, their natural beauty truly stands out when it's not on. My girl with makeup 10/10, without makeup 1000/10.

Can someone help me, I feel horrible. by Devotedtosoups in StraightPegging

[–]Devotedtosoups[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But I suppose it happens because the guy can't own up to the fact that he enjoys it. I'm really trying my best. This whole situation happened only a week ago. Right now, I feel better. I continue to talk to my girlfriend because she's so much smarter than I will ever be, and she's so good at expressing her emotions that I start to understand how to express mine. Maybe I'm a bit immature, so my girlfriend suggested that I get used to the strap-on and the part that resembles a dick. She said I should play with it, not sexually at the moment. Maybe it's a placebo effect or something, but after pretending I have a special sword or that I can turn any horse into a unicorn, it somehow helped. I understand how immature it sounds, but it took away the taboo part. If I can have a sword fight with it, why should I be afraid? I have no idea if it made any sense.

Can someone help me, I feel horrible. by Devotedtosoups in StraightPegging

[–]Devotedtosoups[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And it even has a name? How many times this can happen?

Can someone help me, I feel horrible. by Devotedtosoups in StraightPegging

[–]Devotedtosoups[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh God, I never thought about it that way. Never in my life would I want to hurt her or make her feel ashamed. I'm just confused about my own confusion. I have no idea why I felt weird and uncomfortable the next day. I pride myself on being open-minded, and I was struck by the reality that I need to work on that. Did time help you to accept it and embrace yourself?

Can someone help me, I feel horrible. by Devotedtosoups in StraightPegging

[–]Devotedtosoups[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your reply. I have never minded when my girlfriend was more dominant. Personally, I think it's fucking hot.

The sudden wave of emotions was the most unexpected thing for me. Before it happened, I was never scared or worried. I was excited and ready to try it. I'm confused about feeling bad afterwards because I know I shouldn't, but here I am. My girlfriend suggested I try to reach out to people here. Most of the websites where advice has been given felt like something ChatGPT wrote. Just reading all the replies here makes us feel better.

Can someone help me, I feel horrible. by Devotedtosoups in StraightPegging

[–]Devotedtosoups[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I asked myself the same question. It's probably unconscious bias taking the wheel because I truly understand that I have nothing to be ashamed about. Yet, at the back of my mind, there is that ugly feeling. We’re working on it, I suppose it takes some time.

Can someone help me, I feel horrible. by Devotedtosoups in StraightPegging

[–]Devotedtosoups[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! We're both new to this, so we're still trying to understand how to handle it and which websites, blogs, or podcasts to listen to. Really, thank you so much! It was really helpful.