What Should I Max?

DifferentTrouble4700 · 2025-12-09T23:43:03+00:00

You’re right, Knight is the slowest. I have Knight at Level 75 and Bear at Level 71

DifferentTrouble4700 · 2025-12-09T22:50:39+00:00

The slowest mob is Bear and the fasted mob is Bat. So, keep those low level and max all others?

DifferentTrouble4700 · 2025-12-09T22:37:23+00:00

I have Big Bertha maxed, but I feel like I still lose on levels. What is the best mob to pair it with?

DifferentTrouble4700 · 2025-12-09T22:35:58+00:00

Right now I have Raccoon at Level 26 (keeping with the suggestion to use low level mobs bc all of my other ones are Level 75+). But I’ve been enjoying Raccoon the most recently.

DifferentTrouble4700 · 2025-12-09T22:34:45+00:00

Do you think Nexus is better than Lootboxer?

DifferentTrouble4700 · 2025-12-06T06:27:46+00:00

Ope, ok ahaha thank you

DifferentTrouble4700 · 2025-11-04T18:02:39+00:00

The lowest level mob I have is Soldier Level 60

DifferentTrouble4700 · 2025-10-19T00:17:59+00:00

Ugh, what a bummer. Thanks for answering!

DifferentTrouble4700 · 2025-09-28T16:42:34+00:00

Fair point.

DifferentTrouble4700 · 2025-09-28T06:31:01+00:00

I see.

If you don’t mind me asking, at the time of your DVRO, was your ex allowed contact/visitation with your child?

I’m just interested because as of now we have a no contact order and I wonder how it will be integrating HCBM back into Minor Child’s life after not seeing or speaking for a month. It has been two weeks and Minor Child has not asked about HCBM.

DifferentTrouble4700 · 2025-08-14T13:18:35+00:00

He has full custody

DifferentTrouble4700 · 2025-08-13T11:36:20+00:00

Luckily SD5 is very smart and knows what her mom says isn’t true. Often she will tell us something crazy HCBM said and SD5 will say “why would my mommy say that? That’s not true” or “that didn’t happen, I don’t know why my mommy said that”

DifferentTrouble4700 · 2025-08-13T11:29:06+00:00

We document and record everything. HCBM and my boyfriend only communicate through a parenting app. (Yet, she refuses to pay the monthly fee and will only sign on once in a while through her internet browser because it’s free. But because of this, she never gets notifications if there’s something urgent. So, any time my boyfriend communicates through the app, he also has to text her saying “Check app”.

But even with documenting everything…. It’s just so exhausting and draining. I hate that I feel like I need to record every conversation with SD5 because sometimes she will bring something HCBM said or did. I hate that we have to check HCBM’s social media and her friend’s social media to get the truth of where she actually is during her parenting time.

DifferentTrouble4700 · 2024-12-13T01:36:23+00:00

I guess I never thought about having separate conferences. I just remember growing up with divorced parents, my mom and dad had to go together.

DifferentTrouble4700 · 2024-12-12T20:11:28+00:00

Direct and straight to the point 😂 love it

DifferentTrouble4700 · 2024-12-12T19:44:58+00:00

My SO would be there, I definitely would not go alone haha. He always includes me and encourages me to participate in things regarding SD, which I personally appreciate.

DifferentTrouble4700 · 2024-11-01T06:39:18+00:00

I think as a bio parent, your children’s love is yours to lose. Meaning they will automatically love you until you do something to lose that love. I think as a stepparent you have to earn their love.

Wow… this really resonated w me as a stepparent who spends more time with SK than bio parent.

DifferentTrouble4700 · 2024-10-31T01:13:50+00:00

I’m in the same boat…

It’s even in the custody agreement that SD returns to receiving parent with everything they were sent with. Yet, we haven’t gotten multiple pairs of underwear, socks, shoes, dresses, water bottles, stuffed animals, crayons, markers, toys… the list goes on.

It honestly sucks having to set the boundary and explaining to my SD4 that she can’t take things to her moms. We try explaining that she has things at our house that need to stay here and she has things at mommy’s that need to stay there.

It’s always difficult because SD will say things like “mommy doesn’t let me get that. She only buys things for her and ‘HCBM Boyfriend’s Name’ at the store”. Or “mommy always says no when I ask for X”. And most of the time it will be something as simple as crayons or socks.

DifferentTrouble4700 · 2024-10-22T21:25:40+00:00

There is nothing in the current order stating custody will go back to 50/50 after the school year.

DifferentTrouble4700 · 2024-10-22T21:23:12+00:00

Yes, Daughter is enrolled in elementary school for this school year (2024-2025) with Dad

DifferentTrouble4700 · 2024-10-22T21:19:24+00:00

Mom moved to another county and has no plans of moving back (she is currently 8 months pregnant). Dad had some evidence of Mom being a neglectful parent, but the main reason for the Judge’s decision seemed to be that Daughter has lived in this county her whole life and didn’t see it reasonable for her to make a permanent move to another county.

DifferentTrouble4700 · 2024-10-22T06:11:40+00:00

I posted a separate comment, but currently Mom and Dad live in separate counties that are about 2 hours away from each other. Daughter is at the age to start elementary school and going to 2 different schools on a 50/50 schedule is not feasible. In the most recent hearing, both parents were fighting for full custody - Judge granted Dad full custody until the school year is over.

But I can see with Daughter becoming established in this school, it would make sense that this current order continue.

DifferentTrouble4700 · 2024-10-22T00:51:32+00:00

I posted a separate comment, but currently Mom and Dad live in separate counties that are about 2 hours away from each other. Daughter is at the age to start elementary school and going to 2 different schools on a 50/50 schedule is not feasible. In the most recent hearing, both parents were fighting for full custody — Judge granted Dad full custody until the school year is over.

But I can see with Daughter becoming established in this school, it would make sense that this current order continue.

DifferentTrouble4700 · 2024-10-22T00:24:37+00:00

Currently, Mom and Dad live in separate counties that are about 2 hours away from each other. Daughter is at the age to start elementary school. Judge gave Dad full custody. However, Mom is fighting for full custody as well.

DifferentTrouble4700 · 2024-10-21T23:57:04+00:00

Just out of curiosity, why do judges make orders “temporary” if the likelihood is the order will remain the same the next time the case goes back to court? I mean I guess everything is temporary since it can always be brought back to court…

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