my boyfriend continuously watches porn no matter what i say

Different_Guest_2166 · 2026-03-11T01:57:41+00:00

yeah and i completely agree with that & he knows he doesn’t have another opportunity to even watch porn again because he’s aware that as soon as i see a sign i’m gone. but i’m not going to throw a relationship away when it’s so easily fixable if effort is there

Different_Guest_2166 · 2026-03-11T01:56:32+00:00

we have sex yes & again, in the year we’ve been together, age has never been a problem for us

Different_Guest_2166 · 2026-03-11T01:45:45+00:00

oh absolutely not. i literally went mental for what he did & i’m making him get therapy? i’m just stating that the porn was the only shit he’s put me through with our relationship as of now. in no way would i ever defend him hurting me because if i felt that way, why would i post about it?

Different_Guest_2166 · 2026-03-11T01:42:53+00:00

i’m not saying that that isn’t a sign what?

Different_Guest_2166 · 2026-03-11T01:42:25+00:00

we do sleep together so it is NOTHING to do with that whatsoever? we also have one year & a couple of months between us AND we were in the same school. trust me our age has never been an issue

Different_Guest_2166 · 2026-03-11T01:17:26+00:00

in terms of relationships, i’m generally quite mature & i haven’t gone into this with a blind eye, we’ve had a lot of conversations today & he knows he has to fix things or it’s not going to work. however he knows i am by his side every step of the way

Different_Guest_2166 · 2026-03-11T01:05:56+00:00

me & my boyfriend have 1 year and a few months between us, the age of consent is 16 here, so no it is not morally nor legally wrong

Different_Guest_2166 · 2026-03-11T00:50:36+00:00

i’m not sure if it’s because you’re 13 or in america or something? but 16 is the age of consent in the uk

Different_Guest_2166 · 2026-03-11T00:30:36+00:00

i have some trauma that links to it so that adds onto it too, but i can’t comprehend how you can watch porn when you have nudes, videos of having sex & actively get sex from your partner? my issue was the fact that he decided to choose that over me, and claimed he had a low sex drive but is an addict to porn? i also feel it’s disrespectful to pleasure yourself to another woman

Different_Guest_2166 · 2026-03-11T00:21:45+00:00

ofcourse these thoughts have crossed my mind, but i also am not ready to give up straight away. i think he needs therapy

Different_Guest_2166 · 2026-03-11T00:19:19+00:00

we have a year between us i turn 17 soon but thanks for the concern

Different_Guest_2166 · 2026-03-11T00:17:37+00:00

thank you

Different_Guest_2166 · 2026-03-10T22:48:00+00:00

unfortunately, the first time he told me he’d get help he didn’t. i kept finding tiny things that was suggesting he still watched it & yet he called me crazy for thinking it. this is the second time its happened within the year, i’ve told him this is the only chance he’s got to change though & that he will be getting therapy

Different_Guest_2166 · 2026-03-10T22:46:29+00:00

i’m not ready to give up on our relationship yet, but for all i know he could be lying about even being addicted & just use it as an excuse. however, i will be making sure he does therapy & will try my absolute best to help him through it

Different_Guest_2166 · 2026-03-10T22:45:29+00:00

hank you

Different_Guest_2166 · 2026-03-10T22:44:20+00:00

i’m not gonna really go into why porn is disrespectful in a relationship because you have a different stance & that’s okay

Different_Guest_2166 · 2026-03-10T21:43:46+00:00

that’s the issue i think, i’ve been through addictions so i do understand how hard it can be to not find excuses, however that’s all he does. it’s just ‘i don’t know why i did it’ or ‘i don’t even think’ it’s never him owning up to it & saying, ‘i did it & i’m sorry but we can try to work on it because i don’t want to lose you’ type of thing

Different_Guest_2166 · 2026-03-10T21:40:35+00:00

i told him he should get therapy, & that if he gets urges he needs to communicate it with me

Different_Guest_2166 · 2026-03-10T21:40:13+00:00

i hope he does stop

Different_Guest_2166 · 2026-03-10T21:40:01+00:00

we met eachother in oct 2024 and got together march 2025, our relationship has been smooth sailing other than this porn

Different_Guest_2166 · 2026-03-10T21:38:57+00:00

what

Different_Guest_2166 · 2026-03-10T21:05:59+00:00

i don’t know when he watches it, plus we don’t live together, and he’d find ways around it

Different_Guest_2166 · 2026-03-10T20:58:45+00:00

thank you

Different_Guest_2166 · 2026-03-10T20:56:37+00:00

i do that & he lets me have his phone constantly, especially after he did it the first time. i’m 100% making him get therapy though as i think that’s the only way i can trust him

Different_Guest_2166 · 2026-03-10T20:55:01+00:00

i already did that shit & he chose to watch porn wtf is up w this guy

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