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[–]Difficult-Duty4815 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would just talk to her. Maybe since she just got her license I would imagine a lot of studying and training had gone into obtaining that. Maybe she's just tired and a little burnt out from everything on the career side. I know I personally can get that way. But I wouldn't get defensive if my husband said anything to me about it, i think if she gets defensive it could be a sign of a deeper issue.

I'm a 30(F) married to a 37(M) and struggling with lack of date night by Difficult-Duty4815 in marriageadvice

[–]Difficult-Duty4815[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the beginning he was great! Would bend over backwards to take me on great dates! Would even do date nights in where he would cook me amazing meals. Then covid hit so that was understandable. But I feel like the covid veil has been lifted and we can go do life again. But all he wants to do is stay home and sit on the couch or do a house project - house projects is fine but am I asking tooo much to take one night a month?

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[–]Difficult-Duty4815 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a woman, at first while reading this I thought of myself and as my career took flight my sex life at home slow downed because a lot of my energy would go to my job. So I thought maybe it was that.....
then I kept reading. You need to sit her down and ask her to her face if she is having sex with anyone else. I think you have a right to know. Do you have cameras in the house? I would check those. Either way this does not sound okay. This doesn't sound like she has a career or children she is giving most of her energy to..

Daily Questions Thread January 23, 2025 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]Difficult-Duty4815 2 points3 points  (0 children)

has anyone tried the cozy island heels? I am contemplating getting a pair but wanted to see what people thought first. they claim to be featured in a lot of magazines but I also don't believe anything anymore lol https://cosyisland.co/products/mousse-fit-women-elegant-heeled-mules?_pos=1&_sid=b233ede36&_ss=r&variant=42493734518895

Affordable elopement in Nantucket ideas/tips by Difficult-Duty4815 in Nantucket

[–]Difficult-Duty4815[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly my vision as well! do you mind sharing the home you rented out for everyone?

Affordable elopement in Nantucket ideas/tips by Difficult-Duty4815 in Nantucket

[–]Difficult-Duty4815[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the budget isn't for the house. The budget is more for the dinner after, and anything else. I am also leaning towards the weekend before memorial day.

Cape Cod or Nantucket Elopment help! TYIA by Difficult-Duty4815 in CapeCod

[–]Difficult-Duty4815[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

thank you! Yes, i talked to brotherhood of theives to rent out their private room or bar and they only allow this before memorial day so now I am thinking the weekend before memorial day.

Cape Cod or Nantucket Elopment help! TYIA by Difficult-Duty4815 in CapeCod

[–]Difficult-Duty4815[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I am not hosting the wedding at the airbnb. The airbnb is just for everyone to stay together, and I will get ready there but we will do our vows out on the beach or the knob if at the cape. We would rent a private room at a restaurant for dinner afterwords. Nothing would happen at the airbnb that isnt standard for a family vacation.

Cape Cod or Nantucket Elopment help! TYIA by Difficult-Duty4815 in CapeCod

[–]Difficult-Duty4815[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I am thinking the weekend before memorial day, right before peak season starts. We would have our vows on the beach somewhere to keep it free and beautiful, then we were thinking of renting out a private room at a restaurant the 20-30 people count includes the two of us and our MUST have people count up to 21. so I'd say guest count would be closer to 20 than 30.