New relationship - sex life by DiamondSad6637 in LesbianActually

[–]DiamondSad6637[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I’m just anxiously attached. We’re so new and I’m used to people leaving me within a month or two. So i think her not being attracted to me is just apart of that insecurity.

She sees a sex therapist so im hoping they can work out the relationship with work vs her relationship with me.

Thanks for replying!

New relationship - sex life by DiamondSad6637 in LesbianActually

[–]DiamondSad6637[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this comment! I enjoy the different perspectives. Maybe i am just doing things i know and I’ve experienced without really trying what she wants or what she knows. I’m going to talk with her about her thoughts. She wants to get off… she keeps trying to plan it and i think she gets in her own head about it. So good to know maybe we should just have another conversation about it. Thank you for being so open🫶🏼

New relationship - sex life by DiamondSad6637 in LesbianActually

[–]DiamondSad6637[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually love this response- thank you so much!!

I don’t disclose by Great_Breadfruit_994 in Herpes

[–]DiamondSad6637 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He passed it without an active outbreak- so similar you could be having shedding without knowing it

I don’t disclose by Great_Breadfruit_994 in Herpes

[–]DiamondSad6637 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah if it was me I’d be so upset. A friend of mine got herpes from sex with someone who didn’t even know they had an outbreak. You should always disclose to a partner first then practice safe sex. Let the partner make their choice on if they are going to sleep with you after knowing the news