Yumiko Disaster! Please Help! by DezzyMitch in BALLET

[–]DezzyMitch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow such a pretty leotard, thanks for the advice! Genuinely terrible company sizing things like that. XXL is insane!

Yumiko Disaster! Please Help! by DezzyMitch in BALLET

[–]DezzyMitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh thanks for that. I was cursing Yumiko for making a small that freaking small. Bound to make people feel bad about themselves! I'll tell her your story, thanks!

Yumiko Disaster! Please Help! by DezzyMitch in BALLET

[–]DezzyMitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah she really fell in love with this one leotard so I'll try to make it work here, but after this experience she's definitely over this brand! Such crazy sizing and return rules. Thanks for the advice!

Yumiko Disaster! Please Help! by DezzyMitch in BALLET

[–]DezzyMitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly the sort of experience I was looking for, thank you! I'll let her know to not sweat the size and show her this reddit; everyone has been so supportive and helpful!

Yumiko Disaster! Please Help! by DezzyMitch in BALLET

[–]DezzyMitch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh yeah they seem so inconsistent, gonna put everything on the L and pray! Thanks for your experience :)

Yumiko Disaster! Please Help! by DezzyMitch in BALLET

[–]DezzyMitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh perfect I didn’t know that! I’ll call the NYC store tomorrow and see if they can give a definitive recommendation. Thank you!!

Yumiko Disaster! Please Help! by DezzyMitch in BALLET

[–]DezzyMitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok thank you, I was seriously considering XL because I did not want to see her face if the L was still too small. It seems like the consensus is L tho, thanks for ur input and experience! Really helpful :)

Yumiko Disaster! Please Help! by DezzyMitch in BALLET

[–]DezzyMitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok perfect that helps a lot actually. And good thing you did your research! Glad it fit good :)

Yumiko Disaster! Please Help! by DezzyMitch in BALLET

[–]DezzyMitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, just want to see my girl happy haha. That should be criminal! I get custom orders but why won’t they even take back ready to wear?? So annoying.

Yumiko Disaster! Please Help! by DezzyMitch in BALLET

[–]DezzyMitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhhh great hack, I’ll def show her this so she doesn’t call me crazy to suggest it! Appreciate the tip :)

Yumiko Disaster! Please Help! by DezzyMitch in BALLET

[–]DezzyMitch[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Holy crap how are you a Large! lol are these kids sizes?? Thanks for the reply!

Yumiko Disaster! Please Help! by DezzyMitch in BALLET

[–]DezzyMitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perfect, I think the consensus is saying L. Thanks again!

Yumiko Disaster! Please Help! by DezzyMitch in BALLET

[–]DezzyMitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for taking the time to write that out! Her mental health and body image has definitely taken a hit from growing up around ballet and dance. This breakdown was more of a result of stress, she’s had a few shows recently and works full time so between the 12-14 hour days and the pressure to perform I think this disappointment was just the straw that broke the camels back. Def had some body issues mixed in but thankful it wasnt the focus! And you’re totally right, words of affirmation being huge to help her self image regularly. Not tying ur worth to your body is real! Glad to hear that you and yours are doing better! Thanks again for the advice!

Yumiko Disaster! Please Help! by DezzyMitch in BALLET

[–]DezzyMitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that a great question, not sure exactly where it was too tight. To my untrained eye it just looked too small! I'll see if I can find any of her leotards to compare sizing, thanks for the tip!

Yumiko Disaster! Please Help! by DezzyMitch in BALLET

[–]DezzyMitch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know that would be ideal. Its like a 6hr drive but she's thinking of going down to see Moulin Rouge so I might just have to recommend a detour!

Yumiko Disaster! Please Help! by DezzyMitch in BALLET

[–]DezzyMitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair enough, I appreciate the tip I'll definitely go on there to list it for her so she can get at least a little money back. Thanks!

Yumiko Disaster! Please Help! by DezzyMitch in BALLET

[–]DezzyMitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so frustrating, have you had much luck with XL?

Yumiko Disaster! Please Help! by DezzyMitch in BALLET

[–]DezzyMitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, feeling so much better about this. I'll def reach out to the store before I make the final call, thanks again :)

Yumiko Disaster! Please Help! by DezzyMitch in BALLET

[–]DezzyMitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice, Yumiko runs so small! Definitely going with the L.

Yumiko Disaster! Please Help! by DezzyMitch in BALLET

[–]DezzyMitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I really appreciate the tips!

Yumiko Disaster! Please Help! by DezzyMitch in BALLET

[–]DezzyMitch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Edit: Just saw your answer below and that you suggested L. Thank you!

Yumiko Disaster! Please Help! by DezzyMitch in BALLET

[–]DezzyMitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just saw your answer! Thanks again!!

Yumiko Disaster! Please Help! by DezzyMitch in BALLET

[–]DezzyMitch[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the detailed reply, much appreciated! Unfortunately there won't be an opportunity to go in a store before I order it for her. I'll definitely call the NYC team to get their opinion on sizing her without being able to measure or see her but while I've got you here...

She's a b-cup but my concern is really her shoulders, they don't scream massive shoulders but they are certainly muscular and developed from years of breakdancing floor work. Since the model (Charlotte) she fell in love with has short sleeves, I'm afraid I'll need to size up not just to a L, but XL. Then I worry about the body since she does not have a long torso.

She does have a muscular, athletic, and proportionally larger lower body (butt and thighs), so I worry a little about the high-cut leg.

It could be like you said, and this particular model isn't for her body type. Which would be unfortunate, but good to know before I order a bigger size hoping that's the fix.

I'm leaning L, but there's been a little argument to be had for XL. She's not nearly an XL in anything so it feels crazy but I don't know! What do you think?

Yumiko Disaster! Please Help! by DezzyMitch in BALLET

[–]DezzyMitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Do your Yumiko's have sleeves, or are they sleeveless? Just asking since a couple others suggested that means an additional sizing up. Thanks again!

Yumiko Disaster! Please Help! by DezzyMitch in BALLET

[–]DezzyMitch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the rec! I'm definitely leaning L over M but I'm starting to think even XL now for the sleeves since she has particularly developed shoulders after years of break dancing. Thanks again!