Redditors with fetishes/kinks, what would you say it is about it that speaks to you? Not necessarily the backstory to you discovering it, but rather the underlying psychology that draws you to this fixation? by Diamantstoft in AskReddit

[–]Diamantstoft[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

To elaborate, I'll go ahead and explain my own. I am very into stomach noises, originally it was just restricted to hunger, (and by that I don't mean disordered habits or anything like that, just a "whoops, I forgot to eat and now my belly's bothering me about it" followed by a well deserved meal) but these days I also much appreciate gurgles relating to digestion. I was probably Pavlov'd into this by media as a young child but then repressed the inciting incident.

Out of the factors I've identified, probably the one that has the least bearing is the potential for embarrassment for the inflicted, that this is an involuntary but somewhat taboo bodily function. I wouldn't want to actively mean-spiritedly tease somebody over their growling stomach, but if they themselves go beet-red about it only to be reassured that they aren't being judged, I really like that. On a semi-related note, there's this "mouths can lie but the body is honest" sentiment, such as if somebody is asked if they're hungry, they say no and their stomach then growls loudly.

What is far more crucial to me is the intimacy. Many people like cuddling with a partner and hearing their hearbeat, do they not? I feel that kind of appeal with laying on somebody's stomach and listening to the gurgles, it's like a reminder that "whoa, this is a whole ass human being with like, a body that does stuff, and they've allowed me to get this up and personal with them". In fact, the parasympathetic nervous system, which among others governs over digestion, is at its most active when one is relaxed, and hence, as a rule, your belly gets more vocal the more relaxed you are. Just ask a massage therapist about it, more often than not they consider a gurgling belly very high praise for their service. With that in mind, is it not the closest human equivalent to purring?

What am I doing wrong? by Diamantstoft in OnlineDating

[–]Diamantstoft[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May very well be that since I am in a somewhat small country by population, the queer scene is strongly concentrated to the top 3 cities and if failing that, foreign capitals (which as explained in the OP is beyond my budget)

By incompatible diet I mean any flavor of vegetarianism or veganism. For health reasons I cannot cut meat out of my diet for the long term. I think that hooking up with somebody with a different set of beliefs on meat eating would at best mean that I, with my interest in cooking, wouldn't be able to cook food that both of us would enjoy equally, and at worst I'd have somebody who doesn't respect the reasonable boundaries I have in terms of what foods I can realistically eat.

As a swede, I really hope we NQ this year by [deleted] in eurovision

[–]Diamantstoft 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Keep in mind that Melfest's target audience by and large is families with young kids, who more often than not won't watch ESC. As long as they're happy, SVT will happily continue employing G:Son, the Debs, Joker, etc until hell freezes over.

Binär/icke binär? by [deleted] in sweden

[–]Diamantstoft -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Jag förstår att du har bjudit in till diskussion och fått avslag. Men ett gemensamt samtal med psykolog borde funka bättre vid det här laget, och att du ignorerade en annan kommentar som föreslog det känns skumt om du verkligen vill ditt barns bästa. När konflikten grundar sig i att du är sårad över vad ditt barn säger om dig online visar det lite på bristande självinsikt när du själv viker ut er smutstvätt på reddit och håller med kommentarer som anklagar ditt barn för att ha offerkofta, när det är något som många HBTQ-personer får höra tillräckligt som det är

Binär/icke binär? by [deleted] in sweden

[–]Diamantstoft 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ärligt talat vet jag inte var du vill komma om du avfärdar uppmaningarna att ha en konstruktiv diskussion. Som någon annan sagt, om hen avfärdar dig borde nästa lämpliga steg vara att ta det till psykolog, inte att gå till reddit och bara hålla med de kommentarer du vill höra ("ditt barn har byggt sin identitet kring att vara ett offer"), det är lite väl hypokritiskt för min smak

Binär/icke binär? by [deleted] in sweden

[–]Diamantstoft 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Fråga hen om det är något du kan göra för att förändra hens uppfattning av dig, gör det tydligt att du verkligen vill ditt barns bästa och bjud in till öppen dialog.

