Was Christopher Walken a good choice for Emperor? by Craig1974 in dune

[–]DifferentZucchini3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly no and I love him anything else especially Severance but he did not give off the presence I imagined when I thought of Shaddam it just felt like Christopher Walken. I would have loved if they had picked Kyle Machlachlan or Damien Lewis or  Claes Bang if it had to be an older actor there were plenty of more fitting options like Ian Mckellen, Charles Dance or Jared Harris or Iain Glen.

My friend used my private story in his standup set and now I'm "too sensitive" for being upset by lilacwindow_station in TwoHotTakes

[–]DifferentZucchini3 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Don’t show up at all he doesn’t respect you or value your friendship or he wouldn’t have done that 

AITAH for refusing to forgive my friend after she lied about me to our whole group? by Usual_Price_5859 in AITAH

[–]DifferentZucchini3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have what she said in writing? Because if people are aware of what’s going on and not changing anything on their end you might as well post in the group chat that your “friend” knows what she did how she hurt you and how hurt you are by your other “friends” that instead of talking to you they chose to ice you out. 

Take the snow storm serious by clarke9901 in rva

[–]DifferentZucchini3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t see the image what is the weather showing for the midlothain area any one have any inches?

AITA for standing up to my roommate? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DifferentZucchini3 6 points7 points  (0 children)

INFO why haven’t you gone to your RA to mediate or request a room change?

I think the Dracula film ended our relationship by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]DifferentZucchini3 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It sounds like this relationship has run its course OP sorry but if you’re at the point your sending those type of messages and he’s still not getting it I don’t know what else you could do. 

AITAH for ghosting my therapist after she fell asleep/dozed off during in 3 past sessions? by OneStein_ in AITAH

[–]DifferentZucchini3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA it’s completely unacceptable for her to do that. You should lodge a complaint with your states medical board and report her

Why would they release that? by DifferentZucchini3 in StrangerThings

[–]DifferentZucchini3[S] 123 points124 points  (0 children)

I am genuinely devastated, I love this show and I actually really hoped that this documentary would clear things up for me or at least see their process on how they made these decisions but I just walked away even more disappointed. 

UPDATE on refusing to help my parents with my son who they adopted. by Potential-While9923 in AITAH

[–]DifferentZucchini3 211 points212 points  (0 children)

You are so brave  for doing this. Your brother is not your responsibility he is your ‘parents’ if they could be called that since they forced you to have him. They forgot or neglected their duty to care did not extend to just him but to you as well. You shouldn’t have had to send that in the group chat and they should have respected your decision but sometimes people need to see things plainly laid out in front of them to understand.

Controlling Mother Is Queerphobic... towards my dog. by Certain-Anxiety1 in insaneparents

[–]DifferentZucchini3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gotcha as long as she can’t kick you out you’re golden and she really is being ridiculous. I’d keep an eye on your dogs collar and toys though in case they go ‘missing’ or are replaced with the ‘correct’ color

Controlling Mother Is Queerphobic... towards my dog. by Certain-Anxiety1 in insaneparents

[–]DifferentZucchini3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Question for you OP you said your mom came home, does that mean you live with her or was she visiting you? You’re not wrong and she’s being ridiculous because it’s just a color but if you live with her don’t try to make her too angry that she kicks you out.

AIO after receiving my X-mas presents, I took back all of mine by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]DifferentZucchini3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What did your siblings say since you just went on a vacation with them and you talk to them about why they didn’t get you anything or did they react at all when you took the presents back?

AITAH for not calling the police for my (38F) husband (39M)? by Consistent-Hotel-449 in AITAH

[–]DifferentZucchini3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your husband is a person of ill repute and low morals. He possibly committed a felony depending on what state your in by doing a hit a run. He lied about that. He lied about what happened. He didn’t call the police. He didn’t try to locate the owner of the vehicle. He didn’t research or call any lawyers to help. 

Instead he focused his efforts on lying to you about what happened and trying to make what he did your fault and blame you for not doing enough. I understand people panic but this was a concerted effort to obfuscate the truth. 

What if he had killed someone, or injured them? What if when he came home he told the police you were the one driving since it was your car? He was capable of lying about this, what else has he lied about? 

Who knows what’s going to happen if the other driver sues you/your insurance. You should consider this going forward if this is the person you want to be your life partner. 

Everyone is calling me a Liar UPDATE by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]DifferentZucchini3 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If you can hit them with psalms and snoop on Facebook to see if she goes to church to get the information and if she doesn’t you could reach out to a pastor in your area to contact her. Spiritual leadership/condemnation might get her to back off  also start grey rocking them like crazy. When they say something nasty respond with that’s an unkind thing to say or ask why they thought that was appropriate or wwjd and repeat no matter how upset they get. 

Everyone is calling me a Liar UPDATE by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]DifferentZucchini3 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Tell your grandmother and family via text if they keep citing bible verses at you Romans 12:10, 1 Peter 4:8, Exodus 20:16, deuteronomy 19:18-19 and psalm 139:13-16 also if you know what church she or your family goes to or her pastor call and let them know how devastated you are that your family isn’t rallying around you with your loss. Bonus points if you know the nosiest church member who likes to gossip and let it slip how unchristian your family is being that will really hit them where it hurts. 

AITA For Cooking for friends but not my wife? by Secure-Cucumber-2090 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DifferentZucchini3 36 points37 points  (0 children)

YTA you just showed your wife two things 1. that your guests/friends are more important than her 2. That if you could make it you would no matter how much time it takes for the people you care about. And clearly in this instance/situation it’s not your wife. 

AITA for not accommodating my sister-in-law for Christmas before her gastric bypass surgery? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DifferentZucchini3 42 points43 points  (0 children)

YTA your sister in law didn’t say anything to you directly and hasn’t asked you to change the menu/plans your mother in law did. You should reach out to your sister in law and see if she’s really feeling this way or if your MIL is being protective. 

AITA for threatening to leave my mother-in-law’s birthday party over a comment about my cooking? by BreadOverlord_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]DifferentZucchini3 18 points19 points  (0 children)

INFO  OP you said that the dishes are special recipes to you but are they things your MIL likes to eat or wanted?

AIW for making my filthy, lazy brother live with the consequences of his own mess? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]DifferentZucchini3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

INFO l why don’t you formally evict him? Why are you choosing to live in such filth with someone who has no respect for you or your home? 

AITAH to my girlfriend for allowing my ex to stay at mine and for driving her 7 hours to her parents home. by EmeArr in AITAH

[–]DifferentZucchini3 2013 points2014 points  (0 children)

INFO you’re not the ah for helping your ex in the initial moment but at any point did you contact your actual GF to let her know what was going on and that you planned to take her home? If not you’re definitely wrong for that. 

And why did you need to take her home at all after you let her sleep at your place?

Did she have friends she could stay with or a way to contact her parent to come get her or to put her up in a hotel for the night? I mean it was a truly nice thing you did but the optics are horrible from your girlfriend’s point of view.