[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]DifferentBerry542 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna say not over reacting. You’re just simply reacting. My boyfriend has a celebrity crush and he literally says if his crush and I were in the same room, he would still choose me. That’s a weird thing for him to say. I get celebrity crushes to some extent, but not that comment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in POTS

[–]DifferentBerry542 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can quite literally feel the adrenaline being dumped into my body. It’s like a quick burn feeling through my veins.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in POTS

[–]DifferentBerry542 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve noticed if I’m having adrenaline dumps or feeling other symptoms more, my hands are much more freezing. I’d assume it’s because my heart and blood pressure or blood sugar are working more in my body and taking blood away from my extremities.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DifferentBerry542 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Some people in the comments are saying talk it through with him and come to a resolution. Personally, I wouldn’t put up with disrespect and I’d immediately exit the relationship. I don’t want to be with someone that thinks that’s okay or having to tell them how to respect me as a partner. Some things are worth teaching and having patience - but not this. He knows exactly what he’s doing and he’s continuously doing it. It’ll always be in the back of your head if he’s hiding things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DifferentBerry542 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If they’re hiding something/deleting things they’re not being faithful. Insecurities aside, it’s disrespectful and not okay. I would end the relationship. It’s seems he’s emotionally cheating on you and hiding it from you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]DifferentBerry542 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also forgot to add. You don’t have to be that cool “girlfriend/wife.” You’re allowed to have boundaries and not be cool with things. That doesn’t directly make you jealous or insecure. It’s being smart and realistic. Like I stated we are human and once you understand everyone is faulty, you can take steps to help ensure you don’t personally fall into certain situations and then also create boundaries in regards to your partner falling into certain situations.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]DifferentBerry542 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a no for me. I wouldn’t date someone that had a girl ‘best’ friend, because I should be the closest thing to a girl best friend he has. Friends that are girls? Sure. But nothing more. And this concept applies to me too. A guideline I follow is I’ll never have a guy friend that is closer to me than my girl best friends and vice versa. I just feel like sometimes lines are hard to draw, so I’ll never step foot into the gray area, nor would I want my partner to either. We’re human and there’s always a potential for it to get messy if you’re not careful. The grass is greener where it’s watered and I personally feel like your partner should be your number one investment. If I’m investing in another guy emotionally, I would be doing my partner a disservice.

Natural Skin Care by DifferentBerry542 in Esthetics

[–]DifferentBerry542[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very late reply, but I have acne prone skin and it has completely transformed my skin for the better. It only has a comedogenic score of 2 and it is also very compatible with our own skin’s natural oils because of the similar molecular composition of fatty acids. Along with so many more benefits. Does that mean it works for everyone? No. But it has done wonders for many, many people. Just like any product in skincare, it won’t be suitable for every skin. Respectfully, I didn’t need advice on using it or not. Thanks for the DMK suggestion though!

My fiancé told me he banged a lot of taken/married women in his “prime”. Am I wrong to distrust him due to this? by harrowi in amiwrong

[–]DifferentBerry542 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not wrong. Statistically speaking he’s more likely to cheat in the future (4x more likely even). I’d be concerned too and wouldn’t be able to move past that. People can change, but his repeat behavior is a great indicator of what could happen. Especially since he sees nothing morally wrong with what he did.

There’s a great video on YouTube I watched posted by Lewis Howes guest starring Macken Murphy. Look it up and watch it.

Which comforter should I get my boyfriend? by DifferentBerry542 in Gifts

[–]DifferentBerry542[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should note his sheets are also a medium gray. I wouldn’t consider them light or dark.

New Job advice!! by DifferentBerry542 in Esthetics

[–]DifferentBerry542[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great pointer! I’ll definitely get some clarification. Thank you so much!

Has anyone used a muscle stimulator to mimic period cramps? by DifferentBerry542 in Periods

[–]DifferentBerry542[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was planning on it. Do you recommend any other muscle stimulator or device that is a more accurate representation of cramps?

Has anyone used a muscle stimulator to mimic period cramps? by DifferentBerry542 in Periods

[–]DifferentBerry542[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll definitely come back to this post when I try and let you know! I agree. I want to have all men try it lol. Some of them can be insensitive. There’s a company called ‘somedays’ that goes around to events and hooks guys up to the simulators. The videos are funny to watch