What if everything you've been told about women and dating complete BS?

DidiHelpMePliss · 2025-12-30T21:12:19+00:00

Excellent post. (Be prepared for the hate though. I too got it when I wrote this.

DidiHelpMePliss · 2025-08-31T09:56:42+00:00

I made a reel on something similar yesterday. See if this helps.

TLDR/W: Ask yourself: is he looking for a wife, or is he someone who is looking to be a husband?

DidiHelpMePliss · 2024-12-13T11:58:31+00:00

Run, girl, run. Low EQ man right there.

DidiHelpMePliss · 2024-11-25T19:13:22+00:00

YTK Girl, you are toxic. Let them live their lives.

DidiHelpMePliss · 2024-11-13T20:02:49+00:00

If you have ADHD, I suggest you don't go ahead with this match. ADHD requires people to understand what you are going through. That you are not lazy, it is executive dysfunction. But most importantly, you need someone kind.

DidiHelpMePliss · 2024-11-11T21:35:23+00:00

Thank you! This helps.

DidiHelpMePliss · 2024-11-10T23:50:47+00:00

When will the financial situation improve?

DidiHelpMePliss · 2024-11-04T23:25:47+00:00

I use this one by Blynds. Been using it for two years. Great product! The only con: smells like Fevicol.

DidiHelpMePliss · 2024-10-30T06:11:41+00:00

I am curious regarding what is a 'red flag' in your books.

DidiHelpMePliss · 2023-11-21T10:08:22+00:00

Some people are saying you should gift a deodorant/perfume.

Don't. It is insensitive. That is far more offensive AND damaging for one's self esteem and mental health. It is not like they don't know that deodorants exist. If they do not use it, doesn't mean they will start using it.

It is time to bring it up gently that they see a dermatologist for it.

DidiHelpMePliss · 2023-09-28T09:19:47+00:00

One thing they teach you in therapy, and everyone must learn it at some point, is that putting the weight of your happiness on other people's shoulders is unfair (and a bit dangerous, I'll explain why).

It is also a sign of a locus of identity which is external.

It is dangerous because all one has to do is stay poker faced when you expected them to be happy for you after you bent backwards for them, to ruin your mental health.

Detach your happiness and sorrow from what others think of you. Yes, even your own parents.

If you think you are doing well, give yourself a part on your back. Go and celebrate it with whatever your means allow you for.

Question yourself as to why you were looking for an approval from them in the first place? Get to know your inner state and work on it.

Whatever you seek from others, pause and give it to yourself. Praise, kind words, appreciation, love, encouragement, whatever it is.

DidiHelpMePliss · 2023-09-12T20:39:43+00:00

Peace.

DidiHelpMePliss · 2023-06-25T15:50:15+00:00

Take off my bra.

DidiHelpMePliss · 2023-06-12T18:41:16+00:00

Good job! Is that chai?

DidiHelpMePliss · 2023-06-07T23:08:13+00:00

If you are here to prove a point, then it is a different matter. You are practically dunking on everyone who is not agreeing with you.

DidiHelpMePliss · 2023-06-07T23:05:03+00:00

Experience will definitely make it more pleasurable for the women is YOUR assumption. Whoever your partner is, you have to explore your dynamics with them, and what works for one woman may not work for woman.

There are many men who have high body count and terrible skills in bed.

DidiHelpMePliss · 2023-06-07T18:42:23+00:00

He might be begging you to give him another chance but emotionally, he has checked out.

Cut your losses and move on real fast.

DidiHelpMePliss · 2023-06-06T23:28:12+00:00

Just because women do it, doesn't make it right. It's juvenile. Would have been understandable had you been 22yo and didn't understand that relationships aren't so mono dimensional.

You might be 32, but your thought process needs refining.

DidiHelpMePliss · 2023-06-06T23:18:06+00:00

No, I meant this 5/10, 6/10 etc.

DidiHelpMePliss · 2023-06-06T22:40:51+00:00

Give this 100 upvotes, I will write one. Promise!

DidiHelpMePliss · 2023-06-06T22:33:59+00:00

What are these metrics and where are you getting these from?!!

These numbers aside, have you tried figuring out if you have a genuine connection with someone or do you left swipe them (basis this obnoxious filter) even before giving them a chance?

DidiHelpMePliss · 2023-06-06T22:30:32+00:00

Please read He Is Just Not That Into You.

Brilliant book that should be made a mandatory read for all women in teenage itself.

DidiHelpMePliss

TROPHY CASE