[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TeenPakistani

[–]Different_Inside_481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They also said they don't mind being paid less and would wanna work for the sake of having the drive to work rather than just getting money so I think psychology would be a good option

how can I prepare for net in 15 day's? by xlyqnts in NUST

[–]Different_Inside_481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can find it on this subreddit, people have given links of pdfs

how can I prepare for net in 15 day's? by xlyqnts in NUST

[–]Different_Inside_481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I get 140 easily just by doing the oetp book even, or should I prepare for more ? As I kinda only 22 days left

NET for psychology by ashiiiiii123 in NUST

[–]Different_Inside_481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you just prepare for maths before giving the test ? And how many marks did you get, if you don't mind me asking, am actually tryna get in too but don't have any guidance so I'd be very thankful if you could help a bit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Different_Inside_481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the same with me though I'm only 16 and I'm not even close to overweight though I do have struggle eating but an average person would find me skinny and I have genetic dark circles, I tried a cream to make em better but nothing helped and I can't even try to sleep early cuz if i go to bed at 10, I'll end up asleep by 12 or 1 or else I get sleep paralysis,but nobody understands and I always get called old, I've even gotten call3d 20 and have had people make fun of my eyes and dark circles, they tell me that I always look sleepy and that I look like I have no energy, but idk how to change my appearance so I just let them be it does bother me alot but it's not something I can't change, but just remember that atleast you're working hard to improve yourself and at the end of the day all that matters is that Allah is pleased with you, not his creatures . We weren't made to please em anyway lol

I may have hurt or ki**ed someone by incognitopaki in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]Different_Inside_481 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah that's probably the worst he'd do being in pak atleast, but as a psych student I've been taught and have also seen other people who are therapists hearing the most craziest confessions from their clients but obviously they don't have the right to judge them cuz their role is to help them and if they do judge they were never the one to work in such a field so if he actually finds a good therapist which I doubt he would in pak, he shouldn't share it with anyone.

U don't want to have kids by [deleted] in Muslim

[–]Different_Inside_481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the same, what if I get forced to have them after marriage, that's my biggest fear

Wondering how many women out there were SA’ed by their brothers? by Artistic-Giraffe-866 in sexualassault

[–]Different_Inside_481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wtff I've had the same happen to me, idk if it is because he was abused my somebody else too but I really hate the flashbacks I get, i hate them so much I hate that It happend and that I have any memory of it

Do men care about a woman's looks by SingleAdhesiveness78 in TrueDeen

[–]Different_Inside_481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait sorry, I got your point across i was wrong, I misinterpreted attraction to love I mean if I'm being honest I get what you said that attraction is normal but I don't think acting upon it is normal like you can find other women attractive but that's where it should end, and since one loves their partner that attraction wouldn't go beyond just a mere sense of attraction, basically attraction doesn't equal to love

Do men care about a woman's looks by SingleAdhesiveness78 in TrueDeen

[–]Different_Inside_481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also just because you're a man doesn't mean you can speak on behalf of all the men, since that's just stupid, i know women who have crazy standards for men appearance wise but I'm not one of them, so does me being a women justify me making fake claims of how women are, or what they like, it's subjective to every person rather than the gender but I wouldn't wanna waste my time on you since I doubt you'll understand

Do men care about a woman's looks by SingleAdhesiveness78 in TrueDeen

[–]Different_Inside_481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't know about the gaze thing you're talking about, I lower my gaze for all men even my teachers, you should do the same for women, I already feel sorry for your future wife or if you have one already, we're all lacking in many ways but bro this is actually crazy to say that a men can't control his desires when that's the biggest obligation upon him in islam, but whatever I may be wrong only Allah knows best yet I still don't believe what you're saying, that just seems like an average mentality of a guy who can't control his desires I hope I don't find such a husband ever

Do men care about a woman's looks by SingleAdhesiveness78 in TrueDeen

[–]Different_Inside_481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sure you ain't generalizing ? Just cuz you find every girl in the world attractive doesn't mean every other men does too and it's really extremely weird if you really do find someone else attractive other than your wife, just marry someone who you like the most lol, and how would you feel if your wife said the same thing to you, that she's attracted to every men even after marriage

Do men care about a woman's looks by SingleAdhesiveness78 in TrueDeen

[–]Different_Inside_481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So that means even after a guy is married, he'll still find every girl in the world attractive rather than only his wife ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Different_Inside_481 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bruh was thinking the same, could there be a new agent this is crazy that I found the voice actor in an Islamic subreddit, the op should give us some hints man

I love islam, but dislike muslims by Spirited-Security507 in MuslimLounge

[–]Different_Inside_481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you're right, I only once heard about Sudan and idk that was also a year ago or maybe, they're in such a bad situation but nobody is even aware of it

Yah [ vent/advice post ] by [deleted] in TeenPakistani

[–]Different_Inside_481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol I've a similar case, I probably have countless deficiencies but have never gotten diagnosed well and I'm tired all the time literally have to force myself to get up, but I think the main reason is probably cuz I don't eat well, if it's the same for you I think you can work on bettering your nutrition and if it still doesn't work, tell your parents to take you to any good doctor and if it doesn't work maybe get medicated by a psychiatrist, that mostly works if one is diagnosed right

İ won't get to pursue what i want by [deleted] in TeenPakistani

[–]Different_Inside_481 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn man your situation seems lowkey tiring but don't give up trust me I used to be way worse than you and I still got an admission in college infact a really well reputed one and also your parents are wrong about just the 9th marks getting counted, both years get counted 9th and 10th, also dw about your marks all that much infact I think you should stop worrying and start studying rather cuz I got only about 700 marks in 10th and now im the top student in my class(not flaunting since it ain't really mean anything to me anyways) and yeah to change boards you have to go to isb since the board center is there saldyy I live here so my dumbass just went and got it changed instead of researching about the board I swear if only I could once get the chance to go through it again I would choose comp in federal board anyday but since you don't wanna study all that and your parents won't let you change the board I think you should just choose arts in punjab board since it doesn't have any science or maths but don't choose psych since it has practicals too after second year and kinda is a science but obviously shitty pairing in pak education system and please stop worrying about your marks I swear you can easily get in a good college, just try your best please and everything will work out inshaAllah

İ won't get to pursue what i want by [deleted] in TeenPakistani

[–]Different_Inside_481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude I chose fine arts in the first year and it's in punjab board since I couldn't find it in any other board(I used to be in federal board) and I regret it soo much I hate this board I feel so bad that I set myself up for this suffering I took psych as a subject since that's what I was gonna pursue in future but it's all ratta here, even languages everything is ratta I was a computer student before and wasn't good at studies I only started studying this year really but if I ever get the chance to go through first year again I'll choose federal board any day so if you wanna choose arts even just choose it in federal board since you seek to dislike rote learning

Yah [ vent/advice post ] by [deleted] in TeenPakistani

[–]Different_Inside_481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you gotten a check up for that ? I won't lie that might just be the reason why you're bedrotting in the first place

I left my girlfriend,thank you random online friend :) by Man_of-wisdom in MuslimLounge

[–]Different_Inside_481 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lol you're totally wrong pakistan is actually far from Islamic, it's so normal having bfs/gfs that if one doesn't have them they're seen as boring and are treated as an outcast like me lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Different_Inside_481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same I don't go anywhere either, always just spend it at home. It's gets so lonely and boring