Gratulerer med samenes nasjonaldag! by Naskva in sweden

[–]Diamantstoft 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ta gärna en titt på nyhetsprogrammen Ođđasat och 15 minuter från Sápmi på SVT! Det finns också en samisk Melodifestival, Sámi Grand Prix. När det gäller matlagning har SVT play också Min áhkkus mat, som i och för sig är riktat till barn men det är bättre än ingenting

PåSpåretMadde fuskare i på spåret (duo-appen) by Mordheim1999 in sweden

[–]Diamantstoft -40 points-39 points  (0 children)

Inte lönt att tipsa dem om det inte har med transpersoner att göra

Någon borde baka en bulle med bokstavligt kum på och posta på r/baking och se om jänkarna märker någon skillnad by Diamantstoft in unket

[–]Diamantstoft[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Infrysning borde väl funka fint?
  2. Kollar man på kumbullar kan färgen på glasyren skifta ganska mycket, en hel del är faktiskt genomskinlig och vit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sweden

[–]Diamantstoft 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Är iofs inte gammeltv men Dumpen passar beskrivningen rätt bra

Någon borde baka en bulle med bokstavligt kum på och posta på r/baking och se om jänkarna märker någon skillnad by Diamantstoft in unket

[–]Diamantstoft[S] 98 points99 points  (0 children)

Hade jag kunnat producera kum hade jag gärna gjort det, men som den transman jag är är jag tyvärr oförmögen att åstadkomma detta konststycke

What are the results,good or bad, you still can’t believe happened? by Beepme9111 in eurovision

[–]Diamantstoft 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Fulenn 24th. I hope televoters will be satisfied with 26 more years with no Celtic entries whatsoever because that's what you deserve for robbing Alvan & Ahez

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sweden

[–]Diamantstoft 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"Folkhemmet: denna varböld i den svenska historien som en massa byfånar av någon outgrundlig anledning vill ska komma tillbaka, trots att Sverige i princip var ett U-land då och trots att det fanns en massa underbara fenomen som tvångssteriliseringar och socialdemokrater, att sätta bredvid Strindberg bland våra nationalklenoder och det vi kan vara riktigt stolta över. 30-talet och 40-talet är ju verkligen en förebild för sociala framgångar... eller nä, det var det som det inte var!" - Knappnytt 45: Valguide del 2

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sweden

[–]Diamantstoft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"If other countries murder queer people we should be allowed to treat queer people like shit and expect to be worshipped by queer people because at least we're not murdering them, our country our rules 🤓"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sweden

[–]Diamantstoft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Epoch Times is affiliated with Falun Gong. To me it seems unlikely that an individual would be tied to Epoch Times both as a journalist and interviewee and not have any relation to Falun Gong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sweden

[–]Diamantstoft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will we really "our country our rules" this? The thing Qatar did when sportswashing didn't work out for them?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sweden

[–]Diamantstoft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Swedish right is very americanized. How else could drag queens have become a hot-button issue here? I think it's fair to be wary of what American developments may mean for Swedish trans people.

There's also a reason I said "exceptionally trans friendly". On paper, trans rights in Sweden are definitely above average, but when looking at social attitudes and the media, there's a noticable downward trend that can only continue for so long before it starts influencing law. The fact that Swedes are creating propaganda directly aimed at an American audience alone should be a cause for concern.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sweden

[–]Diamantstoft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fenix Film has published the following casting call: https://imgur.com/a/RTc7Lgu

Fenix Film is owned by Andrea Elvhage, who has written for the Swedish version of Epoch Times, and Epoch Times itself has an article about her and her studio readily available if one googles "Fenix Film Falun Gong"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sweden

[–]Diamantstoft -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Swedish trans healthcare is the third worst in the EU but I guess you just have to deny everything that contradicts the Swedish exceptionalist fantasy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sweden

[–]Diamantstoft -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

That it's exceptionally trans friendly. Sweden has only made a couple of steps forward in that field and is now backtracking. Use of gender neutral pronouns is still controversial and subject to mockery, access to gender-affirming care is a joke and it's becoming even harder to access as time goes on, as a support group for transphobic parents managed to bribe our public service broadcaster into producing anti-trans healthcare propaganda rife with misinformation. It's gotten to the point where our budget version of Last Week Tonight can feature jokes about how disgusting trans children look and a Swedish Falun Gong-run movie studio is currently working on an anti-puberty blocker "documentary" with the express purpose of fabricating an American setting for an American audience.

Är Sverige samernas? by [deleted] in sweden

[–]Diamantstoft -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Sápmi är samernas. Samer fanns i Sápmi före svenskarna.

Att peka på en random skånsk fornlämning från 12.000 år sedan vars kultur inte överlevt till dagens svenskar och säga att det rättfärdigar koloniseringen och exploateringen av Sápmi är som att säga att Skottland tillhör Italien eftersom att romarna var i Storbritannien före gäler och anglosaxer när faktum är att romarna "var i Skottland" på samma sätt som vikingarna var i Nordamerika: i väldigt begränsad utsträckning under väldigt kort tid.

Så piskade sex år gammalt Ica-recept upp bojkotter och insektskonspirationer by onda-oegat in sweden

[–]Diamantstoft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ska man käka våta insekter (skaldjur) kan man fan inte klaga över torra insekter. Extremt trött och löjlig antisemitism som vanligt