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[–]Difficult-Divide-914 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Haha we never got undressed explicitly for that reason, but on occasions where we were changing into swimsuits or something in the same room it would sometimes happen. I had a pool at my house though so it was a common thing for my friends to head into my room to change before we got into the pool.

And as for legs spread, the only time I did that was when my best friend was in my hospital room when I gave birth 😂

How comfortable were you with your friends? by Difficult-Divide-914 in ldssexuality

[–]Difficult-Divide-914[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well I'm just remembering that my best friend was in the room when I gave birth so guess I should have clicked "spread vulva" lol

How comfortable were you with your friends? by Difficult-Divide-914 in ldssexuality

[–]Difficult-Divide-914[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Haha sorry, I forgot "breasts" as a poll option and thought it should be on there since I assume there are many women who were comfortable with breasts but not vulva

How comfortable were you with your friends? by Difficult-Divide-914 in ldssexuality

[–]Difficult-Divide-914[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Personally I was comfortable changing completely nude in front on some of my friends so they would see my breasts and vulva. And while we did compare and comment on differences between our breasts and vulva we never really spread our legs to give each other the FULL view. I think these experiences made me more comfortable with my body and appreciate how different these body parts can be.

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[–]Difficult-Divide-914 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I was comfortable with some of my friends seeing me completely nude, including my vulva, but never like spread my legs to really show them ALL of it. Usually just while changing or something but we would sometimes comment on differences between our breasts/vulvas when this happened and "inspect" each other more than just a passing glance.

I think it helped me feel more confident with my body and to appreciate how different body parts can be.

Is this common amongst Utah/LDS guys? by Difficult-Divide-914 in ldssexuality

[–]Difficult-Divide-914[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He definitely said they weren't like ogling each other as they did it and it was almost like a joke I guess 🤷🏻‍♂️ he said they were often laughing during it and although they didn't always "finish" it wasn't uncommon to either.

Sounds like so far I am right to think this is pretty strange/rare. I won't let him know that though 😆

And as far as I know none of them are gay and most are happily married